If a lady does not allow DATY, should that affect her TER score? I noticed it's not listed in the "above 7" scoring criteria. But many men really enjoy DATY so if she doesn't allow that, seems a 9 or 10 score may not be warranted (while "only CBJ" does limit her score) . Thoughts?

If you look at the "services provided" part of any review, the review must indicate whether "touch pussy" "on the inside" and "lick pussy" are available. These are some of the acts included in the grading advice which refers to the fact that a score can only be a maximum of 7 unless further acts (which are specified) were provided.
I agree it's not terribly clear though.

Disappointed she didn't offer DATY, give her a 6, or a 5, or....whatever you feel she deserves. Got a bbbj but it was lame, you don't have to give a +1.

BBJ + DFK is eligible for the exact same max score as BBJ + DFK + vaginal sex.

I don’t think it should automatically count. You wanted DATY and you were disappointed. You should make it count. Another guy may not even want DATY and it shouldn’t mean the lady automatically gets a strike, especially if it is on her menu. But this is my gripe about the current grading system. Ladies who offer services get lower scores when clients don’t want said services.

clients have railed at TER to change the system for more than a decade on main and on the suggestion and policy board. Deaf ears, and the TER trundles right along unchanged.