Alright, so a few of you have commented on this working well so I tried it.  To explain first, according to her, the husband is on board.  They apparently racked up a lot of debt and she has a sex drive he can't handle.  So she's allowed to have one SD.  

We had one M&G lunch which was cool.  Then we had a second with some fun.  It was great till it got weird.  She started talking about what her husband likes during the deed.  And.....  Let's just say he's got some weird ass tastes.  I've had pros tell me what other guys are into to see if I am down for it.  Trying to do good service.  Was weird from a girl who supposedly hasn't had sex with anyone but that guy in years.

First, thanks for sharing.  

 
Makes me wonder if the "in debt" story is real.    

 
I've had SB's with BF's.  As far as they have told me, the BF didn't know about her SD (or SD's?).  My current 26-yr-old Latina just broke up with her BF after 4 years off and on again.  She occasionally told me about their relationship, fights, etc. and a few times mentioned that his oral game is non-existent.  

 
I have tried to connect more than once with POT's who claim "Married but looking" or "Open relationship."  So far, my success has been limited to SB's who are bi-sexual and whose GF's are aware they sugar.

 
I also see the occasional profile that includes the term "hot wife." These are generally so-called "swingers" and they usually state the hubby either watches or participates. That's a hard pass for me.  

 
So I wonder if your situation is closer to the hot-wife thing... Is she telling him of her sexual exploits with you to help him get off? Is he asking her to escalate the kink stuff for HIS benefit?  

 
Will you get burned by all this at some point? And if you do, which one will burn you, her or him?  

 
Looking forward to updates...  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat  

I have two married SB’s. One I have been seeing for five years. She sees me on her lunchtime from work.  Her husband doesn’t know. I never initiate contact with her, I only reply to her texts if it can be done quickly so I know it’s safe. It’s been working fine this way. She says that she has my number saved as her “ hairdresser.”  Nothing explicit is texted and she deletes my texts immediately after reading them.  

I just started seeing the second one. She has a baby from a previous boyfriend who dumped her after he found out she was pregnant.  She says her husband is fine with her being a SB. Her husband sounds like a bum and may well be her pimp.  

After I started seeing the second one I told my best friend that, if I meet a sudden demise, it’s probably from a jealous husband!

I dated two married SBs that I know of. Who knows how many more were in fact married but didn't say so?

The two that I know were married were both swingers, and were very open about that.

The first I met initially at a M&G with her husband. Both were very good looking and very cool. Had a subsequent BC date with the wife - she was one of the hottest women I have ever been with. She ghosted me on a second date after I had checked into a hotel room.  

The second hotwife I dated multiple times over three years, on and off. Very sexual woman. She did not involve her hubby in her activities directly - I never met him. However, I know she would go home and tell him exactly what we did...

I have a SB who claims to be married but he doesn't know about her activity.  I believe she said he has some sort of medical issue and that limits his sex, or something, I didn't really bother to pay attention.  She has some sort of on call odd hours job so she can usually get away during the day and even on weekends.  Of course she could be lying about everything.  There can be various reasons for lying.
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I know on the fetish forums there are cuck guys and hot wifes -- this fetish the husband knows the wife is getting fucked by other guys.  Sometimes they watch, sometimes they just are told what the wife did with other men.  Sometimes a cheating wife gets off on thinking about what the husband is missing.  Lots of different fetishes out there.
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I enjoyed screwing a married woman, but that was a civie.  It really doesn't have the same taboo appeal when you are paying for it.  When you are doing a civie you know she wants it or she wouldn't be risking it.  For the SB, all she is probably thinking about is the dollars.  So not quite the same motivation.

I have had several SBs who had steady BFs.  In most cases they identified as at least open, if not actually poly, and he was fine with her having me in her life.  In a few cases she was not honest about her sugaring with her SO and that makes me nervous.  Last thing I want is a jealous BF or husband learning about me and coming after me!  But in virtually every arrangement I've had over the years, the SB has been seeing/dating other guys, some civvies, some SDs.  And I like ti that way.  I'd be uncomfortable thinking a girl was relying on me for 100% of her needs. But I'd much know that her other lovers were on board with her sugaring.

Not worried about a jealous husband showing up?  I had a weird encounter once when her fiance showed at the restaurant we were doing a M&G at.  She basically shrugged to me and said I should have known she was engaged.  He started yelling at me and I cut him off.  Told him she's the one lying to both of us.  

I got up, told the server to get our food to go for me only.  Since we had ordered and not been served yet.  I paid while they fought.  Left a good tip and never looked back.

A jealous husband is always a risk. I did ask her if he was prone to violence. She didn't seem concerned.

She might not be, but you might!

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