I'm an overweight guy in his mid-40s, which, coupled with my relative inexperience in matters sexual (long story), doesn't exactly make me the hottest lover on the playet, yet to date I've never gotten one "failure" vibe from any of the providers I've visited. With very few exceptions, they've all treated me very kindly and warmly, showed me a very good time, and genuinely seemed to enjoy themselves. That's because, unlike the younger guys, I take the time to talk with the ladies and treat them with respect, not just as some kind of biological fuck doll, and all of that tends to compensate for any shortcomings in the sex department, in my experience. (Could it all be an act? Perhaps, but if it is, you've all been very good at it, which I greatly appreciate! ) Tia, you're a prime example: you were lovely, charming, and really seemed to enjoy the time we spent together, and not once did I ever get a bad vibe from you. I'd visit you again in a heartbeat the next time you're in town, provided my finances will allow it.

I was not trying to be mean, but you said it, I responded to it. I merely pointed out the comments as reference, I did not "cherry pick" as deception.  Specifically, in this case, that grizzled gray older dogs are not "as good in bed" as cute wetnosed frisky puppies, from your point of view. You said what you meant, own it. I said what I meant in response and I stand behind my response with full validity, as is my right. I know I am not the same man I was 40 years ago every day when I look in the mirror to shave my face and see the gray hairs there increasing the real estate on my chin. I simply felt it necessary to comment on how such inevitable trivialities out of my control should be a source of hate and derision by the younger set, and we both know it is for some...

Awwww.... Wulfie - That is an exceptionally dark, and worst case example.... and no part of such an example would ever have a place in the types of companionships and connections i have ever known or engaged in myself.

I met an extraordinary lover once, years ago in my mid 30's, at a very upscale hotel here in DC and in our screening conversations, claimed to be in his early 90's (that's right - i said 90's), and was very concerned if that would be an issue for me.... But he was warm, well spoken, forthright, direct in his inquiries, and completely down to earth.

Upon meeting him, maybe he looked 70-ish (and a darned handsome 70-ish at that - was a former fitness trainer for decades), and we had an utterly exceptional time - mentally, emotionally, intellectually, and physically - and he was even considerate to the point of being so self-effacing as to ask if i was satisfied with him as a man - needless to say as i write this here - as far as i was concerned, he broke the mold, and forever changed my view of even the very most mature men...

One word: LoveRespectForever  - That crosses all ages, colours, cultures, boundaries, backgrounds, and preferences.

Here is a mantra i hope some will like. I wrote this a year ago after an exceptional experience with (an older man) where i was just blissed out for a couple of days afterwards. Not only did we intellectually and emotionally blow each other's minds, but physically it was, well - ummmm..... incredible for  all kinds of reasons.... i was only his 2nd or 3rd TS woman ever, and had not connected with anyone he'd really felt comfortable with, until then.

This came screaming out of my heart and mind as a result of that day, and i had to write it.




Open.

by: Angela Marie Bravelle Jan 23rd, 2011, 5:23am


I invite you, but do not ask. That is your place, not mine. Mine is the place of having no expectations other than respect for the woman i am, and true kindness for what i am willing to share of myself, as it should be.



My place is to give. and i do. i give the gifts of my heart, my mind, my body, my intellect, my soul if need be. Unconditional, if trust has been established by sincere, good natured, and warmly intelligent means.



We are protected, by the mutual respect for discretion, and the fair exchange of gifts, in the symmetry of risk we all take, when intimately exploring with others.



Safe Travels and Many Blessings to all.



LoveRespectForever,



Always,



Angela Marie

Thanks for sharing that story.  Just because it is a client/provider arrangement doesn't mean genuine feelings don't happen. We are human on both sides of the equation. I am relatively new to the hobby and I connected on an unexpected level with one provider. For me chemistry was just there and we had a great time.  We enjoyed each other's personality and did a lot of laughing. Neither of us expected to be that comfortable and we still keep in touch.  You meet people in strange ways and it is always great to add a positive experience and a friend no matter your age.  Just because I met her as a provider doesn't make me think less of her or my feelings and gratitude towards her.  Once in a while you get more out of life than you bargained for...those are the gems of life!

So welcome, Love....

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