That was a wonderful education! I am in the beginning of using them with friends who are willing to try them...great for men who just don't like condoms, ED, and in forums with multiples- like for a threesome with FMF. The male has no need to keep changing condoms...
Posted By: Zoey Zacquery
...but once you get it down, FC2's are 1000% better than regular condoms.
Here's some things you need to know that the packet doesn't tell you:
~ use LOTS of lube on the inside of the condom, and only a little on the outside. You don't need any on the outside of the condom if you're already very wet. You need MORE than you think on the inside of the condom. Pre-warmed lube makes the whole experience feel very natural from the get-go. Cool lube will feel a bit foreign to your bodies at first, but feel very natural once it warms up.
~ the condom should act as a "pussy liner" of sorts. The internal ring holds it back/open against your cervix, and the outer ring keeps the opening to the condom outside of your body. You need to make sure it's not twisted inside you, as this can lead to a negative sensation that some guys refer to as "fucking a plastic bag". I also use my fingers to press the condom into all my crevices real quick before we get started. Once his cock is inside you, the pressure of getting fucked will press the condom the rest of the way into your crevices, so that it truly starts to feel completely smooth and warm, almost like there is no condom present at all. Seriously, if you're doing it right, you'll want to reach down and check to make sure the condom is still there, because that's how good/natural it will feel!
~ since the external ring of the female condom hangs out of you, it is more visually noticeable than a regular/male condom, which some people do not like; however, this also makes certain types of fucking viable that would just be downright irritating when using a male condom. For example, if a guy likes to pull his cock all the way out, then tease the entrance to the pussy with the tip of his cock over and over, the external part of the condom allows him to do this without his cock ever exiting the condom. So he can pull out, slip it back in, pull it out, slip it back in... IDK about you, but for me, that is totally uncomfortable with a regular/male condom. The friction of the condom rubbing on my sensitive entrance to my pussy that pointedly over and over irritates me quickly and the lube also dries out fast that way. Since the female condom stays relatively stationary inside you, acting as a "pussy liner", and the lube is between his bare cock and the female condom, he can slide in and out of the stationary condom as he does this (without his cock actually exiting the condom completely), and all your pussy feels is the nice slick sensation of a cock sliding in and out, without the friction of a condom "rubbing" on your delicate areas. It's opened up new favorite positions for me that I never used to suggest or enjoy when I was using regular/male condoms.
~ if you know your lover doesn't want to DATY and you're trying to do something extremely naughty like have sex in public, I an airplane, or have a reeeeally fast quickie, you can also insert the female condom ahead of time and skip the panties so that he can just slip his cock into you from under your dress with no pause needed to put on a condom... Which can be very hot...
Anyway, the short version is: definitely try them! Either try them with someone very experienced, or expect a bit of a learning curve and don't give up if the first few tries are awkward. In the long run, they are totally worth using and will improve your sex life.
Other benefits:
~ safer than regular condoms (less breakage and less skin-to-skin contact)
~ they make a world of difference for guys with mild ED, since they don't have to wear a confom themselves and don't have to be fully erect to start fucking you, just partially erect
~ more sensation and wetness for the guy overall, less friction for the delicate walls of your pussy, but still including the sensations we love like warmth, fullness, the stimulation of your g-spot, etc.
Happy fucking! Use more lube inside the condom than you think you need (worth repeating).