You are a provider who is having unprotected sex with a client? Honey, fetishes and the pregnancy test is the least of your problems. You are risking your own life and the life of your potential unborn child. Not to mention the fact that you are placing other clients at risk.

What the heck are you thinking?

My turn to be cold...make_mine_a_double,

Pregnancy fetish or not - you are a PROFESSIONAL and you deviated from THE RULES. Examples of "pregnancy fetish talk" - surely you jest. Whether or not this was a fetish - you need to analyze your life and your situation FROM YOUR PERSPECTIVE ONLY. When someone sticks a dick in you, it's up to YOU to make sure that whatever consequences ensue - STD, pregnancy, etc. - you are fully prepared to assume the responsibility. If someone asks you to rob a bank, do you do it? You have to possess your own boundaries and limitations, and that goes for this job IN PARTICULAR, since we're dealing with bodily fluids, feelings, and other matters that tend to complicate life.

Ergo: Do you want a child and are you prepared to support and love this child for the next 20 years and beyond? Can you give this child a father that will care for him/her the same way? If not, go to the nearest ob-gyn/clinic and have an abortion. And be happy that Roe vs. Wade is still with us.

Live and learn for chrissakes,
the Love Goddess

There is really nothing to add to the two excellent above posts except I agree with LG that --unless you have strong moral objections-- you should head for an obgyn the second the pregnncy test comes back +.  The real worry is why you would allow yourself to be so used?  If a favorite charming client came to you with a finger removal fetish would you allow it and then go looking for information on the web so you could understand his thrill as cutting off a few of your fingers. Your story makes me want to put my arms around you.  Please learn how to take care of yourself.

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It doesn't seem like you are in control of yourself when you are around him.  As potentially dangerous as this job can be, you must try much harder to control the situation.  Allowing a client to talk you into BBFS so he can impregnate you is teenager-ish...  Sorry for the harshness, but what he said is more along the lines of what teenage boys say than any sort of fetish.

You aren't his psychotherapist.  Quit trying to understand why he is the way he is.  Figure out what you are doing and why.

"(Mind you in the time I have known him.. he has never taken my anywhere , or even called me to say hello.  Its - one call to see if I'm available- and no other calls in between. He's  very cold in that way."

No - he's a cold user, period.

Make_mine_a_double, that one passage says it all.  As does the first two replies to your post.  It's beyond comprehension that you would even bother with this guy.  With all the fine and available gentleman out there, you could certainly do better.  My opinion and hope is that you move on .. quickly.

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