As close to bareback as safe gets. For me, the guy, all the friction is me fucking a "pussy liner" (I like that characterization). Yes, use enough lube and make sure it isn't twisted...then your cock is immersed in moist tightness. And the in and out friction is all your cock against the FC....Heaven!
For the lady, there is a lack of the friction of a latex dildo pummeling you. Love 'em! Though JustMyPOV
female condoms yay or nay?
...but once you get it down, FC2's are 1000% better than regular condoms.
Here's some things you need to know that the packet doesn't tell you:
~ use LOTS of lube on the inside of the condom, and only a little on the outside. You don't need any on the outside of the condom if you're already very wet. You need MORE than you think on the inside of the condom. Pre-warmed lube makes the whole experience feel very natural from the get-go. Cool lube will feel a bit foreign to your bodies at first, but feel very natural once it warms up.
~ the condom should act as a "pussy liner" of sorts. The internal ring holds it back/open against your cervix, and the outer ring keeps the opening to the condom outside of your body. You need to make sure it's not twisted inside you, as this can lead to a negative sensation that some guys refer to as "fucking a plastic bag". I also use my fingers to press the condom into all my crevices real quick before we get started. Once his cock is inside you, the pressure of getting fucked will press the condom the rest of the way into your crevices, so that it truly starts to feel completely smooth and warm, almost like there is no condom present at all. Seriously, if you're doing it right, you'll want to reach down and check to make sure the condom is still there, because that's how good/natural it will feel!
~ since the external ring of the female condom hangs out of you, it is more visually noticeable than a regular/male condom, which some people do not like; however, this also makes certain types of fucking viable that would just be downright irritating when using a male condom. For example, if a guy likes to pull his cock all the way out, then tease the entrance to the pussy with the tip of his cock over and over, the external part of the condom allows him to do this without his cock ever exiting the condom. So he can pull out, slip it back in, pull it out, slip it back in... IDK about you, but for me, that is totally uncomfortable with a regular/male condom. The friction of the condom rubbing on my sensitive entrance to my pussy that pointedly over and over irritates me quickly and the lube also dries out fast that way. Since the female condom stays relatively stationary inside you, acting as a "pussy liner", and the lube is between his bare cock and the female condom, he can slide in and out of the stationary condom as he does this (without his cock actually exiting the condom completely), and all your pussy feels is the nice slick sensation of a cock sliding in and out, without the friction of a condom "rubbing" on your delicate areas. It's opened up new favorite positions for me that I never used to suggest or enjoy when I was using regular/male condoms.
~ if you know your lover doesn't want to DATY and you're trying to do something extremely naughty like have sex in public, I an airplane, or have a reeeeally fast quickie, you can also insert the female condom ahead of time and skip the panties so that he can just slip his cock into you from under your dress with no pause needed to put on a condom... Which can be very hot...
Anyway, the short version is: definitely try them! Either try them with someone very experienced, or expect a bit of a learning curve and don't give up if the first few tries are awkward. In the long run, they are totally worth using and will improve your sex life.
Other benefits:
~ safer than regular condoms (less breakage and less skin-to-skin contact)
~ they make a world of difference for guys with mild ED, since they don't have to wear a confom themselves and don't have to be fully erect to start fucking you, just partially erect
~ more sensation and wetness for the guy overall, less friction for the delicate walls of your pussy, but still including the sensations we love like warmth, fullness, the stimulation of your g-spot, etc.
Happy fucking! Use more lube inside the condom than you think you need (worth repeating).
That was a wonderful education! I am in the beginning of using them with friends who are willing to try them...great for men who just don't like condoms, ED, and in forums with multiples- like for a threesome with FMF. The male has no need to keep changing condoms...
Here's some things you need to know that the packet doesn't tell you:
~ use LOTS of lube on the inside of the condom, and only a little on the outside. You don't need any on the outside of the condom if you're already very wet. You need MORE than you think on the inside of the condom. Pre-warmed lube makes the whole experience feel very natural from the get-go. Cool lube will feel a bit foreign to your bodies at first, but feel very natural once it warms up.
~ the condom should act as a "pussy liner" of sorts. The internal ring holds it back/open against your cervix, and the outer ring keeps the opening to the condom outside of your body. You need to make sure it's not twisted inside you, as this can lead to a negative sensation that some guys refer to as "fucking a plastic bag". I also use my fingers to press the condom into all my crevices real quick before we get started. Once his cock is inside you, the pressure of getting fucked will press the condom the rest of the way into your crevices, so that it truly starts to feel completely smooth and warm, almost like there is no condom present at all. Seriously, if you're doing it right, you'll want to reach down and check to make sure the condom is still there, because that's how good/natural it will feel!
~ since the external ring of the female condom hangs out of you, it is more visually noticeable than a regular/male condom, which some people do not like; however, this also makes certain types of fucking viable that would just be downright irritating when using a male condom. For example, if a guy likes to pull his cock all the way out, then tease the entrance to the pussy with the tip of his cock over and over, the external part of the condom allows him to do this without his cock ever exiting the condom. So he can pull out, slip it back in, pull it out, slip it back in... IDK about you, but for me, that is totally uncomfortable with a regular/male condom. The friction of the condom rubbing on my sensitive entrance to my pussy that pointedly over and over irritates me quickly and the lube also dries out fast that way. Since the female condom stays relatively stationary inside you, acting as a "pussy liner", and the lube is between his bare cock and the female condom, he can slide in and out of the stationary condom as he does this (without his cock actually exiting the condom completely), and all your pussy feels is the nice slick sensation of a cock sliding in and out, without the friction of a condom "rubbing" on your delicate areas. It's opened up new favorite positions for me that I never used to suggest or enjoy when I was using regular/male condoms.
~ if you know your lover doesn't want to DATY and you're trying to do something extremely naughty like have sex in public, I an airplane, or have a reeeeally fast quickie, you can also insert the female condom ahead of time and skip the panties so that he can just slip his cock into you from under your dress with no pause needed to put on a condom... Which can be very hot...
Anyway, the short version is: definitely try them! Either try them with someone very experienced, or expect a bit of a learning curve and don't give up if the first few tries are awkward. In the long run, they are totally worth using and will improve your sex life.
Other benefits:
~ safer than regular condoms (less breakage and less skin-to-skin contact)
~ they make a world of difference for guys with mild ED, since they don't have to wear a confom themselves and don't have to be fully erect to start fucking you, just partially erect
~ more sensation and wetness for the guy overall, less friction for the delicate walls of your pussy, but still including the sensations we love like warmth, fullness, the stimulation of your g-spot, etc.
Happy fucking! Use more lube inside the condom than you think you need (worth repeating).
Agree whole heartedly (or hardonedly) to the suggestion of lots of lube and then some more! Works great.
Thanks to both of you for the learning experience! I am now a BIG FC fan. The feeling for me is Awesome.
...but Zoey's response - which is based on solid intelligence and experience - has given me a raging boner. Wow, that was awesome!
As close to bareback as safe gets. For me, the guy, all the friction is me fucking a "pussy liner" (I like that characterization). Yes, use enough lube and make sure it isn't twisted...then your cock is immersed in moist tightness. And the in and out friction is all your cock against the FC....Heaven!
For the lady, there is a lack of the friction of a latex dildo pummeling you.
Love 'em!
Though JustMyPOV
I have never tried FC but given the posts here it sounds worth a try. Do most providers have them or should I bring them. Where is a good place to buy them. Is it acceptable to tell provider ahead of time to have them ready. Just want to know what is typical.
.....if you're still unsure you could bring some and see if she'll go for it.
I bring my own. 50% of my friends have been open to using them... used properly (as described previously) they are the best thing since BBFS...
I really dislike regular condoms, wouldn't ever consider requesting bbfs, FC is the perfect solution. I love the feeling, much closer to natural, also agree that lots of lube is a good thing.
Sasha, are you considering adding FC2's!? Must say that's an addition to the countless things that make me hawt!
This may be a dumb question but just wondering which type of lube would be best to use with FC.
If you're the kind of guy who might want to transition from fucking back into a BBBJ then you will want to use a completely flavorless lube. Not just one without flavors "added", but one that is truly flavorless, meaning no nasty chemically lube flavor.
I prefer Sliquid Sassy in the pink label bottle.
Some people also like coconut oil. Oils are not safe with latex condoms, but since Female Condoms are non-latex they work just fine with those. Coconut oil is pretty tasty, so you probably wouldn't have a problem getting a BJ afterward with your cock covered in coconut oil.
If you aren't trying to get your dick sucked again after using the FC2, then pretty much anything works.
Coconut oil is the best. Love the smell and it is great for everything.
They are the best, IMO.
Can't go wrong with FC, they are pricier but so well worth it.