: Boston Discussion : Re: Please do this here

escalade1964 65 Reviews 1209 reads

posted 13 years ago

1 / 15

Are you jealous?

Most ladies ask for 2-3 references when I request a first date.

I am finding that some are not responding to the providers request
or giving short answers like "He's Okay"

I know you are busy but if you could please respond in a more timely fashion I would appreciate it.

Are you jealous that I am seeing other ladies? Do guys get jealous as much as you?

Your thoughts if any?

péineas 1023 reads

posted 13 years ago

2 / 15

Please do this here

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Related Link: Just leave you assclown

Realtiycheck 812 reads

posted 13 years ago

3 / 15

Re: Please do this here

Follow the ansers U got on the GB Board
They all hate U and so do we
Just Fuckin Leave

Beefaroni 682 reads

posted 13 years ago

4 / 15

Jealous... wrong word

Jealousy is probably the wrong word. If the brevity of the "He's Okay" response signifies anything beyond what Cayden suggested (and I don't think it would under most circumstances) it would have to do with the Providers' competition for a finite client base. I can't imagine jealousy ever entering the picture

sparkyusa 10 Reviews 598 reads

posted 13 years ago

5 / 15

What time is dinner,and where EOM

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escalade1964 65 Reviews 701 reads

posted 13 years ago

6 / 15

Re: What time is dinner,and where EOM

Very nice place in North End. Are you Jealous. LOL

WondersOfTheWrld 969 reads

posted 13 years ago

7 / 15

Based on angelexotic's response, you asked a great question. Disregard any hate b/c

this is an interesting topic.

I have never had an issue giving references and similar to Cayden Vaughn, I will say "he's okay" if that's all that's needed to express the fact that he's safe. I will offer more, when necessary, but I always give references b/c there's no jealousy when it comes to clients (if we were talking about my boyfriend, that would be another story!).

However, angelexotic has thrown a wrench into this whole thread by admitting she hasn't given references or whitelists to guys she wants to keep to herself similar to her clients who want to keep her all to themselves, so your OP is a valid one.

It will be interesting to hear what other ladies think.

good post

Posted By: angelexotic

THE P411 N DC WHERE WELL, IF YOUR BEST DUDE IS NOW MIA N ALL SUDDEN ALL U SEE IS HIS NEW VISIT IS VISABLE ON P411 OR DC. UM HEEELO, YES ITL CAUSE BASTY N MAJOR PROBLEMS, N YES PAUL. I HAD PEOPLE ERSONALLY MESSAGE ME WHOM APPARENTLY R UM YES INTO YOU TO SAY LEAST, N PRETEND THEY WERE FOLLOWIN UP ON SHIT BUTJUST UM CHECKIN UP ON U N WHAT YOU UP TOO. . BASICALLY.
AND FOR RECORD. I AM GUILTY AS CHARGED I GAVE A BAD REFERENCE OUT FOR A GOOD CIENT OMCE. TERRITORIAL DOUCHE, YES , YES, ALL ME, GUILTY AS CHARGED, N ANOTHER I TRULY LIKED N WOULD LKE TO HOG TIE N THROW N BALL GAG N KEEP IN CLOSET FOR MY OWN PERSONAL PLEASURE WHEN I NEED HIM, .. FUCK NO I AINT WHITE LISTIN HIM, .
DAMMIT, I SURE AS HELL DONT WANNA SHARE HIM, DAMIT ALL. ...............HELLS NO. I AM DEF GUILTY OF BEIN A JEALOUS CORRUPT PROVIDER I HATE MY REGULRS PLUGGIN OTHER GIRLS ON HERE ONE OF EM, I LIKE HIM HE IS SEXY, HE PLUGGED EVERY OTHER PROVIDER IN WORLD, HERE TO CHINE, NEVER WOULD PLKUG ME, NEVER WOULD REVIEW ME,
IT PISSED ME OFF TO NBO END, HE WAS A MAD PLAY BOY CONSTANT REVIEWS, FINALLY HE REVIEWED ME,M IKEPT PMIN HIM,,,,,,SOOO PLAY BOY WHERE S MY REVIEW, ??? HUH ?
YEAH HE LUGS ALL THESE OTHER LADIES NON STOP, BASTARD, NEVER PLUGG ME, WELL, FINALLY HE REVIEW ME,................AFTER LIKE WHt 2 year? n ooh i got best score of any girls he seen, every time i ask he says, i dont wanna share u>.............those married guys r the worst they r nmore possesive tha the single guys

Businesses 22 Reviews 699 reads

posted 13 years ago

8 / 15

I once saw a provider say that she won't accept references from young, pretty providers.

Possibly a combination of both jealousy and insecurity.

She says on her site how she'll only accept other "mature and curvy" references and won't accept any provider references under the age of 30.

It makes no sense whatsoever to not accept a provider reference because of her age. If an established and well reviewed provider can confirm that a client she saw is safe, why does it matter if she is under 30? What matters is how established, reliable, and trustworthy that provider is.

Posted By: escalade1964

Most ladies ask for 2-3 references when I request a first date.

I am finding that some are not responding to the providers request
or giving short answers like "He's Okay"

I know you are busy but if you could please respond in a more timely fashion I would appreciate it.

Are you jealous that I am seeing other ladies? Do guys get jealous as much as you?

Your thoughts if any?

RealityBites 685 reads

posted 13 years ago

9 / 15

Brother, is that you? (E)

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PenleyDuke See my TER Reviews 639 reads

posted 13 years ago

10 / 15

Re: Brother, is that you? (E)

That was funny shit

inicky46 61 Reviews 674 reads

posted 13 years ago

11 / 15

Re: Based on angelexotic's response, you asked a great question. Disregard any hate b/c

Uh, oh! Looks like Angel stopped using her new iPad to post and has fallen off the Punctuation Train! At least she's honest! (also hot).

Posted By: WondersOfTheWrld

this is an interesting topic.

I have never had an issue giving references and similar to Cayden Vaughn, I will say "he's okay" if that's all that's needed to express the fact that he's safe. I will offer more, when necessary, but I always give references b/c there's no jealousy when it comes to clients (if we were talking about my boyfriend, that would be another story!).

However, angelexotic has thrown a wrench into this whole thread by admitting she hasn't given references or whitelists to guys she wants to keep to herself similar to her clients who want to keep her all to themselves, so your OP is a valid one.

It will be interesting to hear what other ladies think.

good post

Posted By: angelexotic

THE P411 N DC WHERE WELL, IF YOUR BEST DUDE IS NOW MIA N ALL SUDDEN ALL U SEE IS HIS NEW VISIT IS VISABLE ON P411 OR DC. UM HEEELO, YES ITL CAUSE BASTY N MAJOR PROBLEMS, N YES PAUL. I HAD PEOPLE ERSONALLY MESSAGE ME WHOM APPARENTLY R UM YES INTO YOU TO SAY LEAST, N PRETEND THEY WERE FOLLOWIN UP ON SHIT BUTJUST UM CHECKIN UP ON U N WHAT YOU UP TOO. . BASICALLY.
AND FOR RECORD. I AM GUILTY AS CHARGED I GAVE A BAD REFERENCE OUT FOR A GOOD CIENT OMCE. TERRITORIAL DOUCHE, YES , YES, ALL ME, GUILTY AS CHARGED, N ANOTHER I TRULY LIKED N WOULD LKE TO HOG TIE N THROW N BALL GAG N KEEP IN CLOSET FOR MY OWN PERSONAL PLEASURE WHEN I NEED HIM, .. FUCK NO I AINT WHITE LISTIN HIM, .
DAMMIT, I SURE AS HELL DONT WANNA SHARE HIM, DAMIT ALL. ...............HELLS NO. I AM DEF GUILTY OF BEIN A JEALOUS CORRUPT PROVIDER I HATE MY REGULRS PLUGGIN OTHER GIRLS ON HERE ONE OF EM, I LIKE HIM HE IS SEXY, HE PLUGGED EVERY OTHER PROVIDER IN WORLD, HERE TO CHINE, NEVER WOULD PLKUG ME, NEVER WOULD REVIEW ME,
IT PISSED ME OFF TO NBO END, HE WAS A MAD PLAY BOY CONSTANT REVIEWS, FINALLY HE REVIEWED ME,M IKEPT PMIN HIM,,,,,,SOOO PLAY BOY WHERE S MY REVIEW, ??? HUH ?
YEAH HE LUGS ALL THESE OTHER LADIES NON STOP, BASTARD, NEVER PLUGG ME, WELL, FINALLY HE REVIEW ME,................AFTER LIKE WHt 2 year? n ooh i got best score of any girls he seen, every time i ask he says, i dont wanna share u>.............those married guys r the worst they r nmore possesive tha the single guys

TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 672 reads

posted 13 years ago

12 / 15

Saw a provider publicly admit she would only give references to chicks she thought were hot lol -e-

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Sexy Gymnast See my TER Reviews 682 reads

posted 13 years ago

13 / 15

Not at all?!

First...if a reference just says "he's ok" I don't accept that reference. I don't feel that a vague response is safe for anyone. I'm not talking about intimate details..I'm talking about habits,demeanor,etc. I ask very specific questions, and I don't see just anyone. If the reference can't remember then she obviously has only seen him once/been too long and one of my pre requisites is seeing gentleman who keep in touch, and desire to actually get to know me. On the other hand, I am happy to give detailed references! I don't feel jealous at all.

Posted By: escalade1964

Most ladies ask for 2-3 references when I request a first date.

I am finding that some are not responding to the providers request
or giving short answers like "He's Okay"

I know you are busy but if you could please respond in a more timely fashion I would appreciate it.

Are you jealous that I am seeing other ladies? Do guys get jealous as much as you?

Your thoughts if any?

Beefaroni 657 reads

posted 13 years ago

14 / 15

Re: Based on angelexotic's response, you asked a great question. Disregard any hate b/c

It is a lot more than punctuation, it must be the generational language divide. I can only decipher about 60-75% of it. I agree, though, she really is hot!

Sexy Gymnast See my TER Reviews 696 reads

posted 13 years ago

15 / 15

Thoughts:

I think it all depends on a ladies standards, and reasons for being here (whether it is a hobby, their lively hood or complete desperation) There are several things that are apparent when looking at a website that tell you those specific things. I am here purely because I choose to be. It isn't because of need, so my standards and preferences may be completely different then someone who is all business. I very much enjoy my friends and desire an emotional bond with them. So, I don't just accept a new friend just because they're not L.E. or didn't rob/hurt a reference. But, like I said..everyone's standards are different. I only see those I feel a connection with, so I am not comfortable with a vague response and someone who doesn't actually answer my questions.

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