Yea I agree...thats a little weird for me too. The only reason I like the GF experience, is because these gals are more about making you comfortable and making an attempt to connect with you enough to make the sex part more enjoyable and less mechanical. Sometimes I dont care about that. Id like to get a porn star who is willing to role play...someone who has the experience to pull it off and knows how to look picture perfect when in the act of sex, just as if she was being filmed. I think that would be fun and definitely something Id like to try with the right provider.
But there is no fantasy for me personally. I never walk through the door expecting to be something Im not for any length of time. For me, its really about finding someone whos personality I click with and who pleases me both visually and sexually, or as I mentioned about the porn star, someone with a skill set and the experience to provide a particular type experience that Id like to have. Even doubles. How many guys can say they have been with two women whos only concern was pleasing the man? The hobby is great if those are the kinds of things youre after. If you are really looking for intimacy, you are not going to find it with a provider IMThat is not the "GFE" I am looking for.
Is it possible to just refer to me as your boy friend for an hour?
Your thoughts if any?
babe, sweety pie, honey, darling, etc. I doubt your gonna get BF thrown in there. The sex part is BF enough for me. Although some of these ladies would make awesome girlfriends. IMO
Are you masochist? Keep trying to make somethings it never will be. Euphemisms are just that, never will become anything else.
Getting a life and considering this as a hobby would very helpful to you or you can try the Sugar Daddy route.
Why not just work on getting an actual girlfriend or take a break from hobbying? I'm sure some providers might do that but that's kind of a depressing fantasy.
I always thought GFE was just about the sex itself, like kissing, etc, which seems okay to me since it's still physical.
I'm looking for a "GFE" experience, but I wouldn't want her calling me her boyfriend during a session. She doesn't necessarily have to use the "C" word, but BF is over the top. I'm looking more for the touring Rockstar experience anyhow.
Yea I agree...thats a little weird for me too. The only reason I like the GF experience, is because these gals are more about making you comfortable and making an attempt to connect with you enough to make the sex part more enjoyable and less mechanical. Sometimes I dont care about that. Id like to get a porn star who is willing to role play...someone who has the experience to pull it off and knows how to look picture perfect when in the act of sex, just as if she was being filmed. I think that would be fun and definitely something Id like to try with the right provider.
But there is no fantasy for me personally. I never walk through the door expecting to be something Im not for any length of time. For me, its really about finding someone whos personality I click with and who pleases me both visually and sexually, or as I mentioned about the porn star, someone with a skill set and the experience to provide a particular type experience that Id like to have. Even doubles. How many guys can say they have been with two women whos only concern was pleasing the man? The hobby is great if those are the kinds of things youre after. If you are really looking for intimacy, you are not going to find it with a provider IM
Is it possible to just refer to me as your boy friend for an hour?
Your thoughts if any?
Believe it or not, I'm not a dummy. I know that the xoxo and the "sweetie" and "baby" stuff is all crap. It insults my intelligence to be treated that way. If she remembers my name and what I like, that would be fine.
The "fake sweetie XOXO crap" is, if not a red flag for me, at least yellow. I won't answer an ad that features this sort of transparent, patronizing nonsense —and if it pops up in subsequent messages with someone I've contacted but not yet seen, it could prove a deal-breaker.
I can always tell when a girl I know as friendly is talking to her BF: it is always the most businesslike conversation around. GF Experience as offered by the practitioners here is the experience of a romantic fantasy. Maybe "Slice of Romance" describes it more accurately
You are a client. However, there's nothing pejorative about that.
Consider that these gorgeous women will (within limits that should be clear before you arrive) do whatever you want while you're there! Is being a client so bad?
You didn't quite put it this way, but what I think you meant was "Am I -just- a client".
The answer is still yes, initially with everyone you see, and always for nearly all of the women you will see. However, it may occasionally become more that, over time and under circumstances you don't yet know. If you feel something particular attractive about someone you see, repeat. See where it goes. You'll -always- be a client. I mean, get real. But there are other levels to this, at least according to me.
It's not so bad(!!) to be a client. Just try to be a good one.
I would think as long as you don't want to be their BF after the hour is through, why not. You ARE their boy friend for that particular hour. It's all role play isn't it?
One gal I had seen many times even was fine when I said "damn, that was so good I almost said I love you" she said during the session that would be OK.
I never did say it though
Ive never had anyone ask me to refer to them as my bf or some other title while we were together privately...
But while out in public, Ive had a guy say "my girlfriend blah blah" while referring to me speaking to someone else, and have been mistaken for being dating or married lol
Its just not in my nature, and Ive never been one to call someone by sweetie, darling, baby, etc... I always use his name. Im not against or have any feelings about it, its just not something I do...feels impersonal. When guys call me by that, and never use my name, I always feel like its cause they cant remember it aye! lol
A very reputable touring provider told other "clients" I was her boyfriend.... Kinda weird to hear that from another fellow hobbyist.... Needless to say I was not comfortable hearing it.... seeing that she is straight up lesbian made it even more weird... And yes i confirmed that she did in fact say it...
Maybe my point is that this is already complicated enough why do we need to go to "eleven"?
They are addressed by he name they give me. I have no need to use the word client in an appointment.
That while at dinner I don't have to refer to you as "fuckyoulongtime" lol. Some hooker names just aren't suitable to use in public. I could never be out and about with a date who didn't trust me with her first name.
Ok chicas,blast away with your paranoia lol
If I have yours you can most certainly have mine, because calling you monger or trick just doesn't seem polite. lol
I don't know how other people do things but in my world I've never been called boyfriend. I get called "my love" and I do the same. I don't even call friends by name unless they don't see me and I have to shout for their attention
I wish my current Provider was my G.F. She's so Awesome to me. Maybe when she leaves the Business and I'm still in contact with her, I'll go to a Tarot Card Reader and find out. LOL!!!!!
Funny that you mention the use of language. I refer to what I do as dates, and boyfriends and think it is very much appropriate for a certain group of people who enjoy doing this.
I think language shapes many things, and that means "this" as well