Hey .-- i have recently moved from strictly heterosexual to bi-curious to bi-sexual.  i have engaged in men-to-men oral [get/give] sex about a dozen times now, and love it.  There is no going back.  i am not quite ready to receive anal penetration, but have enjoyed penetrating both male and females anally.  i am not giving up my female SO, and i love vaginal intercourse.  So ... i was thinking that a She-male would be perfect for me. Actually, i think that i would be in seventh heaven to be able to blow him/her, than have anal, while playing with her 'boobs'  Problem is ... i do not know how to find She-males, even of the escort variety.  i've been on line or all i found are porn sites.  i want the read deal.  Can anyone out there help me.  Thanx.

There are other sites with similar content also.  They are just a google search away.

if you are attracted to masculine men (which you are since you have engaged in sexual relations with them), then you probably won't like shemales. Mostly straight guys are attracted to shemales and hook up with them. Similarly, shemales are attracted to straight guys.

Erostranssexuals and craigsList are both national sites that offer listings of local t-girl escorts.

After you see an escort, read and write reviews on the BEST escort review site in the world, which is The Erotic Review!!!!

Although I'm in a dry spell right now, I routinely have sex with men and have a fetish for shemales.  Several of the shemales I've been with like hearing  tales of my escapades with men and they usually don't have a problem with getting aroused by me.

The guy says that shemales are a turn-on for him by virtue of their possession of a dick and a set of tits.  What surprise could possibly await him that he hasn't fantasized?

I guess you are living proof gay or bi men like shemales.  I think I have asked almost every shemale I know over time and they all say they meet either married straight men or straight single men.  This is news to me but again guess it exists.

Yes, we defintiely need more TS reviews.  Thank you Mr. Holmes!  Well said.  

I don't know if TER is the BEST but it now has PROFILES on more than 2,700 TS ladies.  That's quite a database, but we need more on the newer ladies and more current ones on the others (or at least website, ad, phone and name updates by clicking on the "Report a Problem" button on someone's profile).  BTW Eros only has a little over 1,300 TS ads currently running on its website.  

I know it's a pain but taking the time to write a review is indeed good work, many thanks to all who do so.

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Shemales like other people have variations in what they like and their sexual orientations.  Shemales can be bisexual (I think Jamie from this board is bi), lesbian, and straight. I think Shemales will most often see "straight" men because straight men make up the largest portion of the general male population.  Even by the most generous of estimates, the gay population is calculated at around 10%, hence straight men make up 90% of the potential male customers.  

In my experience it is much easier to get laid in the gay community also so the urge to pay for play is lessened.  Last time I went to a gay bar, I walked off into the night to a cruise spot with some guy itching to blow me; it was 30 degrees outside, in a public garden with legions of horny gay guys wandering all about. At no time has anything like this ever happened to me at a straight bar and I go to straight bars much more frequently than gay bars.  Perhaps this is confined to the social circle of gays I run into though as Nicole from this board claims to engage in orgiastic straight sex at different swing clubs.  Her world is foreign to me, as my world is probably foreign to many.

I would assume fellows with sexualities similar to the threadstarter and I are a minority within the sexual minority population of tranny chasers.  Maybe I'm just a pig with no standards.  I can accept either situation.

YES - we really need more TS reviews.  My last review was like 9 months ago - and while I'm not doing the volume I used to, it would be nice if SOMEONE would take 10 minutes to do a review.    Although I have to admit I haven't been asking or reminding anyone lately.

I think the others girls would agree.

GG's have pages and pages of reviews, T-girls are lucky to get 1/2 a dozen reviews a year.

Now a little gender education for the new guy...

From Wikipedia:
She-male is a derogatory term[1] for a person who appears to be female, possessing both breasts and male genitalia.[2]

The term, along with tranny, ladyboy and others, is often used in sex industries[3][4] to refer to a pre-operative transsexual[5] who have not had sex reassignment surgery; although the industry is known to advertise catering to customer's interests. Less frequently, it is used to describe intersex people.[citation needed]

Many people within the LGBT communities, particularly transgender individuals, consider the term offensive.[6] However, like many potentially derogatory labels, some have adopted the term as an endearment or as a form of self-empowerment.[7]

I am NOT a she-male... I'm a "BoyGirl!"

Giggle,
TS Jamie

IMO, after years of observation, 90% of all men who are into t-girls are straight men who only appreciate genetic women when not experiencing the fetish fantasy of a chick with a dick.  The other 10% are bi men who are also interested in sex with men in addition to sex with t-girls and GG's.

IMO, since a  t-girl IS a woman, there is no such thing as a gay man having sex with her and still being considered gay.  The fact that he had sex with the she male makes him bi, because she is his connection to GG's.

Gay mens eye balls are sensually, physically, romantically and emotionally attracted to MEN.  A t-girl represents herself as a woman, with womanly attractiveness.  She does not present herself to the world as a bull dyke lezzy.

IMO, only men who are sexually attracted to women, will be attracted to t-girls.  Flaming drag queens are another variation of the whole picture.  Gays tend to love drag queens because DQ's are a flaming freaky psychedelic, almost science fiction representation of what a woman is.  That is why I am personally not attracted to DQ's.  They are too "out there" looks wise to attract my natural desire of a woman.

In our local tranny bar, the owners of the bar are very aware of who their clientele is, when there are many bi or "gay" men sitting at they bar, the owners shut the TV's off that continuously run tranny porn.  Why? Because the owners know that gay men are NOT turned on via visual images of men fucking women, which is what tranny porn depicts. (or of women fucking men, another thing that does not turn gay men on)  Gay men enjoy visual images of men having sex with men, not t-girls who are a representation of a women.

The percentage of tranny chasers, IMO, is broken down like this: 90% are straight men who seek only GG's when not chasing trannies.  10% are bi men who enjoy GG's, trannies and men.  Zero percent are totally gay men.  Gay men are attracted to men.  If they were attracted to trannies, which are a form of a woman, that would put them into the bi category and out of the gay category.

TS Jamie, you are one HOT she male......  um... I mean BoyGirl!  Could I write a review of you based upon me masturbating via looking at your web site?!!! If it was acceptable, I would!! Plus I'd get 15 days TER credit for sharing my love with you!!

Shemale is probably one of the words, along with nigger, bitch and ho, are words that can be shared amongst friends in a bonding way or they can be said in a hateful derogatory manner.

I think you are one hot looking little ho.  You ain't no nigger, but you is a hot looking she male bitch who I'd loves to make love to if you'd have my male chauvenist slang piggy self.  JH

I'm bi-sexual or queer depending on who I'm talking to. Romantically, I do not date straight. Not my culture, not my scene. I also don't date gay men. Why? Because gay men, like JH said, have not the slightest bit of interest in my tender girly self. I do like bi-guys, and there are a lot of them out there, they just tend to be silenced within the fetishist world because so many guys are trying desperately to promote a hyper masculinity to deflect any accusations of being queer.

I actually find this insistence on straightness to be incredibly limiting, much as I find people who deny evolution a tad bit limiting. To me, straightness is this homogenizing demand that stems from decades of culture wars, that has little to do with peoples actual sex lives, but has everything to do with a semblance of propriety. So as long as you guys APPEAR straight then things are ok. This would be fine if it didn't result in trans ladies being systematically oppressed and violently attacked and humiliated.

I have a definite goal, I'm a sex radical, to live in a world where human sexuality is seen as positive in all its wonderful diversity, and people are free to experience pleasure without recrimination.

I applaud Guns-germs-Steel (the man not the book which I've never been able to read) for being open about his bi-sexuality.

Get ready to have your minds blown folks, I'm touring in just 10 more days, SF, LA, NY, and Philadelphia.

Kisses
Mandy

p.s.

John Holmes, there are actually many TS ladies that are bull dyke lezzies, they just hang out with other lesbians so you are unaware of their existence.

Wouldn't it be nice to live in a world where people understood the difference between BIOLOGICAL sex, where the "equipment" is what is important and SEXUALITY where the equipment is largely irrelevant, except maybe as a means to an end?

That's what many of us are working on, day by day, fuck by fuck, orgasm by orgasm.

OK baby, I'll be your nasty ho bitch anytime!

(And anyone else's for that matter...)

Giggle,
TS Jamie