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Good question... Wouldn't this also make u the devil on his shoulder?angry_smile
broken_window 33 Reviews 416 reads
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I'm looking forward to some responses to this question. I recently told a good friend of mine about the hobby (nearly blew his mind) and showed him this site. He asked the exact same question as BT when I described what it takes to gets verified by any respectable well-reviewed provider.  Most of which is info he is not willing to share, and references he doesn't have. I suspect it is very dependent on the lady and how much she trusts me, if possible at all.
On the other hand, no matter how good a friend, do I want to be the guy he credits/blames for introducing him to this somewhat addicting hobby?

Blowtorch3331466 reads

Since I am still having a screening dilemma, I was wondering.........

Do any providers allow for a hobbyist that the provider knows, to vouch for another guy? In other words, let's say i'm good friends with Jack and Jack has seen Jill a bunch of times and now I want to see Jill. Can Jack vouch for me? Now obviously, I'm not talking about my bedroom skills etc, but he could confirm I'm not LE or a psycho.

Any ladies down with this game plan?

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Vanica614 reads

The first client must be a long time friend/client. Second. client must be willing to undergo some e-mail back and forth.

I even offer the first client a referral discount if the second client turns out to be a gem.

Kisses,
Vanica

Related Link: http://vanicalove.com

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broken_window417 reads

I'm looking forward to some responses to this question. I recently told a good friend of mine about the hobby (nearly blew his mind) and showed him this site. He asked the exact same question as BT when I described what it takes to gets verified by any respectable well-reviewed provider.  Most of which is info he is not willing to share, and references he doesn't have. I suspect it is very dependent on the lady and how much she trusts me, if possible at all.
On the other hand, no matter how good a friend, do I want to be the guy he credits/blames for introducing him to this somewhat addicting hobby?

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LoneWolfDC330 reads

Posted By: ZmanD
I recently told a good friend of mine about the hobby (nearly blew his mind) and showed him this site.

On the other hand, no matter how good a friend, do I want to be the guy he credits/blames for introducing him to this somewhat addicting hobby?
The FIRST rule of fight club is...you don't talk abut fight club...

I have told NO ONE about my hobbying or this site...NO ONE...if you can convince your friends, you can convince a S/O...

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AnswerToAFool395 reads

I'm not taking a reference unless they slept with you, so no agencies, no male friends, no high school chemistry teachers. The point of screening is not just to find out whether you are LE. We also want to know whether you are reasonably normal, not a boundary pusher, wouldn't try to do anything unsafe, none of that "let me just rub it against your p*ssy for a minute" bs. Providers share that info with each other and do not see guys who do any of the above. Your friend canot testify to your normalcy behind closed doors, which is why most independents would never take that as a reference.

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Blowtorch333348 reads

A fellow hobbyist who knows my reputation from past experiences with the same women. I used to see several DC providers who have moved on or just arent around anymore. I think if I was doing crazy shit back when I hobbyed more, these guys would have gotten feedback from the women we mutually knew.

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AnswerToAFool303 reads

Have ALL the women you've ever been with moved, retired, etc? That would strike me as odd and I would not see you. You need to play the game the way everyone does. Get legit references from legit providers.

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Blowtorch333494 reads

Are any of these ladies still in DC?

Nynaeve
Marie69
Kaydee
Nitedreamz Erica
Taylor

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alisha361 reads

Posted By: Blowtorch333
Are any of these ladies still in DC?

Nynaeve
Marie69
Kaydee
Nitedreamz Erica
Taylor

You forgot about me ;)

Granted, I'm not DC based anymore, but I do visit each month. And I do recall our time together, granted it was several years ago.

Marie is still around. North Carolina based. The rest, I don't believe so.

Just come and see me again, and voila you have a fresh reference.

Alisha ....xoxo



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Blowtorch333361 reads

I did forget you....and some others! Pardon me.




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TrulyMsMocha382 reads

...what would you need to do that for you don't have any direct provider references you can use?

A guy vouching for a friend of his tbh even if I liked that client wouldn't meach too much to me.

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PrincessPuss375 reads

have a good time.
So, you've grown up together and now see Providers..?
You spent the night at his house has baby sat your kids or pets?
Do y'all exchange Christmas presents between your families?
How can I verify the information he/you  provide?
Request like this made the process more difficult and time consuming therefore I'm a tad unnerved by it.....Not a good start.
This happens several times a day and each one wants something done a different way....at the end the day it usually doesn't result in a profit.  nothing but driving those rates up fe the next guy thats willing to follow the rules.
Nothing personal....just a LOT of those calls this week.

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Dr Dave382 reads

Posted By: Blowtorch333
Since I am still having a screening dilemma, I was wondering.........
Blowtorch,

Just a thought ... I'm guessing you are looking to see somebody new, but hear me out.  I know you were active in the hobby quite a few years ago, and I know there have to be some ladies you've seen before that are still active - perhaps see one of them (that remembers you) for a return engagement, and then use her as a reference.  Perhaps re-build your pool of references that way?

Just my two cents,
"Dr Dave"

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TypicalLoser338 reads

Sooner or later our misdeeds catch up with us and bite us in the ass. May your difficulties be a lesson to others.

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asuggestion388 reads

not going to happen when you burn too many bridges...

and you have burned more than a few..

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Blowtorch333362 reads

led to and from TBD and some of their VIP's (Very Impotent Pricks)

I didn't care what they thought of me then and I don't care now.



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Blowtorch333332 reads

I find that incredibly hard to believe!

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