Washington DC

Used to. Now I don't care.
exoticgemsent See Agency Profile 1336 reads
posted
1 / 8

So (hops onto the soap box) here goes nothing.
Today I had a call from a client who had about 20 or so reviews.  One of his reviews he gave a lady a low score in her looks, and the a horribly low score for her overall performance.  When I went back to check the lady out she 14 pages of awesome reviews.  When I went to read his review of her he said some overly childish things.

- Her vagina had a horrible odor I munched away anyway...who says that...

Upon further looking into his reviews he had a history of scoring low on ladies. So either he chooses low quality ladies or he's harsh on women.

Fellas this was just the initial part of my screening looking through his reviews TRUST i went no further.  

Ladies do any of you look at a gents reviews during the screening process?

l-o-l 668 reads
posted
2 / 8

I used to be hyper sensitive about my reviews now I don't care.

I know who I am and what I offer.  My pictures are accurate, my reviews are accurate.

All of the clients who need to get on the internet and play martyr or as though they are the most refined connoisseur of women (most of whom would never look at them in real life) can kiss my ass.
My service is for real men with a great deal of sense who are in need of a good woman who looks like me and serves it up like me.

I'm no longer afraid of the review process any longer.

nitlion4 30 Reviews 419 reads
posted
3 / 8

Your concern about extremely low ratings is  valid.  Good reviews are certainly one factor in your success.  Equally valid is the other "I know who I am; let the chips fall where they may" attitude.  As a client, I hope you do read all my reviews.  Not as to whether I'm an easy or hard rater, but to learn something more about me.  My ratings, by the way, are consistently high, but I don't consider myself as easy rater as much as a thorough researcher.  Each lady I see has been selected because I believe she is quite well suited to  please me.  I haven't really missed yet.

I read every review of each provider before I ever decide to make an appointment.  In doing so, I've often come across some much lower reviews.  More often than not, I conclude that the guy had such a bad attitude toward women in general or providers in particular or even toward himself that if I were a provider I'd never consider seeing the jerk.  Your case sounds similar.

I recently had a very pleasant experience with regard to providers reading reviews.  This particular lady, or at least her assistant, had read my reviews, and she tailored our session specifically to please me based on my reviews.  Now understand, I'm not particularly demanding nor do I have any off-the-wall fetish, but I especailly appreciated the extra time and effort that it took to do that.

hound_dog69 41 Reviews 984 reads
posted
4 / 8

Trust me that most reasonable guys will read that one review much aston did. An anomaly in otherwise good reviews.

The importance of reading reviews carefully cannot be stressed enough. I fell into a pit with a very hot provider with a few good reviews. What I missed was a consistent message that she ran a scripted session with 2 minutes of this followed by 2 minutes of that, and no MSOG in an hour session.

She got by on her looks, IMO, and failed to notice. The pattern. She was also did not have a whole lot of reviews at the time.

Bottom-line, most serious TER clients can read beyond the sheer numbers and read between the sheets, as it were. Don't sweat the odd bad review, even if it unjustified.

If you focus on providing a consistent level of service,  that will serve you well in the end.

bertlancaster 92 Reviews 773 reads
posted
5 / 8

some people are like oil and water they just don't mix Me i am pretty easy to please. i keep my reviews straight no BS . Guy who review harshly may have other issues or unrealistic expectations for their appointment. i have to admit in the beginning i had these lofty versions of what was going to happen in my head But it didn't so now i go in with no plan I have been sort of lucky Met a couple of world rockers who really are one of a kind  and a bunch of cool girls and a couple not so cool girls too.
i think reviewing Harshly just for spite make a fool out of the reviewer. if you are going to put a low score at least be realistic about. everybody has an off day just don't make it personal  or public . if you are hard to please tell them up front i would rather stay home than go on a bad outing

docalanduval 4 Reviews 542 reads
posted
6 / 8

Posted By: SophieSimone[/username I'm willing to take the chance to see if we have chemistry, and yes, risk getting a bad review.

A low score isn't the end of the world. Our reviews don't define us. Feel free to go through my pages and pages of glowing reviews, there are a few sprinkled in that are quite harsh. I could care less, because as a woman I'm much more then a number on an escorts review board. It's impossible to please everyone, we would drive ourselves crazy if we tried.

Most gentlemen are smart enough to read between the lines when it comes to reviews.

xoxo Sophie
Sophie is so right.  I've made appointments with providers who had some negative reviews, because the reviewer didn't sound reasonable.  Later, when the experience of meeting her and experiencing her personality was so enriching, I was always glad to have discounted him.  I've never said, "Damn... I should have known better."  

On the other other hand, consistently poor reviews told in a believable way, should be a wake up call for the reviewer to make some changes.

DaveMaxis 15 Reviews 1157 reads
posted
7 / 8

I used to love posting reviews.

Then I hit a wrong button and gave a gal a lower rating by accident.  Since I wanted to see her again, We negotiated another visit and another new and better review.

Then I changed my policy to asking first if they wanted reviews and to what extent they wanted details.

Then I went to the trouble of drafting my reviews, and let them comment before I posted.

Finally I posted an honest review about one gal that was outed for using fake pictures.  When I saw her I thought that the shots had been glamourized, later finding out someone located the true source of her photos.

I posted a nice review, but said she used fake pics.

I came under attack from her for a week.  She looked up my prior reviews, emailed a bunch of ladies, really tried to ruin it for me.

She said she had my license plate from a surveillance camera near her house.  She said she would turn me in as a bad client, etc.

Somehow another gal straightened her out.  The other board dropped my review, she said she was sorry, and we all moved on.

So, what is a guy to do?

He meets a nice lady.  She wants great reviews.  He wants to help her get the word out.

Yet, he has his own integrity to watch.  If every new gal becomes "Best in a lifetime!" then his memory is too short, or dementia is beginning to kick in.

Now, I just don't do reviews, unless she brings it up, and I allow her to give the okay to every word I have used.

Also, I have become a little selfish.

I want to keep my ATF to myself.  I found her, I want to keep her.

Bottom line - If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all, - except in the South, where you can say anything you want about anybody, as long as you close your remarks with "Bless their heart"

As in her kitty had a very bad odor - Bless Her heart

 :-)

balto 27 Reviews 315 reads
posted
8 / 8

most guys look at reviews in the aggregate.
Meaning we tend to drop off the really low scores and the really high ones, or just average them out.

If a girl has 20 9/9 reviews a 10/10 isn't so out of place, but a 5/6 would be. Same goes for a girl who is mostly 7s if I see a 10/10 on her I'll probably disregard it. Even those that I do disregard, I will still read the review to find out if the text tells us why he scored her low or high.

If he scored her high because she ass-fucked him with a strap-on, I may be inclined to disregard that review. Same goes for low scores, if the story says he hates tattoos and scored her appearance low for that, I'll disregard it.  I like tats.

Bottom line is don't put too much weight into one review.

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