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escalade1964 65 Reviews 2241 reads
posted
1 / 23

That is not the "GFE" I am looking for.

Is it possible to just refer to me as your boy friend for an hour?

Your thoughts if any?

lungman 10 Reviews 773 reads
posted
3 / 23

babe, sweety pie, honey, darling, etc. I doubt your gonna get BF thrown in there. The sex part is BF enough for me. Although some of these ladies would make awesome girlfriends. IMO

anonymousfun 6 Reviews 722 reads
posted
4 / 23

Are you masochist? Keep trying to make somethings it never will be. Euphemisms are just that, never will become anything else.

Getting a life and considering this as a hobby would very helpful to you or you can try the Sugar Daddy route.

andrewww12 6 Reviews 665 reads
posted
5 / 23

Why not just work on getting an actual girlfriend or take a break from hobbying? I'm sure some providers might do that but that's kind of a depressing fantasy.

I always thought GFE was just about the sex itself, like kissing, etc, which seems okay to me since it's still physical.

dicktracy 3 Reviews 549 reads
posted
6 / 23

I'm looking for a "GFE" experience, but I wouldn't want her calling me her boyfriend during a session. She doesn't necessarily have to use the "C" word, but BF is over the top. I'm looking more for the touring Rockstar experience anyhow.

ceotraveling 30 Reviews 541 reads
posted
7 / 23

Posted By: escalade1964
That is not the "GFE" I am looking for.  
   
 Is it possible to just refer to me as your boy friend for an hour?  
   
 Your thoughts if any?

Allstar 9 Reviews 439 reads
posted
9 / 23

Yea I agree...thats a little weird for me too. The only reason I like the GF experience, is because these gals are more about making you comfortable and making an attempt to connect with you enough to make the sex part more enjoyable and less mechanical. Sometimes I dont care about that. Id like to get a porn star who is willing to role play...someone who has the experience to pull it off and knows how to look picture perfect when in the act of sex, just as if she was being filmed. I think that would be fun and definitely something Id like to try with the right provider.

But there is no fantasy for me personally. I never walk through the door expecting to be something Im not for any length of time. For me, its really about finding someone whos personality I click with and who pleases me both visually and sexually, or as I mentioned about the porn star, someone with a skill set and the experience to provide a particular type experience that Id like to have. Even doubles. How many guys can say they have been with two women whos only concern was pleasing the man? The hobby is great if those are the kinds of things youre after. If you are really looking for intimacy, you are not going to find it with a provider IM

89Springer 459 reads
posted
10 / 23

Believe it or not, I'm not a dummy. I know that the xoxo and the "sweetie" and "baby" stuff is all crap. It insults my intelligence to be treated that way.  If she remembers my name and what I like, that would be fine.

octovert 532 reads
posted
11 / 23

I can always tell when a girl I know as friendly is talking to her BF: it is always the most businesslike conversation around. GF Experience as offered by the practitioners here is the experience of a romantic fantasy. Maybe "Slice of Romance" describes it more accurately

xray84 28 Reviews 477 reads
posted
12 / 23

You are a client. However, there's nothing pejorative about that.

Consider that these gorgeous women will (within limits that should be clear before you arrive) do whatever you want while you're there! Is being a client so bad?

You didn't quite put it this way, but what I think you meant was "Am I -just- a client".

The answer is still yes, initially with everyone you see, and always for nearly all of the women you will see. However, it may occasionally become more that, over time and under circumstances you don't yet know. If you feel something particular attractive about someone you see, repeat. See where it goes. You'll -always- be a client. I mean, get real. But there are other levels to this, at least according to me.

It's not so bad(!!) to be a client. Just try to be a good one.

JoeBanzai 30 Reviews 562 reads
posted
13 / 23

I would think as long as you don't want to be their BF after the hour is through, why not. You ARE their boy friend for that particular hour. It's all role play isn't it?

One gal I had seen many times even was fine when I said "damn, that was so good I almost said I love you" she said during the session that would be OK.

I never did say it though

NicoleSaunders See my TER Reviews 555 reads
posted
14 / 23

Ive never had anyone ask me to refer to them as my bf or some other title while we were together privately...

But while out in public, Ive had a guy say "my girlfriend blah blah" while referring to me speaking to someone else, and have been mistaken for being dating or married lol  

Its just not in my nature, and Ive never been one to call someone by sweetie, darling, baby, etc...  I always use his name.  Im not against or have any feelings about it, its just not something I do...feels impersonal.  When guys call me by that, and never use my name, I always feel like its cause they cant remember it aye! lol

skarphedin 473 reads
posted
15 / 23
Penutbutter420 509 reads
posted
16 / 23

A very reputable touring provider told other "clients" I was her boyfriend.... Kinda weird to hear that from another fellow hobbyist.... Needless to say I was not comfortable hearing it.... seeing that she is straight up lesbian made it even more weird... And yes i confirmed that she did in fact say it...  

Maybe my point is that this is already complicated enough why do we need to go to "eleven"?

justanillusion 504 reads
posted
17 / 23

They are addressed by he name they give me. I have no need to use the word client in an appointment.

OSP 26 Reviews 548 reads
posted
18 / 23

That while at dinner I don't have to refer to you as "fuckyoulongtime" lol. Some hooker names just aren't suitable to use in public. I could never be out and about with a date who didn't trust me with her first name.


Ok chicas,blast away with your paranoia lol

Crisis25 533 reads
posted
19 / 23

I don't know how other people do things but in my world I've never been called boyfriend. I get called "my love" and I do the same. I don't even call friends by name unless they don't see me and I have to shout for their attention

ROGM 720 reads
posted
20 / 23

I wish my current Provider was my G.F. She's so Awesome to me. Maybe when she leaves the Business and I'm still in contact with her, I'll go to a Tarot Card Reader and find out. LOL!!!!!

PhilAnderz 22 Reviews 557 reads
posted
21 / 23

The "fake sweetie XOXO crap" is, if not a red flag for me, at least yellow.  I won't answer an ad that features this sort of transparent, patronizing nonsense —and if it pops up in subsequent messages with someone I've contacted but not yet seen, it could prove a deal-breaker.

justanillusion 465 reads
posted
22 / 23

If I have yours you can most certainly have mine, because calling you monger or trick just doesn't seem polite. lol

CosetteS 571 reads
posted
23 / 23

Funny that you mention the use of language. I refer to what I do as dates, and boyfriends and think it is very much appropriate for a certain group of people who enjoy doing this.

I think language shapes many things, and that means "this" as well

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