Fellow TS lovers....

I write this to remind all to WEAR A CONDOM A-N-Y-T-I-M-E you have intercourse with a provider.

I very recently saw a provider who was a stunner...killer body and great personality.  As we got naked and after giving her a BBBJ, I got on top to ride her and knew I was at a crossroads here.    She said, go ahead and get on.    I said, "Are you clean".   She said yes.  I then said, "Swear to God?".   She said yes.  

So, on I went sans condom.   I went for about 8 seconds and about 4 thrusts before I said, no, I better wear a condom.   So I put a condom on.

Going forward 48 hours, I started to feel like SHIT.... the proverbial flu like symtpoms one hears about for HIV.   Needless to say I'm really scared here and here are my thoughts....

1.  This girl I saw (and it doesn't matter who it is as it applies to all) was very athletic and obviously takes very good care of herself.  She is toned beyond belief... a real hottie for a tv.  Very fem.   She does a certain workout all the time  SO.... I'm thinking that a girl like this would probably be clean... but then again, if she went inside me snas condom, how many others does she do this with sans condom?

Oh by the way, she didn't cum inside me and she also told me after I expressed concern that she does not have pre cum.

2.  Naturally, I've been researching the net to find info and find that one really doesn't develop symptoms for about 2 weeks, and for me it was a mere 48 hours.    

3.  I had been in a large casino the day I started to feel like crap which is crowded with people and germs.     I guess this is my trying to rationalize things....

4.  I feel like a real dumb shit here and If I'm infected, I guess I deserve it.

Anyway, this is just a wake up call....ALWAYS WEAR THAT CONDOM!!!

F

While I think it's good you are scared I really doubt that you contracted hiv; hiv symptoms are going to take longer than 48 hours and from what I read it seems you are at a very low risk for contraction.  I think you should heed your scared feelings though and play safe.  Hiv is just one of the risks involved with this hobby, other stds and regular virial infections are a much bigger risk and are much more likly to be transmitted.  This should be a warning to all hobbyist, to both ts lovers and gentlemen who hobby with straight providers.  Play safe, always cover up for full service and avoid providers who have colds or other flu like symptoms.

Listen, Im no doc here but I can tell you just about everyone I know in this town has been down with a real nasty flu or bronchitis, including myself. Do what you need to do to get well but Im thinking all is well (cept the vegas crud you picked up caught). Best of luck.

Thanks for this info. I think it is important that we, the hobbiest realize the potential peril we can put ourselves and others in by not having protected intercourse.  I was faced with a similar situation when it was anounced that a very famous provider passed away from AIDS.  I went through and checked out who had seen her lately and then cross-referenced that list against providers that I had seen.  Well I found a single match.  This particular provider I performed BBBJ and allowed her to shoot on my face, with some getting on my lips.  So....I went to get tested, I defintely did not want to pass anything on to loved ones or anyone else for that matter. I sweated out the results for 3 days, when I received the news that I was negative.  Whew!  Since I had not had anyother unprotected sex since then, no further testing was required.  Folks PLEASE BE CAREFUL!  While, BBBJ is a lower risk activity it is still risky.  Busby, I pray that everything turns out OK for you.  God bless.  By the way this is an alias.

You  are freaking out! there's no  way you  will show FLu like symptmos after 48 hours! how ever that doesnt mean she  didnt  give  you SOMETHING you  will  find  out in  time! what  you  need  to  do  right  now  is  go  and  get  tested ASAP now  if  you  were  to get HIV positive results You can not  blame  that girl  you  recently saw, as hiv anti-bodies doesnt show in your blood system so soon, if you  are  sick  right  now  then you got  it  from somebody  else, and  YOU should  be letting  this t girl know that YOU are HIV + right now,  either way  you  shoul'd be  really  concerned about  your  actions, like  you  mentioned if  she went  inside you  with no  condom how many others you  think they tried it? You  are NOT the  only  one., it's  funny not  too  long  ago there was  somebody  asking about this  TGirl in "some"  city in  California and there were  quite a few responses all  of  them were GOOd, what these men  don't  know  is  that Probably they are HIV  positive  since  that girl  they  highly recomended is Sick and  has been for  many  years advertising as  an  escort with Great reviews  in  SER and being VERY unsafe to the  point of  no  using  condoms and  offering A GFE it  is  a  sad case,  what makes matters even  worse is  that if  someone  tries to warn anybody her the  post will  never  made it on line, You all  know the  BS ,that we  need  to  protect someones reputation since "it's  only  a  rumour".  so  while then come  on  guys go on  and  be  unsafe bring  money  to these HIV infected providers and  then  go  back  home to  your  wife have sex  with  her have  a child and  then  find out the results of  the  great  time you  had with  THAT girl who  was  the  best! DFK GFE No  condom WOW! it  was  fucking  great!!! right? don't  forget to  give  her a  review and mention  little  details of  your  encounter, guess what? everyone  else did as  much if  not  MORE than what  you  did with  her! amazing isn't ? you kiss her in  the mouth right after she was with  other  client who  came  in  her  mouth the  same  mouth that  the  day  before rimed that others guys asshole!!  That  same  mouth  that last  week did some  DFK with this  other guy who has TB!!!   Mmmmm interesting. Thats a fucking great escort and she travels all  the  time  so be  patient she'll  be  coming to  a  city  near  you!! Oh Yeah.

ALWAYS COVER UP FOR SURE BUT I HEAR A LOT OF TALK ABOUT "FLU-LIKE" SYMPTOMS WHAT DOES THIS MEANS  THE SNIFFLES  A RUNNY NOSE A COUGH ITS PRETTY UNCLEAR DONT YOU THINK  AND SECONDLY IF WE ALL WEAR A CONDOM SHOULD WE HAVE NO WORRIES AT ALL???

Thanks for the words gents.     I too don't quite think it will be HIV but a "bug" that is going around so I'm told by a few friends.  

ALTHOUGH...

As one mentioned, I"m concerned about other STD's.     Hepatitis.    Hepititis is one bad ass dude to get and live with.    Bad stuff.

Anyways thanks.   I'll let ya know how things come out.    Going to Docs tomorrow but too early to get HIV tested.    

F

First of all, great post.  What a WAKE UP CALL!!!  So often we get so entrenched in our own T-girl fantasy worlds that we forget about the apparent dangers our favorite activities provide.  No climax or fantasy is worth a lifetime of sickness.

That being said--here is my question.  Does ANYONE know a study, or medical website that has the FACTS about oral sex clearly spelled out, in black and white???  Are there clear-cut facts, or a study that shows what can and CAN'T happen during oral sex???

For example: What are the dangers of RECIEVING a BBBJ?  GIVING one?  What is your partner doesn't cum in your mouth--are you safe then?  What is they DO cum on your mouth?    

I have heard so many people's perspectives on this, and they all vary!  Even my personal physician says that it is extremely hard to contract STD's during oral sex if all "looks fine."  I know everyone has their own beliefs and has "heard" different things--but are the facts out?  Has someone done a study?  Anyone know the real deal???

1. You're an ass for not wearing a condom.
2. Don't sweat it too much. Everyone is sick with the flu these days. You probably have a bad cold. You may have got it from her. She probably got it from the guys before you.
3. When you top you have a low risk of catching HIV. Herpes on the other hand, isn't so hard to catch at all.
4. Since you play. Don't be stupid. Wear a condom and go get yourself tested for everything once every three months. I do. It is for my own piece of mind and it's responsible behaviour for someone who has many partners. Especially higher risk partners.
5. Get well, get tested, then grab your rubbers and play some more.

Some time flu like symptoms are from the flu. Takes about 6-10 days to exibit symtoms from a viral infection. Don't freek out just get tested to be sure however if I were a betting man I think you are fine.