Newbie - FAQ

A preemptory strike! ( Newbie Primer - update )
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Since every day our ranks grow with new enlistments to the hobby and these Newbies bring with them the same questions asked by countless prior Newbies I am compiling a basic primer with links to various questions, answers and subjects commonly asked by freshmen. As more topical subjects come to my attention I will add them to the below list and occasionally “re-post” for the benefit of the newest among us.

Ladies & gentlemen “Hobby on”  

  FR.
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                            ( “Newbie” board use & getting started )


Some simple rules for posting on the Newbie board
Posted by thirsty  , 12/5/2005 8:14:55 AM   [thirsty has 2 reviews]

If you're wondering why your post didn't appear here, I moved 4 posts to other more appropriate boards. Please remember this board is for general questions about the hobby.

Thanks for understanding.

thirsty

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?BoardID=33&SortBy=DateCreated%20desc&SearchType=1&Author=thirsty&DayFrom=30&DayTo=0&MessageID=12804&frmSearch=1


Please Read (Especially Newbies): Some Updated Posting Guidelines
Posted by Girl Next Door  , 11/30/2004 7:06:53 PM  
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewMsg.asp?MessageID=118059&boardID=12&page=1

Re:PUTTING UP PIC
Posted by thirsty  , 1/24/2006 1:19:09 PM   [thirsty has 2 reviews]
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=14115&boardID=33&page=1

Emoticon Symbols
Posted by The Advisor, 2/19/2006 12:58:59 PM  
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=14737&boardID=33&page=1

                                        ( Some basics )

The list is ever growing. ( A list of common acronyms )
Posted by FreedomRider225  , 11/29/2005 8:34:14 AM   [FreedomRider225 has 33 reviews]
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=13139&boardID=33&page=1


Screening, The necessary evil.
Posted by FreedomRider225  , 10/30/2005 10:22:07 PM   [FreedomRider225 has 33 reviews]
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=12664&boardID=33&page=5



Schedule (& rant-help, my oasis in the city is sinking! )
Posted by CarnalCourtesan  , 1/26/2006 4:55:25 PM  
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=71694&boardID=2&page=1
Get accustomed to it. "Independents" do it also
Posted by Againwiththisguestion, 2/9/2006 5:45:34 PM  
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=14460&boardID=33&page=1





                                               (STD issues)
DATY safety question
Posted by ******** 12/1/2005 11:07:27 AM
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=13180&boardID=33&page=1


BBBJ,DATY same questions every week it seems.
Posted by MainlineGuy, 12/22/2005 1:25:15 PM  
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=166769&boardID=12&page=1

TER is NOT a good place to find out info about STDs.
Posted by Mr. Info, 12/19/2005 4:07:08 PM  
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=13464&boardID=33&page=1


                                   ( multi-hour appointments )

length of appointment question
Posted by ******  , 12/2/2005 7:51:17 PM  
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=13216&boardID=33&page=1

& the answer!

Questions to ask yourself
Posted by Carrie_of_London  , 12/3/2005 1:05:55 AM   [See my TER reviews]
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=13222&boardID=33&page=1



                         ( Review etiquette and conduct considerations )

TMI (Too Much information) vs an entertaining/informative review.
Posted by FreedomRider225  , 11/30/2005 2:32:50 PM   [FreedomRider225 has 33 reviews]
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=13172&boardID=33&page=1


Keeping everyone’s profile LOW
Posted by AnOunceOfPrevention, 1/13/2006 7:11:39 PM  
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=13905&boardID=33&page=1

Are you altruistic to a fault?
Posted by AnOunceOfPrevention, 2/3/2006 5:41:49 PM  
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=14318&boardID=33&page=1

Newbie's first. (So long, cherry)
Posted by ThatDanGuy  , 2/17/2006 3:17:23 AM  
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=14670&boardID=33&page=1

An example of what NOT to disclose in your reviews.
Posted by AnOunceOfPrevention, 2/23/2006 1:22:42 PM  
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=14837&boardID=33&page=1




                                       
                                          ( Things to consider ? )

Time to Metrosexualize yourselves (A public service message)
Posted by Sylvester Skidmark, 11/4/2005 11:37:13 PM
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=12760&boardID=33&page=4


Forget your male ego and sit down.
Posted by Oliver Overspray, 11/7/2005 12:21:19 AM  
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=12786&boardID=33&page=4


Communication technology Luddites take note.
Posted by AintFuckinRocketScience, 12/3/2005 12:24:24 PM
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=13236&boardID=33&page=1


                                                ( Expectations )

What to expect??
Posted by ******  , 11/27/2005 11:02:28 PM  

If they say "275 for a Real F/S Girl Friend Experience" can I assume Greek is included? I don't want to be left hanging.

Re:What to expect??
Posted by jjackflash  , 11/28/2005 6:41:07 AM   [jjackflash has 16 reviews]
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=13123&boardID=33&page=2




                                                ( Agency issues )

Agencies
Posted by ******  , 12/19/2005 9:35:21 PM
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=13467&boardID=33&page=1



                                        ( Communications or lack of )

Providers not responding to email??
Posted by da_kid  , 12/10/2005 6:09:07 PM  
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=13372&boardID=33&page=1

On the topic of breaking appointments without so much as a call.
Posted by trustno20  , 3/4/2006 10:51:20 PM   [trustno20 has 11 reviews]
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=174639&boardID=12&page=1


                                      ( Outsmarting/avoiding the ROBs )

Upselling
Posted by jerg  , 12/26/2005 5:24:51 PM   [jerg has 1 review]
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=13539&boardID=33&page=1


                                         (definite No–No’s)

Price haggling/negotiating
Posted by OldSchoolBrutha  , 1/31/2006 8:32:59 PM  
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=14263&boardID=33&page=1


                                   ( supplementary reading)

Many questions answered.
Posted by ItsAlimentary, 1/22/2006 12:00:43 PM  
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=14070&boardID=33&page=1

http://www.sex.perkel.com/escort/




-- Modified on 3/5/2006 11:10:55 AM

Not only for the newbies but the old heads as well. I am going thru the threads for a refresher,thanks for the information.

As I see it, you have painted ALL agency's with the same brush as usual. I have observed this newbie board for awhile and info given here should be fair and balanced since we are dealing with NEWbies. I see much too much negativety being posted about agency's, as IF they are all the same. They are not, and you know it. I wish all the "informative helpfull hobbyists" here would recognize how ignorant it sounds when trying ( I assume)  to present a fair and balanced "Primer"  to be so completely unbalanced and uninformed.  There have been innumerous posts made about great agency's but, it seems you have found and linked only to 1 negative. You also leave out completely Bordellos IF one is so very, very lucky to find one. A dying breed for sure but, still here they do exist, .
Do ALL agency's keep that kind of info at hand ? NO, NO, and NOPE.
tyvm,P.T.

I had to re-read the post on agencies and it didn't sound like they were bashing them. Maybe with your clarification on the information kept we can add it to his list.

Several copies were also sent to various Governmental agencies in Washington DC and I will also have a copy officially recorded with my local County Recorders office along with proof of its permanent addition to the "Primer" so as to preclude any possible future legal action by the ACLU, NCOC, NAACP, NOW, NAMBLA and the B'nai Brith Society.

-- Modified on 3/5/2006 5:16:46 PM

I'll gladly (and gratefully) include them in the "Primer"

 My intent IS and always WAS to merely avail easy access to various subject matter most commonly brought up or needed by the Newbs.
I have consciously sought to bring a balanced POV to this primer since I began compiling it over 4 months ago. My control however over the content of the various posts whithin a thread is quite non-existant.  

  FR.

and I am sorry that I may have sounded harsh but, I see it way too much. people poisoning other peoples minds with misinformation. I hear the agency's in L.A. and Vegas truly suck. Try looking into ATL or Miami or NYC and you WILL find many posts that discuss the great agency's to be found there.
tyvm,P.T.


P.S. LNQRbigdaddy Howdy but, that link was not complimentry and only discussed how "agency's" keep peoples info. Indi's do it too.
I personally Do Not keep any info at all what so ever.
tyvm,P.T.

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