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"I ain't as good as I once was, but I'm as good once as I ever was."
Unfortunately, when you start reaching those 40's and up, that's definitely a cold, hard truth! Er, no pun intended... okay, maybe a little... no, not THAT...! 
Hmmmm......
As women, TS or otherwise, and i think especially in the companionship arts, that trying to preserve as many youthful and highly desirable qualities would be an accepted norm in the woman's world, under almost all circumstances...
....And, of course, like a fine wine, any girl can only hope to age and mature as gracefully as possible, and also hope to only deepen our best qualities, with greater maturity. Broader experience being one of those, for sure...
For the men (and other women) that appreciate ( and look for) the more mature women that own it, embrace it, and wear it in such a way that it only better accentuates our best qualities on the whole, warmest respect can and will be returned a hundredfold i think. Always.
Thank you for those that do seek, and that do wish to connect with more mature women, especially in companionship. Speaking only for myself as a very mature woman, i know that warmth, simple kindness, basic respectfulness, gentlemanliness, maturity, and good intellect in a partner, mean more to me than almost anything else. In the Geisha culture i believe it was the more mature and expreienced woman that ultimately commanded the highest respect, and the greatest degree of desirability to many, as a perfect example of how maturity can be a successsful aid to growth in ones art, as opposed to a detracting quality.
I am much more concerned with internal contents than external features, and find more and more as i personally grow and mature, that the more mature men also often seek the same kinds of qualities.
Warmth, respectfulness, total comfort in ones self and in the company of others, down to earth and genuine relaxedness, and a mature intellect comboned with real committment to sharing exceprtionally memorable, and completely intimate, human, and totally non-transactional experiences - that is what really counts in my book and theirs.
Of course i will take the best shots, publish my best looks, accentuate my best qualities as a mature woman - why not - wouldn't you, or anyone else try to preserve those most highly desirable qualities of physical youthfulness if we can - especially as companions ?
The trick is to successfully combine them with actual maturity, and the greater substance of experience and intellect, but without compromising real substance or accuracy, which , of course. always becomes more challenging as we get older...
Best always,
LoveRespectForever,
Namaste'
Sincerely,
TheAngelaGirl
Just an observation, but the girls never seem to age in their ads. I know I have since partaking in this hobby.
Why listen to them if you believe your spirit is still young... ?
I wouldn't know, as I'm still 30'ish and totally buff myself, but If you've been at this side of the hobby for a while, you know that a lot of solid TS ladies that used to be reviewed here are long gone. This is a game for the young. Clients fib about their age as well, but at least for us, we are in fine company as long as a few Ben Franklin's show up to the date with us. To a point anyway, think the ladies like younger clients just like we like young (er) escorts.
So.... another long hmmmm.....I began in my early 30's, and now in my early 40's - and at the time, was with an agency that catered to a very securely screened, mostly very mature crowd...
And i personally always connected the least well with younger men, even at that time... Too much rushing with them. Less gentlemanliness, less cultured, more nervous, more sketchy, more drugs and alcohol, less traveled, less well established, and often just satisfying curiosities for the first time.
The majority of clients i took, even then, were still mostly 40+ to 60+ men that really were looking for something of more substance than just the in and out kind of experience.
But, i have always been very GFE oriented, and that is simply where my personal passion and intellect are best suited in most cases. I know that not everyone is the same, and for a wide variety of reasons.
Honestly, the worst cases of lack of gentlemanliness, respectfulness, attempted rip-offs, harassment, roughness, or simply lack of awareness or staying power, were always with men younger than myself... so i must differ in this opinion....
I would prefer to connect with more mature men that have a real sense of gentlemanliness in the very best of old school ways, have been around, seen the world, know better how to touch a woman and also be more patient with one and themselves in many cases....
and.... are also more comfortable in their own skins, and more emotionally, intellectually, and financially more well established - any day, no matter how good looking a 29-something or 33 year old man is.... No offense guys - truly i mean none... Just a difference of tastes...
Conversely, as well, i am like 10,000 times more comfortable in my own skin, and extremely more experienced in all kinds of ways when it comes to intimate sharing on all kinds of levels, than when i was younger too. And i am stronger, more flexible, and in better shape even now, than i was then.
i keep myself in excellent shape, believe even more deeply now, than ever before, in excellence in companionship and erotic arts, in making only memorably positive experiences, and especially with first time seekers....
i have experience and maturity now, that allows me to help them be exceptionally comfortable because they know they are connecting with a mature woman that truly and warmly cares about A.) representing TS females in the best possible way because being anyones "first" anything, to me, especially in intimacy, is almost a personally sacred responsibility in terms of what may be in their perception, or one of the biggest leaps, or risks, or trusts, they have ever opened themself to in intimately sharing with someone else - especially a TS woman.... much less a professional companion or escort...
and B.), Even more especially, if all they have to draw from is culturally negative stereotypes, porno flicks, and a million horror stories of ripoffs, fakes, and honestly dont know the difference between a CD, TV, Drag girl, or a real TS female identified woman, and/or maybe some gorilla in a wig and stockings meeting them at the door instead of the pretty picture they saw....
So - maturity helps vastly, in making sure they know of their comfort and discretion is utterly respected, and truly cared about, and not just in that moment, but from the very first call or email, until the very last second with a genuinely warm hug as we part company - as opposed to just getting in and out and making them feel like part of an assembly line, and having more questions inside of themselves than those that were answered.
I simply must most respectfully disagree, love...
Just more food for thoughts,
Most Respectfully always,
LoveRespectForever. Live it. Love it. Dare it. Share it. Free it. BE it.
Namaste'
The AngelaGirl
"I ain't as good as I once was, but I'm as good once as I ever was."
Unfortunately, when you start reaching those 40's and up, that's definitely a cold, hard truth! Er, no pun intended... okay, maybe a little... no, not THAT...!
good providers, either GG or tgirl will give you good service, regardless your age, as long as you are well mannered and respectful.
We get compensated (well) for our time, so there is no reason to treat you differently.
Besides, if we are attractive, we can get young, fresh, attractive men easily while we are off or on holiday, but while we are working, it is nice actually to see older,wiser, respectful gentlemen for a change. The sex is also relaxing and not require too much energy from my part.
Yes, of course, if we talk merely about sex, younger, attractive men are better in bed...but escorting is not merely about sex, isnt' it?
Besides, some older gentlemen can also still be very handsome and attractive.
Remember Sean Connery? Hemmm...yuummy!
But of course, I will say definitely yes too for Raphael Nadal LOL
Being both a big fan of Connery (yes, very yummy), and Raffa (equally yummy in a different way We get compensated (well) for our time, so there is no reason to treat you differently.
Besides, if we are attractive, we can get young, fresh, attractive men easily while we are off or on holiday, but while we are working, it is nice actually to see older,wiser, respectful gentlemen for a change. The sex is also relaxing and not require too much energy from my part.
Yes, of course, if we talk merely about sex, younger, attractive men are better in bed...but escorting is not merely about sex, isnt' it?
Besides, some older gentlemen can also still be very handsome and attractive.
Remember Sean Connery? Hemmm...yuummy!
But of course, I will say definitely yes too for Raphael Nadal LOL
, i thought that was an excellent point... Awesome examples, Tia and yes - for sure - as you said and must agree - it is always Not just about one thing. Some of the very, very, best experiences i have ever had were as a result of good intellectual connections with people, and trust was easily developed between us both from there...
And to amend myself a little (cause' i must), there have been some truly exceptional younger men i have known, some of which are still friends (ironically, they found me because they looked for mature women as their preference, anyway), and it comes down as much to good, strong, and intelligent - but never rude - screening as well...
When i was younger i made mistakes (still do occasionally but very rarely now) in not screening as well as i should have, or could have, and the result of any problem in that case, is my fault, as much as theirs admittedly...
Even in the worst cases i ever ran across, no matter the age or demographic, being polite to them is always the bottom line - firm - Yes. Frank and brutally direct if someone shows any signs of disrespect of either rates, or maintaining gentlemanly behavior - definitely.
Treating anyone with less than respectfulness, no. Even some of the ones i have had to politely excuse myself from in either screening, or having seen them maybe once, and never again after that... etc etc....
Having known many truly exceptional mature men, (one of which - now a close friend for many years - bears a rather wonderful resemblance to Connery - if you read this, you know who you are and that i love you)....
i have to say i don't think younger men always make better lovers. Many mature men - former athletes, runners, retired or semi-active military, or others that always took good care of themselves (and even some that didn't) - combine maturity, with self confidence, and the skills of a lifetime - especially if they're still open to learning more -
so, - i would have to say mature men for me, hands down in that category...
Even if performance may be an issue for some of them - then that's where the cerebral, emotional, and intellectual aspects of exceptional companionship, and good massage skills, can come into play and especially if you can hold your own in a variety of subjects and interests with them....
....and, they deeply appreciate the attention and respect of an attractive and mature woman that is younger than themselves, and in gentlemnaly ways that younger men often just haven't learned or gotten to yet... Just differences in all of our experiences i think...
(still would say never say no to Raffa, though, not on any day of the week...
Thanks, Tia - you rock. All of you do. No matter what or who or where....
"Sweet Dreams are made of these, who am i to disagree, everybody's looking for somethin' "
Annie Lennox - Eurythimics - "Sweet Dreams"
LoveRespectForever,
Always,
The AngelaGirl
good providers, either GG or tgirl will give you good service, regardless your age, as long as you are well mannered and respectful.
We get compensated (well) for our time, so there is no reason to treat you differently.
Besides, if we are attractive, we can get young, fresh, attractive men easily while we are off or on holiday, but while we are working, it is nice actually to see older,wiser, respectful gentlemen for a change. The sex is also relaxing and not require too much energy from my part.
Yes, of course, if we talk merely about sex, younger, attractive men are better in bed...but escorting is not merely about sex, isnt' it?
Besides, some older gentlemen can also still be very handsome and attractive.
Remember Sean Connery? Hemmm...yuummy!
But of course, I will say definitely yes too for Raphael Nadal LOL
Being both a big fan of Connery (yes, very yummy), and Raffa (equally yummy in a different way We get compensated (well) for our time, so there is no reason to treat you differently.
Besides, if we are attractive, we can get young, fresh, attractive men easily while we are off or on holiday, but while we are working, it is nice actually to see older,wiser, respectful gentlemen for a change. The sex is also relaxing and not require too much energy from my part.
Yes, of course, if we talk merely about sex, younger, attractive men are better in bed...but escorting is not merely about sex, isnt' it?
Besides, some older gentlemen can also still be very handsome and attractive.
Remember Sean Connery? Hemmm...yuummy!
But of course, I will say definitely yes too for Raphael Nadal LOL
, i thought that was an excellent point... Awesome examples, Tia and yes - for sure - as you said and must agree - it is always Not just about one thing. Some of the very, very, best experiences i have ever had were as a result of good intellectual connections with people, and trust was easily developed between us both from there...
And to amend myself a little (cause' i must), there have been some truly exceptional younger men i have known, some of which are still friends (ironically, they found me because they looked for mature women as their preference, anyway), and it comes down as much to good, strong, and intelligent - but never rude - screening as well...
When i was younger i made mistakes (still do occasionally but very rarely now) in not screening as well as i should have, or could have, and the result of any problem in that case, is my fault, as much as theirs admittedly...
Even in the worst cases i ever ran across, no matter the age or demographic, being polite to them is always the bottom line - firm - Yes. Frank and brutally direct if someone shows any signs of disrespect of either rates, or maintaining gentlemanly behavior - definitely.
Treating anyone with less than respectfulness, no. Even some of the ones i have had to politely excuse myself from in either screening, or having seen them maybe once, and never again after that... etc etc....
Having known many truly exceptional mature men, (one of which - now a close friend for many years - bears a rather wonderful resemblance to Connery - if you read this, you know who you are and that i love you)....
i have to say i don't think younger men always make better lovers. Many mature men - former athletes, runners, retired or semi-active military, or others that always took good care of themselves (and even some that didn't) - combine maturity, with self confidence, and the skills of a lifetime - especially if they're still open to learning more -
so, - i would have to say mature men for me, hands down in that category...
Even if performance may be an issue for some of them - then that's where the cerebral, emotional, and intellectual aspects of exceptional companionship, and good massage skills, can come into play and especially if you can hold your own in a variety of subjects and interests with them....
....and, they deeply appreciate the attention and respect of an attractive and mature woman that is younger than themselves, and in gentlemnaly ways that younger men often just haven't learned or gotten to yet... Just differences in all of our experiences i think...
(still would say never say no to Raffa, though, not on any day of the week...
Thanks, Tia - you rock. All of you do. No matter what or who or where....
"Sweet Dreams are made of these, who am i to disagree, everybody's looking for somethin' "
Annie Lennox - Eurythimics - "Sweet Dreams"
LoveRespectForever,
Always,
The AngelaGirl
All the best!
Tia
"we can get young, fresh, attractive men easily Yes, of course, if we talk merely about sex, younger, attractive men are better in bed"...
OK, so again, the bottom line remains, no matter what, that we older dogs are still seen as FAILURES when it comes to younger companions, objects of open ridicule by them in a worse case scenario.
But as I have said before in other remarks, many younger women are sorely lacking in competent erotic skills (yet arrogantly and cynically presume to know all there is to know about sex, and not shy about saying so), lack tact, intellect, and "people skills" in general. Some are simply sadistic and evil when all is revealed.
Yes, the smell of young smooth skin at the nape of the neck is an intoxicating nectar...but the drama queen behavior and the devastating "silent sneer" behind the mask is never hidden to the perceptive mature gent, and don't think we are all so stupid as to not be aware of it: Hating the hate. Oh, the mendacity of it all, the mendacity of it all...
No one can defeat Father Time, he always has the last laugh in the end, but blaming the victim by the younger set is merely naive, because their day is coming too, and faster than they think. For these, it is interesting to contemplate how they will handle the eventual and inevitable role reversal...
So...While they are laughing at the Old Dogs, Old Rattlebones, The Cosmic Deathlord, Pale Prince of the Mute People, is biding his time, (something he has a lot of), fondles the hard staff of his Scythe, and is laughing at THEM....
Wulfie
that's not true at all.
Don't cut, copy and paste small part of it, so it appears completely differently.
Don't cut, copy and paste small part of it, so it appears completely differently.
I'm an overweight guy in his mid-40s, which, coupled with my relative inexperience in matters sexual (long story), doesn't exactly make me the hottest lover on the playet, yet to date I've never gotten one "failure" vibe from any of the providers I've visited. With very few exceptions, they've all treated me very kindly and warmly, showed me a very good time, and genuinely seemed to enjoy themselves. That's because, unlike the younger guys, I take the time to talk with the ladies and treat them with respect, not just as some kind of biological fuck doll, and all of that tends to compensate for any shortcomings in the sex department, in my experience. (Could it all be an act? Perhaps, but if it is, you've all been very good at it, which I greatly appreciate! ) Tia, you're a prime example: you were lovely, charming, and really seemed to enjoy the time we spent together, and not once did I ever get a bad vibe from you. I'd visit you again in a heartbeat the next time you're in town, provided my finances will allow it. 
I'm an overweight guy in his mid-40s, which, coupled with my relative inexperience in matters sexual (long story), doesn't exactly make me the hottest lover on the playet, yet to date I've never gotten one "failure" vibe from any of the providers I've visited. With very few exceptions, they've all treated me very kindly and warmly, showed me a very good time, and genuinely seemed to enjoy themselves. That's because, unlike the younger guys, I take the time to talk with the ladies and treat them with respect, not just as some kind of biological fuck doll, and all of that tends to compensate for any shortcomings in the sex department, in my experience. (Could it all be an act? Perhaps, but if it is, you've all been very good at it, which I greatly appreciate! ) Tia, you're a prime example: you were lovely, charming, and really seemed to enjoy the time we spent together, and not once did I ever get a bad vibe from you. I'd visit you again in a heartbeat the next time you're in town, provided my finances will allow it.
thank you my friend, you have explained it honestly and bluntly.) Tia, you're a prime example: you were lovely, charming, and really seemed to enjoy the time we spent together, and not once did I ever get a bad vibe from you. I'd visit you again in a heartbeat the next time you're in town, provided my finances will allow it. For me, i am truly a people's person and love people the way they are, with only one important rule: be respectful. Remember that you are my guest and I'm the host.
You don't have to be Brad Pitt to have a good time with me.
Even though you are Brad Pitt, but you are arrogant and full of attitude..i will kick you out of my room...seriously. It has happened few times in the past, that I refused to give my service to these arrogant, full of themselves kind of people. These guys might be one of the richest man in the city..or a super model..or a movie star...if they forget a basic norm, to be respectful and to appreciate other people, they will NOT be welcome as my client. the things that i hate most in people are selfishness and arrogance.
On the other hand, those gentlemen, no matter the race, shape, and age, who respect and treat me as a person, I will guarantee you a good time. Promise!
Tia
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So welcome, Love....
Thanks for sharing that story. Just because it is a client/provider arrangement doesn't mean genuine feelings don't happen. We are human on both sides of the equation. I am relatively new to the hobby and I connected on an unexpected level with one provider. For me chemistry was just there and we had a great time. We enjoyed each other's personality and did a lot of laughing. Neither of us expected to be that comfortable and we still keep in touch. You meet people in strange ways and it is always great to add a positive experience and a friend no matter your age. Just because I met her as a provider doesn't make me think less of her or my feelings and gratitude towards her. Once in a while you get more out of life than you bargained for...those are the gems of life!
You, dear fellow - in such an expression of openness, and clearly thinking outside of any sense of "transactionality" with what sounds like a wonderful provider, are also one of the gems. Laughter is one of the greatest human medicines for all ills that ail us, leveling all playing fields, and when such laughter for me has engaged - even in initial conversations on the phone, even in some emails and IM's in my experience.... Then.... Such things always lead to better things, and some to truly exceptional connections, that we all will carry with us forever.
Real friendship can, & does happen - it has for me many times, & undoubtedly for yourself and surely others here as well - and that is a truly wonderful thing. Real sharing of heart, emotion, warmth, and loving, can be unconditonal, and very fulfilling, and does not have to have an off or on switch in order to connect erotically, or intimately, with others in the very fullest sense of mutual benefit in all kinds of ways - not just financially, or sexually.
It's always very validating for men to desire us as the very special women we are, and seek our company as such -
i think even more so in some cases as TS females, due to the very unique path we must walk, and in often very, very hostile cultures, especially where warmth and respect may not have ever been a part of where, or how, we began finally becoming all of ourselves....
Conversely, i think it can be equally validating for the man that seeks, and refreshingly recieves, something greater and more substantial, than just the purely physical level of attraction and satisfaction.
Everybody wins when real respect for each others' needs and genuine desires are really being met on all kinds of levels - and yes - no matter the ages between the two, as we both have seen from personal experience....
It can be pure, completely unattached, unpolitic, and extremely real, & with total respect to everyone's discretionary needs - and extremely beautiful when handled with care and respect by all involved. Yes, there are boundaries in most cases than cannot, must not, ever be crossed...but an awful lot of wonderful things can happen within those boundaries when we allow them to... also makes for some really excellent memories, and occasionally yes, some very special friendships, and sometimes, however rare, even much, much more.... Just ask Julia Roberts in pretty woman
Love - for sharing that, and love and respect always, right back, dear fellow.
Gems will usually recognize other gems, because they will clearly know one, when they clearly see one....
Most Warmly,
LoveRespectForever,
The AngelaGirl
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