First, thanks for sharing.  

 
Makes me wonder if the "in debt" story is real.    

 
I've had SB's with BF's.  As far as they have told me, the BF didn't know about her SD (or SD's?).  My current 26-yr-old Latina just broke up with her BF after 4 years off and on again.  She occasionally told me about their relationship, fights, etc. and a few times mentioned that his oral game is non-existent.  

 
I have tried to connect more than once with POT's who claim "Married but looking" or "Open relationship."  So far, my success has been limited to SB's who are bi-sexual and whose GF's are aware they sugar.

 
I also see the occasional profile that includes the term "hot wife." These are generally so-called "swingers" and they usually state the hubby either watches or participates. That's a hard pass for me.  

 
So I wonder if your situation is closer to the hot-wife thing... Is she telling him of her sexual exploits with you to help him get off? Is he asking her to escalate the kink stuff for HIS benefit?  

 
Will you get burned by all this at some point? And if you do, which one will burn you, her or him?  

 
Looking forward to updates...  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat  

I have two married SB’s. One I have been seeing for five years. She sees me on her lunchtime from work.  Her husband doesn’t know. I never initiate contact with her, I only reply to her texts if it can be done quickly so I know it’s safe. It’s been working fine this way. She says that she has my number saved as her “ hairdresser.”  Nothing explicit is texted and she deletes my texts immediately after reading them.  

I just started seeing the second one. She has a baby from a previous boyfriend who dumped her after he found out she was pregnant.  She says her husband is fine with her being a SB. Her husband sounds like a bum and may well be her pimp.  

After I started seeing the second one I told my best friend that, if I meet a sudden demise, it’s probably from a jealous husband!

I dated two married SBs that I know of. Who knows how many more were in fact married but didn't say so?

The two that I know were married were both swingers, and were very open about that.

The first I met initially at a M&G with her husband. Both were very good looking and very cool. Had a subsequent BC date with the wife - she was one of the hottest women I have ever been with. She ghosted me on a second date after I had checked into a hotel room.  

The second hotwife I dated multiple times over three years, on and off. Very sexual woman. She did not involve her hubby in her activities directly - I never met him. However, I know she would go home and tell him exactly what we did...

I have a SB who claims to be married but he doesn't know about her activity.  I believe she said he has some sort of medical issue and that limits his sex, or something, I didn't really bother to pay attention.  She has some sort of on call odd hours job so she can usually get away during the day and even on weekends.  Of course she could be lying about everything.  There can be various reasons for lying.
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I know on the fetish forums there are cuck guys and hot wifes -- this fetish the husband knows the wife is getting fucked by other guys.  Sometimes they watch, sometimes they just are told what the wife did with other men.  Sometimes a cheating wife gets off on thinking about what the husband is missing.  Lots of different fetishes out there.
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I enjoyed screwing a married woman, but that was a civie.  It really doesn't have the same taboo appeal when you are paying for it.  When you are doing a civie you know she wants it or she wouldn't be risking it.  For the SB, all she is probably thinking about is the dollars.  So not quite the same motivation.