: Washington DC Discussion : Re: When it comes to playing safe..

sqitdown 61 Reviews 1196 reads

posted 11 years ago

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how do you fellas feel when your provider has a boyfriend?

Just curious

IP_Tracing 866 reads

posted 11 years ago

2 / 13

Boyfriends

Makes no difference to me, single, SO, or married. Thinking about it right now, though, I'd rather the gal be in a committed relationship as I would suspect they have more reason to play safe within the hobby.

Posted By: sqitdown

Just curious

Alyssa Marie See my TER Reviews 905 reads

posted 11 years ago

3 / 13

When it comes to playing safe..

I don't think it has so much to do with anything else besides the lady having respect for herself...

To the OP, sometimes it helps when people state their thoughts on the matter to get replies.
Is this something you're struggling with? Or are you just bored on a Thursday morning looking for something to talk about?

cocktail-party 746 reads

posted 11 years ago

4 / 13

You should expect it. The question is how do you feel about her talking to you about him?

I wouldn't begrudge a lady for wanting the love and intimacy of a traditional relationship. It's safer for everyone if he knows what she does, but I've certainly met ladies who were hiding this game from their SO. The worst is when she wants to use our time to cry and complain about the BF, and I feel for the ladies who have to put up with the same from their clients.

whitneywilcoxx See my TER Reviews 691 reads

posted 11 years ago

5 / 13

Re: You should expect it. The question is how do you feel about her talking to you about him?

A long time client of mine brought this up the other day. As I said to him, I'm here to 'entertain', not complain. Stories about my civilian hookups and travel, both fair game during the 10 mins of small talk during the hour. If he wants to use up his time venting about his wife, I feel like I'm there to put a finger to his lips, quiet that worry, and get his mind off it for the rest of the time we're together.

When I first started, I was married and I wore my ring in sessions. No one cared except a handful who thought it was hot that my husband knew I was doing naughty things while he was at work or at home waiting. Hardly anyone brought it up. And you're right, the ones who brought it up usually had something about playing safely to say.

xXx whi

wrps07 664 reads

posted 11 years ago

6 / 13

If he jealous watch out.

Some have been know to stalk customers and/or work with le to out people. Be prepared to chill for a while and go into cloak and dagger mode.

GaGambler 582 reads

posted 11 years ago

7 / 13

Hey Chicken Little. a LOT of the ladies here have BF's or even husbands

I have been the BF many times and the last thing I wanted to do was stalk a pathetic john like you.

To answer the OP, I don't really care if a provider has a BF, but he is the last thing I want to hear about when I am with her.

AmberAffection See my TER Reviews 619 reads

posted 11 years ago

8 / 13

Some freak out, some say "Thank Jeebus". I'm dating,

So sometimes I get a rush in the middle of a session,
I suppose I enjoy the thrill of indiscretion,

But it never effects how I approach precaution & safety when playing with friends & clients. I'd flip all my fks if I got anything and couldn't mess around anymore.

I am also dating my doubles partner Mia. I might be polyamorous....
Is that really unusual?

wrps07 566 reads

posted 11 years ago

9 / 13

Standing congrads to you.

That you are not the jealous type. For me if I find out the guy is 250 lbs and over 6 feet I would avoid. Of course he does not be that big to go into a jealous rage with a weapon.

Guarddog111 259 Reviews 481 reads

posted 11 years ago

10 / 13

How do you feel if a provider has a pimp?

/eom.

sqitdown 61 Reviews 536 reads

posted 11 years ago

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Re: When it comes to playing safe..

I was just curious on how ppl felt about the situation.. I see a provider with a bF and I know them both even hang out with them. He doesn't know that I see her but it's possible he knows about her

Posted By: Alyssa Marie

I don't think it has so much to do with anything else besides the lady having respect for herself...

To the OP, sometimes it helps when people state their thoughts on the matter to get replies.
Is this something you're struggling with? Or are you just bored on a Thursday morning looking for something to talk about?

LonelySailor4Fun 8 Reviews 438 reads

posted 11 years ago

12 / 13

I would consider it lucky to be the BF of a provider....

I have met some very Sweet Girl who are Strong, Independent Women with a very healthy love of her body and sex. Give me a Girl like who is Brunette and loves Sex and I would consider myself blessed.

Besides....Strong, Independent Girls who are Brunette are the best.

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posted 11 years ago

13 / 13

I don't want to know about it. (e)

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