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IP_Tracing 865 reads
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Makes no difference to me, single, SO, or married. Thinking about it right now, though, I'd rather the gal be in a committed relationship as I would suspect they have more reason to play safe within the hobby.

Posted By: sqitdown
Just curious

sqitdown1196 reads

Just curious

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IP_Tracing866 reads

Makes no difference to me, single, SO, or married. Thinking about it right now, though, I'd rather the gal be in a committed relationship as I would suspect they have more reason to play safe within the hobby.

Posted By: sqitdown
Just curious

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Alyssa Marie905 reads

I don't think it has so much to do with anything else besides the lady having respect for herself...

To the OP, sometimes it helps when people state their thoughts on the matter to get replies.
Is this something you're struggling with? Or are you just bored on a Thursday morning looking for something to talk about?

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sqitdown536 reads

I was just curious on how ppl felt about the situation.. I see a provider with a bF and I know them both even hang out with them. He doesn't know that I see her but it's possible he knows about her  

Posted By: Alyssa Marie
I don't think it has so much to do with anything else besides the lady having respect for herself...  
   
 To the OP, sometimes it helps when people state their thoughts on the matter to get replies.  
 Is this something you're struggling with? Or are you just bored on a Thursday morning looking for something to talk about?

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cocktail-party746 reads

I wouldn't begrudge a lady for wanting the love and intimacy of a traditional relationship. It's safer for everyone if he knows what she does, but I've certainly met ladies who were hiding this game from their SO. The worst is when she wants to use our time to cry and complain about the BF, and I feel for the ladies who have to put up with the same from their clients.

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whitneywilcoxx691 reads

A long time client of mine brought this up the other day.  As I said to him, I'm here to 'entertain', not complain.  Stories about my civilian hookups and  travel, both fair game during the 10 mins of small talk during the hour.  If he wants to use up his time venting about his wife, I feel like I'm there to put a finger to his lips, quiet that worry, and get his mind off it for the rest of the time we're together.  

When I first started, I was married and I wore my ring in sessions.  No one cared except a handful who thought it was hot that my husband knew I was doing naughty things while he was at work or at home waiting.  Hardly anyone brought it up.  And you're right, the ones who brought it up usually had something about playing safely to say.

xXx whi

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wrps07664 reads

Some have been know to stalk customers and/or work with le to out people. Be prepared to chill for a while and go into cloak and dagger mode.

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GaGambler582 reads

I have been the BF many times and the last thing I wanted to do was stalk a pathetic john like you.

To answer the OP, I don't really care if a provider has a BF, but he is the last thing I want to hear about when I am with her.

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wrps07566 reads

That you are not the jealous type. For me if I find out the guy is 250 lbs and over 6 feet I would avoid. Of course he does not be that big to go into a jealous rage with a weapon.

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AmberAffection619 reads

So sometimes I get a rush in the middle of a session,
I suppose I enjoy the thrill of indiscretion,

But it never effects how I approach precaution & safety when playing with friends & clients. I'd flip all my fks if I got anything and couldn't mess around anymore.

 
I am also dating my doubles partner Mia. I might be polyamorous....
Is that really unusual?

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Guarddog111481 reads

/eom.

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LonelySailor4Fun438 reads

I have met some very Sweet Girl who are Strong, Independent Women with a very healthy love of her body and sex. Give me a Girl like who is Brunette and loves Sex and I would consider myself blessed.  

Besides....Strong, Independent Girls who are Brunette are the best. ;-)

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