OK I was just wondering why so few TS providers ever particapate on these boards, but yet so many make sure they paste up when they are visiting a city?
I would love to see more threads that have something more than just people seeking or posting they are visiting. Is it just me, or would more of you guys like to see the same? I mean this is such a great forum we have at our disposal here (thanks to staff), and we kinda don't use it to better our part of the hobby.
I would love to hear some of your thoughts guys.....and other TS providers.
Love Kylies!!!

I wish there was more imput from the providers as well.

I know alot of the gurls know about the reviews and it seems that many post reviews for themselves. (I am always suspicious when a good review comes from an enthustiast with only one review.)

I know that this forum has done alot for the guys (bi-curious or bi-scared) out there that were afraid to ask others what they do or don't do with the transgendered. I am sure there are alot of guys out there relieved that there are others like themselves out there. I know that the knowing helps to lessen the alienation felt by many who partake or just lust in secret.

This is a great opportunity to know the other. I know that many of the posts from Kylie and the few others have given me insights to having a better experience.

Maybe it is because of the anonymity that we enjoy that would not be shared with the provider that has a website listed. Maybe there is fear of LE using this board to gather info that may be used against you. Maybe they just don't care.

Thank you Kylie for your imput and insight. I hope that others will take your lead and participate.

I think the main reason that the girls do not interact here or on other boards is that the guys make this scene too much of a "supermarket ".  Different people view the same thing in different ways. How can anyone make a review that really describes a girl - tha is only his personal experience, not that of someone else. Also, we are not a 7-11, with a list of specific services and a price list. As you guys say, YMMV. So does what you get for what you pay.

The chemistry between people is part of the game. If a tgirl is totally business and impersonal, but professional, she gets reviewed as cold. But if a tgirl is more personal in her dealing with a client, the experience will vary from guy to guy because of personal rapport.

You guys all seem to want that GFE experience. You cannot expect to get the same that someone else gets. How about if a guy comes over, is unclean, breath smells, etc. Maybe he is rough and pushy. You all expect that we are just Barbie dolls that you can wind up and get the same thing out of every time. Sorry, does not work that way.

Back to your original thread Kylies - some girls do not want to deal with the negativity that can come from these boards, but most girls are not computer literate either. Many of my friends hate the invasion of privacy from someone posting the intimate and private details of an encounter - amd then adding BS details.

Oh, final thought. What about the problem of some of the guys who just post up false and very negative reviews of someone just for spite? That alone can cost us $$$. There are pluses and minuses to sites such as this.

For me, I normally do not post anywhere, but you hit a chord and I figured I would drop my two cents worth in here.

U  made some  good  points  there TSDIEHARD  i  usually dont  post  reviews., but  i  had seen BAD REVIEWS  of  shemales  i  been  with in  the  past, and  i  just couldnt  believe she  had  a  bad  review!  so  i  do  talk to  some t  girls about  it.,  most  in  generaL seem  to  dislike reviews., they also said SUCH THINGS AS"UNFORTUNATELY THE HOT  LOOKING  GUYS I  MET  AND  HAD A  GREAT  TIME  WITH  DONT  WRITE REVIEWS" they  mention  how some  guys are  just PLAIN   unattractive! how  they wanna  get  into  deep  kissing  and  foreplay and  how  hard this  job can  be at  times., i  think  it  would  be  a  good  idea when  posting  a  review if  the  reviwer would describe (honest) little details  about their  general appereance including  age, cock  size  and  weight.  i  think  that  way  we  could  understand why "SHE"   rush  him  out a  little! or  why  she was  not  functional and  why she got an "I  SHOULD HAVE STAY  HOME" rating  in Performance. let's  face  it  we  only  get to  hear  one  side of  the  story., too  bad theres  no  way the  girls can  post a  picture of  her  clients for  us to  understand WHAT  REALLY HAPPENED I  GUESS  im a  lucky guy in  all  my  years  of  hiring escorts i  had  never  felt rush! i  do  believe girls  enjoy  my  company my equipment and  the things i  do  to  them...i  will  post  my  review of  ts Maui soon! and would be  a  good  one... My  advise here would  be  DONT BELIEVE EVERYTHING  YOU READ! TAKE  YOUR  CHANCES AND  CHOOSE THE  ONE  YOU LIKE! AND  IF  YOU  ARE CONFIDENT THAT YOU ARE A GOOD  LOOKING  MAN AND A  GOOD LOVER! TRUST ME YOU ARE KNOCKING 4 A  GOOD TIME.  GIRLS  DONT  JUST  LUV  MONEY THEY  LUV HOT MEN AS WELL.

I think it has to do with the delay of having your post reviewed.

If I read a post then reply, my post does not get put up for at least a day.

By the time some one reads and posts a reply it is two days later.  

By that time I have lost interest in the topic.

Also most forums will move the latest reply to the top of the forum thereby showing the topics everyone cares about.   How many times has someone asked about TS bars in LA?  At least a hundred it seems.  There is no way to search a topic etc, other than browsing the pages.

Just click on the "Find Message" button in the bottom left corner of your screen, and enter keywords (such as "TS bars LA") and specify a time frame (the default is 30 days, but you can go way back).  Good luck!

A very good post.  I think I make as many posts on this board as any hobbyist.  Many of the TS are bashed both deservadly so and not.
A couple of times, but not too many, I have seen a TS response and more often than not, I scratch my head unable to figure out why they wrote what they wrote.
Bottom line is that the TS providers virtually never respond to the criticisms that are wrote here. I would welcome their point of view on things if they are writen inteligently.
My view is the following:
1)  Many of the TS providers aren't computer literate like a previous poster said.  On the eros ads, VERY few have email addresses listed.
2)  Many (not all) of the bad ones who are justifiably knocked don't give a crap so that's why they don't respond even if they can.
3)  The good TS providers were are knocked unjustifiably who can respond are most likely disgusted with the unjust criticism or just don't don't want to take the time to get into it with these guys.
Well, I provided some food for thought. I would love to hear some views, especially from the NYC providers. There are only about 120 ads posted on eros, never mind the other sites, Screw, the Village Voice ectt.

Thanks tsdiehard for making some really great observations.

Yes it is true that this board is treated like a 7/11 market, but we do have the power to change things here. I mean all the other boards do the same thing as well (hence the reason girl next door is always reminding providers how to post ads) but they also invoke some and I mean "some" intelligent conversation and points to the hobby, as well as a good flameing once in awhile of things. That is what I would love to see here as well.

Now to the point of Chemistry, and reviews.                    Well if a T Girl is  business like, and impersonal and she gets reviewed that way, well then she is being reviewed no differn't than any GG provider who does the same thing and I do not see the problem there? No matter if a provider is GG or TS if she advertises a total GFE that is the way she should conduct herself in her meetings,or take down the GFE guise. I personaly have guys come over here kinda stinky or bad breath and I always have one of my bathrooms set up for him to take a shower, and I have mouth wash,deoderant(for men) and cologne so he can shower and all. In most cases he never refuses and we always have the type of session that brings foreward good reviews.

OK now the negativity...........YIKES!
This one hurts oh so much! ALL transgendered people go through to much of this BS everyday of their lives and it is a real shame that it happens. BUT! One of the things you learn early on in your transition or what ever you do is the point........People are going to be basterds!! No matter what! The road you are going down is going to be the toughest road you will ever travel. So either accept that fact, or stay where you are at and be misserable there.
I have been flamed so many times on boards, that now it is starting to get a bit easier. But truth is.......it still hurts.

As far as the reviews go. Well that is part of any provider that gets reviewed? I mean GGs have the same points wrote about them, so I guess they need to put up with the same detals as well as us? If a provider does not want to have herself reviewed, all she has to do is contact staff and have herself delisted. Then there will be no more reviews on her again.

OK Bad reviews..........I have been very fortunate that only one guy wrote a fake review on me that was less than favourable, and once again if that happens......CONTACT STAFF! That is what I did and they looked at the review, saw the anomalies in it and took it down imediatly.

I know I always sound so PRO-TER, but the truth is..I AM! I think this site helps the guys find what they are looking for if they do their home work. And for us providers it is a very useful tool if we just look from time to time at our reviews,and make sure things are corect.If a girl can become a VIP (like me) she has so much more power to earn as well.
I am no way computer savy, but I don't think you need to be to navagate the internet, nor do you need to own a computer to be part of this comunity here.

OK I rattled on way to much I know. I would just love to see maybe more input from some of the admireers as well as the providers here, instead of just all the SUPPER MARKET banter that proliferates this board everyday. But here again that is my .02 worth as well.

So you  really  think  is  worth asking  those stinky guys to  shower? if  those  guys smell most likely  they could  have an  STD  ., when  u  talk  about GFE   are YOU including DFK?   i  mean  do  u  get  into  all of  this with  every  guy  you  met? i  love    transsexuals  but  i  m  not  into  kissing not  because i  dont  want  to  but  because  is  not what  you  call safe! i  think  u  have class Kylie (looking  at  your  pics)  u  are  better off asking  these guys  to  leave! or  even if  you  choose to  do  what  you  doing., (letting these guys shower ) just  remember you are  worth much  more than  what these dirty men had giving  you! if  you  are  giving  too  much  to  a bunch  of  strangers in  the  end  you  might end  up  with  nothing for  yourself  and the  emotional scars would  stay  there forever! in  my  personal point of  view does  not  bother me when  a  girl acts business like.,  after  all  thats what  it  is BUSINESS!!!  im  not  looking  4  affection  or  love.  im  looking  to  get  off! and  i  do... and  as soon  as  i'm done im  out  the  door.,  most  of  the  times never  to  return even if that  experience was GREAT! AND  ONE QUESTION!   as  the  female  that  you  are  now., how  do  you separate your emotions from your GFE  sessions? or  is  it  pure acting i  guess it  must  be  hard dealing  with  guys who are  not  really  your  type! and  who sometimes even  after  they brushed their  teeth still have dog  breath. have  you  ever denied service to  anyone?... or  do  you  always  put  yourself into  uncomfortable  situations for  the money they had  payed  you? it  just  seems  unreal. i  had  always  admire  your  photos on  eros  the  reason why  i  never  called  you  is that i'm  more  into pre-ops! but  i  must  admit you  are  one good  looking  lady! so  dont put yourself down  by  dealing with  whimps,  there is  one  thing called pride., take  care of  your  sweet  self Kylie. H.B.

HB Thankyou for your sweet compliments!
I am careful when I screen clients, and yes there have been a few times I have turned people away, based on the very facts you mentioned. I have traveled to far down this rocky road to get to where I am at, not to fall victim to STDs now, nor do I want to be hurt physicly in any way. But that said this is a risky business no matter how careful a provider/hobbyst is.
 
I do love being a GFE, and if I ever get tired of the way I conduct things I would redo the ads I have. Is being a GFE all a big act? NO I don't think so at all. I truly love to have the room set, the wine poured, me wearing something that a man would fancy me in, and  just really enjoying time spent together making lasting memories. I personaly don't like the wham bam sessions. Those are harder on me then when I am able to turn on the charm, and really be intamate with someone.
One thing I always do, or try to do. Is find the beauty in everyone that see's  me. I know I am naive in many ways.......but there is good to most people. And since we are called "Providers"  I take it to a personal level where I feel I am doing something worth while.
I know I sound nutty, but that is what I am all about, and I really do enjoy my self probably 80% of the time. I do have pride in myself, in the way I try to conduct myself.