Just a little rant that I had to put out here tonight. Now, I'm not much of a complainer and am very easy going.  Most gentleman that I see will absolutely tip if you've done something above and beyond to make them happy. For example buying a leather outfit because it turns them on, or taking the time to tease your hair to the high heavens because they have an 80's fetish (yes that HAS happened).  And that's very considerate and while not necessarily expected - it is the gentlemanly thing to do, and VERY appreciated.  I have even had gentleman accidentally rip my clothing off, and then offer to compensate me for it. And I appreciate that greatly of course.  

Have you e-mailed him to express your dismay? Perhaps he will apologize and offer to pay for it. I will NEVER use a woman's hygiene products. I sure don't want any scent of a woman on me when I go home to my SO.


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Never had that happen before but I'm sorry it happened to you. It's truly infuriating when people cannot seem to respect even an ounce of privacy--especially when there were products out already for use. On the flip side, womens' razors are pretty awesome... I can see why he did it in that sense, ha.

If he respects you as a person, then he should respect your privacy and not partake of those item not freely offered. If he broke your shampoo bottle then stole your razor, he may have some issues.
You may consider whether to see him again, and what recommendation you should give him. Clearly some issues.

So it sounds weird and very rude to me. First the guy spends a quarter of his time alone in the bathroom...probably could have do e that at home..then he went through your stuff...VERY out of bounds..I know WD get personal in our dates I. the hobby but I'd be pissed if someone went through my bag.  

I always bring my own stuff to a date...soap, toothpaste, mouthwash, gum, razor etc...I find all too often some ladies don't have these items available. (Worst is when you go to take a shower and the only thing there is bar soap that some other dude was likely rubbing all over himself...yuck!!...lesson learned hence now I always come prepared.

ditto RUDE RUDE RUDE...I would never see him again

Wow, sorry that happened to you! I don't even know. I hate thieves!

With all things I used to freshen up been told about stories like the OP awhile back.

But if I need anything I would ask for anything before using and know a closer bag is off limits...

Just going by what we've heard, he seems like a shady intrusive guy. Granted the broken bottle was probably an accident, but it happened while he was rummaging through her stuff and picking out a souvenir to take home. Nothing accidental about that. If he didn't bring it up at the time, then you can probably expect any inquiry to result in dead silence or flat-out denial. Or maybe some vague promises of "I'll get ya next time" for a session that will never happen.

He definitely overstepped what should be pretty clear rules of courtesy... the only silver lining is that because he is so weird, it could have been worse. I would write him off along with the experience.

If I know I'll be showering at an incall location I bring whatever I need with me.  I don't need any strange smells on me which is the reason I'm showering in the first place.  It's one thing to use some of your shampoo but to not tell you when he broke the bottle?? then steal your razor??
I would definitely not see him again

The nerve of that guy using your personal stuff.  As for the razor.  I couldn't find mine one day and had to buy another one.  A couple days later I found my razor when emptying the bathroom trash can.  In the rush of getting ready for work I knocked it off the counter right in the trash can

Hair Brush
The Hair from MY brush (creepy)
Deodorant (8 times so far)
Body spray
Countless panties
1 sock, if you're gonna take it please take both
My dogs squeaky toy

Actually I did send him a text message shortly afterwards, and the reply I got was this:  "I'm not sure what you're talking about, are you sure it wasn't another client? Had a great time"  

It was a pretty great razor!!

Actually, the rest of the appointment went very well. He was very respectful, and quite funny. Nothing struck me as odd or gave me a feeling that I should really keep an eye on him.  Just one of the weirdos I guess

Trust me I looked EVERYWHERE!! He must really have a thing for pink handled razors lol

WOW! The hair from your brush? That's a certainly a doozy!  I've learned my lesson for sure, all things that aren't welcome for use, will no longer be in my bathroom while I have company - and that guy - well needless to say, he's history.  

LOL

Now I've had people take panties and bras & teddys without my permission presumably for souvenirs but this is really a first.

The only thing I've had a real problem with are guests who come in and use every single towel in the room.  Use one body towel, use one hand towel, use one face towel- use a couple.  But when you come in and use 6 towels for yourself LOL.  Come on now.  
Do you know what kind of shuckin' and jivin and maid pay offs I have to do to have a stack of fresh towels?

I like to put out a little setup of mens body wash, deodorant and mouthwash so I've never really had an issue with guests going into the bath and fucking with things that they shouldn't lol.  There is a clear distinction between my side of the counter for my products and makeups and theirs lol.

He will definitely never been seen by me again, and as for references... I wouldn't mind if he tried to use me for a reference, because I would certainly have a hay day letting whomever know what kind of individual he really is.  

I TOTALLY agree with you on the towels! Towels are coveted items, and not easy to come by! Housekeeping is so stingy, and it often raises eyebrows to be calling down to the front everyday for more towels.  

Geez-what you ladies have to put up with! I mean that's just creepy....and he denies it afterwards? Like you aren't able to figure out that he did it....

and maybe you will need to keep your toiletries somewhere in an overnight bag in the room. Very sad but true....and I'm sorry this happened to you.

Yeah I definitely found it offensive that he suggested it might be another client... as if I didn't shower before he came, or notice that my bathroom was in disarray.  

Reading all the posts, I'm thinking guys are taking personal items as reminders/trophy items of the experience so they can relive it - especially the perfumes and deodorants.  Smells are very possible memory triggers.

Still trying to get her to pay.