I think it all depends on a ladies standards, and reasons for being here (whether it is a hobby, their lively hood or complete desperation) There are several things that are apparent when looking at a website that tell you those specific things. I am here purely because I choose to be. It isn't because of need, so my standards and preferences may be completely different then someone who is all business. I very much enjoy my friends and desire an emotional bond with them. So, I don't just accept a new friend just because they're not L.E. or didn't rob/hurt a reference. But, like I said..everyone's standards are different. I only see those I feel a connection with, so I am not comfortable with a vague response and someone who doesn't actually answer my questions. ![]()
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Most ladies ask for 2-3 references when I request a first date.
I am finding that some are not responding to the providers request
or giving short answers like "He's Okay"
I know you are busy but if you could please respond in a more timely fashion I would appreciate it.
Are you jealous that I am seeing other ladies? Do guys get jealous as much as you?
Your thoughts if any?
Follow the ansers U got on the GB Board
They all hate U and so do we
Just Fuckin Leave
Jealousy is probably the wrong word. If the brevity of the "He's Okay" response signifies anything beyond what Cayden suggested (and I don't think it would under most circumstances) it would have to do with the Providers' competition for a finite client base. I can't imagine jealousy ever entering the picture
Very nice place in North End. Are you Jealous. LOL
this is an interesting topic.
I have never had an issue giving references and similar to Cayden Vaughn, I will say "he's okay" if that's all that's needed to express the fact that he's safe. I will offer more, when necessary, but I always give references b/c there's no jealousy when it comes to clients (if we were talking about my boyfriend, that would be another story!).
However, angelexotic has thrown a wrench into this whole thread by admitting she hasn't given references or whitelists to guys she wants to keep to herself similar to her clients who want to keep her all to themselves, so your OP is a valid one.
It will be interesting to hear what other ladies think.
good post
AND FOR RECORD. I AM GUILTY AS CHARGED I GAVE A BAD REFERENCE OUT FOR A GOOD CIENT OMCE. TERRITORIAL DOUCHE, YES , YES, ALL ME, GUILTY AS CHARGED, N ANOTHER I TRULY LIKED N WOULD LKE TO HOG TIE N THROW N BALL GAG N KEEP IN CLOSET FOR MY OWN PERSONAL PLEASURE WHEN I NEED HIM, .. FUCK NO I AINT WHITE LISTIN HIM, .
DAMMIT, I SURE AS HELL DONT WANNA SHARE HIM, DAMIT ALL. ...............HELLS NO. I AM DEF GUILTY OF BEIN A JEALOUS CORRUPT PROVIDER I HATE MY REGULRS PLUGGIN OTHER GIRLS ON HERE ONE OF EM, I LIKE HIM HE IS SEXY, HE PLUGGED EVERY OTHER PROVIDER IN WORLD, HERE TO CHINE, NEVER WOULD PLKUG ME, NEVER WOULD REVIEW ME,
IT PISSED ME OFF TO NBO END, HE WAS A MAD PLAY BOY CONSTANT REVIEWS, FINALLY HE REVIEWED ME,M IKEPT PMIN HIM,,,,,,SOOO PLAY BOY WHERE S MY REVIEW, ??? HUH ?
YEAH HE LUGS ALL THESE OTHER LADIES NON STOP, BASTARD, NEVER PLUGG ME, WELL, FINALLY HE REVIEW ME,................AFTER LIKE WHt 2 year? n ooh i got best score of any girls he seen, every time i ask he says, i dont wanna share u>.............those married guys r the worst they r nmore possesive tha the single guys
Uh, oh! Looks like Angel stopped using her new iPad to post and has fallen off the Punctuation Train! At least she's honest! (also hot).
I have never had an issue giving references and similar to Cayden Vaughn, I will say "he's okay" if that's all that's needed to express the fact that he's safe. I will offer more, when necessary, but I always give references b/c there's no jealousy when it comes to clients (if we were talking about my boyfriend, that would be another story!).
However, angelexotic has thrown a wrench into this whole thread by admitting she hasn't given references or whitelists to guys she wants to keep to herself similar to her clients who want to keep her all to themselves, so your OP is a valid one.
It will be interesting to hear what other ladies think.
good post
AND FOR RECORD. I AM GUILTY AS CHARGED I GAVE A BAD REFERENCE OUT FOR A GOOD CIENT OMCE. TERRITORIAL DOUCHE, YES , YES, ALL ME, GUILTY AS CHARGED, N ANOTHER I TRULY LIKED N WOULD LKE TO HOG TIE N THROW N BALL GAG N KEEP IN CLOSET FOR MY OWN PERSONAL PLEASURE WHEN I NEED HIM, .. FUCK NO I AINT WHITE LISTIN HIM, .
DAMMIT, I SURE AS HELL DONT WANNA SHARE HIM, DAMIT ALL. ...............HELLS NO. I AM DEF GUILTY OF BEIN A JEALOUS CORRUPT PROVIDER I HATE MY REGULRS PLUGGIN OTHER GIRLS ON HERE ONE OF EM, I LIKE HIM HE IS SEXY, HE PLUGGED EVERY OTHER PROVIDER IN WORLD, HERE TO CHINE, NEVER WOULD PLKUG ME, NEVER WOULD REVIEW ME,
IT PISSED ME OFF TO NBO END, HE WAS A MAD PLAY BOY CONSTANT REVIEWS, FINALLY HE REVIEWED ME,M IKEPT PMIN HIM,,,,,,SOOO PLAY BOY WHERE S MY REVIEW, ??? HUH ?
YEAH HE LUGS ALL THESE OTHER LADIES NON STOP, BASTARD, NEVER PLUGG ME, WELL, FINALLY HE REVIEW ME,................AFTER LIKE WHt 2 year? n ooh i got best score of any girls he seen, every time i ask he says, i dont wanna share u>.............those married guys r the worst they r nmore possesive tha the single guys
It is a lot more than punctuation, it must be the generational language divide. I can only decipher about 60-75% of it. I agree, though, she really is hot!
Possibly a combination of both jealousy and insecurity.
She says on her site how she'll only accept other "mature and curvy" references and won't accept any provider references under the age of 30.
It makes no sense whatsoever to not accept a provider reference because of her age. If an established and well reviewed provider can confirm that a client she saw is safe, why does it matter if she is under 30? What matters is how established, reliable, and trustworthy that provider is.
I am finding that some are not responding to the providers request
or giving short answers like "He's Okay"
I know you are busy but if you could please respond in a more timely fashion I would appreciate it.
Are you jealous that I am seeing other ladies? Do guys get jealous as much as you?
Your thoughts if any?
First...if a reference just says "he's ok" I don't accept that reference. I don't feel that a vague response is safe for anyone. I'm not talking about intimate details..I'm talking about habits,demeanor,etc. I ask very specific questions, and I don't see just anyone. If the reference can't remember then she obviously has only seen him once/been too long and one of my pre requisites is seeing gentleman who keep in touch, and desire to actually get to know me. On the other hand, I am happy to give detailed references! I don't feel jealous at all.
I am finding that some are not responding to the providers request
or giving short answers like "He's Okay"
I know you are busy but if you could please respond in a more timely fashion I would appreciate it.
Are you jealous that I am seeing other ladies? Do guys get jealous as much as you?
Your thoughts if any?
I think it all depends on a ladies standards, and reasons for being here (whether it is a hobby, their lively hood or complete desperation) There are several things that are apparent when looking at a website that tell you those specific things. I am here purely because I choose to be. It isn't because of need, so my standards and preferences may be completely different then someone who is all business. I very much enjoy my friends and desire an emotional bond with them. So, I don't just accept a new friend just because they're not L.E. or didn't rob/hurt a reference. But, like I said..everyone's standards are different. I only see those I feel a connection with, so I am not comfortable with a vague response and someone who doesn't actually answer my questions. ![]()
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