The first client must be a long time friend/client. Second. client must be willing to undergo some e-mail back and forth.

I even offer the first client a referral discount if the second client turns out to be a gem.

Kisses,
Vanica

Good question... Wouldn't this also make u the devil on his shoulder?

I'm looking forward to some responses to this question. I recently told a good friend of mine about the hobby (nearly blew his mind) and showed him this site. He asked the exact same question as BT when I described what it takes to gets verified by any respectable well-reviewed provider.  Most of which is info he is not willing to share, and references he doesn't have. I suspect it is very dependent on the lady and how much she trusts me, if possible at all.
On the other hand, no matter how good a friend, do I want to be the guy he credits/blames for introducing him to this somewhat addicting hobby?

That depends. Has your friend slept with you?

I'm not taking a reference unless they slept with you, so no agencies, no male friends, no high school chemistry teachers. The point of screening is not just to find out whether you are LE. We also want to know whether you are reasonably normal, not a boundary pusher, wouldn't try to do anything unsafe, none of that "let me just rub it against your p*ssy for a minute" bs. Providers share that info with each other and do not see guys who do any of the above. Your friend canot testify to your normalcy behind closed doors, which is why most independents would never take that as a reference.

...what would you need to do that for you don't have any direct provider references you can use?

A guy vouching for a friend of his tbh even if I liked that client wouldn't meach too much to me.

Ain't Karma a Bitch?!

Sooner or later our misdeeds catch up with us and bite us in the ass. May your difficulties be a lesson to others.

not going to happen when you burn too many bridges...

and you have burned more than a few..