and maybe you will need to keep your toiletries somewhere in an overnight bag in the room. Very sad but true....and I'm sorry this happened to you.
Just a little rant that I had to put out here tonight. Now, I'm not much of a complainer and am very easy going. Most gentleman that I see will absolutely tip if you've done something above and beyond to make them happy. For example buying a leather outfit because it turns them on, or taking the time to tease your hair to the high heavens because they have an 80's fetish (yes that HAS happened). And that's very considerate and while not necessarily expected - it is the gentlemanly thing to do, and VERY appreciated. I have even had gentleman accidentally rip my clothing off, and then offer to compensate me for it. And I appreciate that greatly of course.
Now.. I had a gentleman see me tonight, and while their were no special requests or outfits bought or broken, their was another issue. I always keep my personal hygiene products put away when I have company, except mouthwash and essentials he may need (hotel shampoo/body wash). Toward the end of our appointment, he excused himself to shower and clean up. He took about 10-15 minutes which I thought was a tad excessive but hey - maybe he had somewhere to be?
After he left, I went into the bathroom to take a shower myself only to find that my product bag was open and in the shower were my shampoo and conditioner, body wash AND loofah, foot file, face scrub and to boot my razor is no where to be seen. To make matters worse, he managed to (drop?) break the top of my shampoo bottle and what was once a full $20 bottle of shampoo was no more than a travel sized amount in a sad broken bottle. And I did mention that he stole my razor right?
Now, I do find it a very personal invasion to not only go through my closed bag, but to feel free to use all of my personal products inside. At the VERY VERY least, he could have mentioned that he broke my bottle and offered to replace it seeing as it was very expensive and will now cost me an unexpected trip to the store in hopes they have it.
My question (Sorry for the novel) is this: Ladies - have you ever experienced something along the same lines where a gentleman will help himself to things that he is clearly not offered? And on the flip side of that token - Gentlemen - Do you use the ladies products if they are in the shower, or bathroom or consider those off limits?
Needless to say, all of those items will now be kept out of the bathroom, but it's a sad sad day when a man will steal a woman's razor. Geez.
Xoxo, Shelby
Have you e-mailed him to express your dismay? Perhaps he will apologize and offer to pay for it. I will NEVER use a woman's hygiene products. I sure don't want any scent of a woman on me when I go home to my SO.
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Just going by what we've heard, he seems like a shady intrusive guy. Granted the broken bottle was probably an accident, but it happened while he was rummaging through her stuff and picking out a souvenir to take home. Nothing accidental about that. If he didn't bring it up at the time, then you can probably expect any inquiry to result in dead silence or flat-out denial. Or maybe some vague promises of "I'll get ya next time" for a session that will never happen.
This isn't exactly an industry built on honesty and chivalry, and this guy seems less reputable than most.
Actually I did send him a text message shortly afterwards, and the reply I got was this: "I'm not sure what you're talking about, are you sure it wasn't another client? Had a great time"
So.... yeah 
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Geez-what you ladies have to put up with! I mean that's just creepy....and he denies it afterwards? Like you aren't able to figure out that he did it....
Yeah I definitely found it offensive that he suggested it might be another client... as if I didn't shower before he came, or notice that my bathroom was in disarray.
Could have been worse I suppose, just have to see the bright side that I'm safe and it could have been much weirder
Never had that happen before but I'm sorry it happened to you. It's truly infuriating when people cannot seem to respect even an ounce of privacy--especially when there were products out already for use. On the flip side, womens' razors are pretty awesome... I can see why he did it in that sense, ha. 
It was a pretty great razor!!
If he respects you as a person, then he should respect your privacy and not partake of those item not freely offered. If he broke your shampoo bottle then stole your razor, he may have some issues.
You may consider whether to see him again, and what recommendation you should give him. Clearly some issues.
So it sounds weird and very rude to me. First the guy spends a quarter of his time alone in the bathroom...probably could have do e that at home..then he went through your stuff...VERY out of bounds..I know WD get personal in our dates I. the hobby but I'd be pissed if someone went through my bag.
My question is was there anything during the appointment that was off or was the rest of the time fun or at lest bearable?
Actually, the rest of the appointment went very well. He was very respectful, and quite funny. Nothing struck me as odd or gave me a feeling that I should really keep an eye on him. Just one of the weirdos I guess
I always bring my own stuff to a date...soap, toothpaste, mouthwash, gum, razor etc...I find all too often some ladies don't have these items available. (Worst is when you go to take a shower and the only thing there is bar soap that some other dude was likely rubbing all over himself...yuck!!...lesson learned hence now I always come prepared.
I would never even think about opening up a girls personal product bag. This guy sounds like a tool...but probably best not make a big deal about it to him at this point, just don't see him again.
I think girls should be careful about leaving their personal items in the bathroom. I once saw a high-end provider who had left her bag on the bathroom counter and it was wide open with a huge wad of cash sticking out
ditto RUDE RUDE RUDE...I would never see him again
Still trying to get her to pay.
Wow, sorry that happened to you! I don't even know. I hate thieves!
It could have been worse. He could have got his second cup in your cosmetic bag and left you a nice surprise on all your products.
Just remember who he is. Put out the word if he is stupid enough to use you as a reference.
With all things I used to freshen up been told about stories like the OP awhile back.
But if I need anything I would ask for anything before using and know a closer bag is off limits...
He definitely overstepped what should be pretty clear rules of courtesy... the only silver lining is that because he is so weird, it could have been worse. I would write him off along with the experience.
If I know I'll be showering at an incall location I bring whatever I need with me. I don't need any strange smells on me which is the reason I'm showering in the first place. It's one thing to use some of your shampoo but to not tell you when he broke the bottle?? then steal your razor??
I would definitely not see him again
Now.. I had a gentleman see me tonight, and while their were no special requests or outfits bought or broken, their was another issue. I always keep my personal hygiene products put away when I have company, except mouthwash and essentials he may need (hotel shampoo/body wash). Toward the end of our appointment, he excused himself to shower and clean up. He took about 10-15 minutes which I thought was a tad excessive but hey - maybe he had somewhere to be?
After he left, I went into the bathroom to take a shower myself only to find that my product bag was open and in the shower were my shampoo and conditioner, body wash AND loofah, foot file, face scrub and to boot my razor is no where to be seen. To make matters worse, he managed to (drop?) break the top of my shampoo bottle and what was once a full $20 bottle of shampoo was no more than a travel sized amount in a sad broken bottle. And I did mention that he stole my razor right?
Now, I do find it a very personal invasion to not only go through my closed bag, but to feel free to use all of my personal products inside. At the VERY VERY least, he could have mentioned that he broke my bottle and offered to replace it seeing as it was very expensive and will now cost me an unexpected trip to the store in hopes they have it.
My question (Sorry for the novel) is this: Ladies - have you ever experienced something along the same lines where a gentleman will help himself to things that he is clearly not offered? And on the flip side of that token - Gentlemen - Do you use the ladies products if they are in the shower, or bathroom or consider those off limits?
Needless to say, all of those items will now be kept out of the bathroom, but it's a sad sad day when a man will steal a woman's razor. Geez.
Xoxo, Shelby
The nerve of that guy using your personal stuff. As for the razor. I couldn't find mine one day and had to buy another one. A couple days later I found my razor when emptying the bathroom trash can. In the rush of getting ready for work I knocked it off the counter right in the trash can
Trust me I looked EVERYWHERE!! He must really have a thing for pink handled razors lol
Hair Brush
The Hair from MY brush (creepy)
Deodorant (8 times so far)
Body spray
Countless panties
1 sock, if you're gonna take it please take both
My dogs squeaky toy
Now I do not keep a single personal item in the bathroom & keep everything in my suitcases. People can be strange.
WOW! The hair from your brush? That's a certainly a doozy! I've learned my lesson for sure, all things that aren't welcome for use, will no longer be in my bathroom while I have company - and that guy - well needless to say, he's history.
People are strange is certainly an understatement!
LOL
Now I've had people take panties and bras & teddys without my permission presumably for souvenirs but this is really a first.
The only thing I've had a real problem with are guests who come in and use every single towel in the room. Use one body towel, use one hand towel, use one face towel- use a couple. But when you come in and use 6 towels for yourself LOL. Come on now.
Do you know what kind of shuckin' and jivin and maid pay offs I have to do to have a stack of fresh towels?
I like to put out a little setup of mens body wash, deodorant and mouthwash so I've never really had an issue with guests going into the bath and fucking with things that they shouldn't lol. There is a clear distinction between my side of the counter for my products and makeups and theirs lol.
I TOTALLY agree with you on the towels! Towels are coveted items, and not easy to come by! Housekeeping is so stingy, and it often raises eyebrows to be calling down to the front everyday for more towels.
Ugh! Maybe I should start hiding all but one towel at a time too!
and maybe you will need to keep your toiletries somewhere in an overnight bag in the room. Very sad but true....and I'm sorry this happened to you.
He will definitely never been seen by me again, and as for references... I wouldn't mind if he tried to use me for a reference, because I would certainly have a hay day letting whomever know what kind of individual he really is.
Sigh - All kinds!
Reading all the posts, I'm thinking guys are taking personal items as reminders/trophy items of the experience so they can relive it - especially the perfumes and deodorants. Smells are very possible memory triggers.
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