Thanks for the words gents. I too don't quite think it will be HIV but a "bug" that is going around so I'm told by a few friends.
ALTHOUGH...
As one mentioned, I"m concerned about other STD's. Hepatitis. Hepititis is one bad ass dude to get and live with. Bad stuff.
Anyways thanks. I'll let ya know how things come out. Going to Docs tomorrow but too early to get HIV tested.
F
Fellow TS lovers....
I write this to remind all to WEAR A CONDOM A-N-Y-T-I-M-E you have intercourse with a provider.
I very recently saw a provider who was a stunner...killer body and great personality. As we got naked and after giving her a BBBJ, I got on top to ride her and knew I was at a crossroads here. She said, go ahead and get on. I said, "Are you clean". She said yes. I then said, "Swear to God?". She said yes.
So, on I went sans condom. I went for about 8 seconds and about 4 thrusts before I said, no, I better wear a condom. So I put a condom on.
Going forward 48 hours, I started to feel like SHIT.... the proverbial flu like symtpoms one hears about for HIV. Needless to say I'm really scared here and here are my thoughts....
1. This girl I saw (and it doesn't matter who it is as it applies to all) was very athletic and obviously takes very good care of herself. She is toned beyond belief... a real hottie for a tv. Very fem. She does a certain workout all the time SO.... I'm thinking that a girl like this would probably be clean... but then again, if she went inside me snas condom, how many others does she do this with sans condom?
Oh by the way, she didn't cum inside me and she also told me after I expressed concern that she does not have pre cum.
2. Naturally, I've been researching the net to find info and find that one really doesn't develop symptoms for about 2 weeks, and for me it was a mere 48 hours.
3. I had been in a large casino the day I started to feel like crap which is crowded with people and germs. I guess this is my trying to rationalize things....
4. I feel like a real dumb shit here and If I'm infected, I guess I deserve it.
Anyway, this is just a wake up call....ALWAYS WEAR THAT CONDOM!!!
F
While I think it's good you are scared I really doubt that you contracted hiv; hiv symptoms are going to take longer than 48 hours and from what I read it seems you are at a very low risk for contraction. I think you should heed your scared feelings though and play safe. Hiv is just one of the risks involved with this hobby, other stds and regular virial infections are a much bigger risk and are much more likly to be transmitted. This should be a warning to all hobbyist, to both ts lovers and gentlemen who hobby with straight providers. Play safe, always cover up for full service and avoid providers who have colds or other flu like symptoms.
ALWAYS COVER UP FOR SURE BUT I HEAR A LOT OF TALK ABOUT "FLU-LIKE" SYMPTOMS WHAT DOES THIS MEANS THE SNIFFLES A RUNNY NOSE A COUGH ITS PRETTY UNCLEAR DONT YOU THINK AND SECONDLY IF WE ALL WEAR A CONDOM SHOULD WE HAVE NO WORRIES AT ALL???
Listen, Im no doc here but I can tell you just about everyone I know in this town has been down with a real nasty flu or bronchitis, including myself. Do what you need to do to get well but Im thinking all is well (cept the vegas crud you picked up caught). Best of luck.
Thanks for this info. I think it is important that we, the hobbiest realize the potential peril we can put ourselves and others in by not having protected intercourse. I was faced with a similar situation when it was anounced that a very famous provider passed away from AIDS. I went through and checked out who had seen her lately and then cross-referenced that list against providers that I had seen. Well I found a single match. This particular provider I performed BBBJ and allowed her to shoot on my face, with some getting on my lips. So....I went to get tested, I defintely did not want to pass anything on to loved ones or anyone else for that matter. I sweated out the results for 3 days, when I received the news that I was negative. Whew! Since I had not had anyother unprotected sex since then, no further testing was required. Folks PLEASE BE CAREFUL! While, BBBJ is a lower risk activity it is still risky. Busby, I pray that everything turns out OK for you. God bless. By the way this is an alias.
You are freaking out! there's no way you will show FLu like symptmos after 48 hours! how ever that doesnt mean she didnt give you SOMETHING you will find out in time! what you need to do right now is go and get tested ASAP now if you were to get HIV positive results You can not blame that girl you recently saw, as hiv anti-bodies doesnt show in your blood system so soon, if you are sick right now then you got it from somebody else, and YOU should be letting this t girl know that YOU are HIV + right now, either way you shoul'd be really concerned about your actions, like you mentioned if she went inside you with no condom how many others you think they tried it? You are NOT the only one., it's funny not too long ago there was somebody asking about this TGirl in "some" city in California and there were quite a few responses all of them were GOOd, what these men don't know is that Probably they are HIV positive since that girl they highly recomended is Sick and has been for many years advertising as an escort with Great reviews in SER and being VERY unsafe to the point of no using condoms and offering A GFE it is a sad case, what makes matters even worse is that if someone tries to warn anybody her the post will never made it on line, You all know the BS ,that we need to protect someones reputation since "it's only a rumour". so while then come on guys go on and be unsafe bring money to these HIV infected providers and then go back home to your wife have sex with her have a child and then find out the results of the great time you had with THAT girl who was the best! DFK GFE No condom WOW! it was fucking great!!! right? don't forget to give her a review and mention little details of your encounter, guess what? everyone else did as much if not MORE than what you did with her! amazing isn't ? you kiss her in the mouth right after she was with other client who came in her mouth the same mouth that the day before rimed that others guys asshole!! That same mouth that last week did some DFK with this other guy who has TB!!! Mmmmm interesting. Thats a fucking great escort and she travels all the time so be patient she'll be coming to a city near you!! Oh Yeah.
Thanks for the words gents. I too don't quite think it will be HIV but a "bug" that is going around so I'm told by a few friends.
ALTHOUGH...
As one mentioned, I"m concerned about other STD's. Hepatitis. Hepititis is one bad ass dude to get and live with. Bad stuff.
Anyways thanks. I'll let ya know how things come out. Going to Docs tomorrow but too early to get HIV tested.
F
First of all, great post. What a WAKE UP CALL!!! So often we get so entrenched in our own T-girl fantasy worlds that we forget about the apparent dangers our favorite activities provide. No climax or fantasy is worth a lifetime of sickness.
That being said--here is my question. Does ANYONE know a study, or medical website that has the FACTS about oral sex clearly spelled out, in black and white??? Are there clear-cut facts, or a study that shows what can and CAN'T happen during oral sex???
For example: What are the dangers of RECIEVING a BBBJ? GIVING one? What is your partner doesn't cum in your mouth--are you safe then? What is they DO cum on your mouth?
I have heard so many people's perspectives on this, and they all vary! Even my personal physician says that it is extremely hard to contract STD's during oral sex if all "looks fine." I know everyone has their own beliefs and has "heard" different things--but are the facts out? Has someone done a study? Anyone know the real deal???
1. You're an ass for not wearing a condom.
2. Don't sweat it too much. Everyone is sick with the flu these days. You probably have a bad cold. You may have got it from her. She probably got it from the guys before you.
3. When you top you have a low risk of catching HIV. Herpes on the other hand, isn't so hard to catch at all.
4. Since you play. Don't be stupid. Wear a condom and go get yourself tested for everything once every three months. I do. It is for my own piece of mind and it's responsible behaviour for someone who has many partners. Especially higher risk partners.
5. Get well, get tested, then grab your rubbers and play some more.
Some time flu like symptoms are from the flu. Takes about 6-10 days to exibit symtoms from a viral infection. Don't freek out just get tested to be sure however if I were a betting man I think you are fine.