There's a provider you've seen a couple of times before. The first time you saw her she had an absolute killer body. The next time you saw her she'd gained some weight, which you didn't like. But you like her a lot.

The best thing perhaps would be to contact another hobbyist who has recently reviewed her and ask them about her weight.

You have nothing to lose. If she lost the weight, she'll be proud of it and let you know.  If she gets offended, you'll know she didn't, and you won't want to see her anyway.

Her website makes a big deal about her super-tight body and bubble butt. She doesn't look anything like that anymore.

but business would probably suffer.

That's false advertisement.

Tell here you appreciate her and want to buy her a little something nice to wear.

it is that you NEVER inquire, ask, hint, imply, infer or step into the same universe as the Weight Question.

ask if she's still a big fat cow. Just kidding, please.

false advertisement is correct.

Don't ask her anything weight-related, no matter how obliquely. Even if she's in dynamite shape, she'll STILL want to bite you (and not in a fun way).  

But if you still feel froggy then try recent reviews, backchannel, maybe offer to meet for lunch somewhere "just to reconnect", or mention you were thinking of getting her lingerie and ask what size it should be.

if she does not feel like you do, you are the only loser.  

Just don't see her if this is a issue for you.
I would not mind her size and enjoy fucking woman of different sizes myself.
You can always find another provider too.
It's really not a issue unless you just want to hurt the lady feelings.

You could do as suggested and check recent reviews and contact the reviewer.

Actually I'd prefer the guillotine, at least it's instantaneous.

and yes, you can tell when a photo was taken ...

Love her the way she is currently? Is it really ALL about the body...noooo. Of course not lol

Ask her to be doing or wearing something specific in the selfie.  
She'll sort it out, but it's more tactful than the direct approach.

This is p4p not civie dating.

recent studies show that women who put on a little extra weight live longer than the men who comment on it.

I love my friends. I love my lovers. But I'm not "in" love with them.  

Therefore, I'd just move on.  

sorry to say, but physical looks are part and parcel of the package we are laying down the envelope for.

And trust me I understand. All I'm saying is "if" he still enjoys her company which it appears he does as he's a repeat customer...usually it has to do with more than just the bod aspect...no?

And again I am referring to p4p here. You ladies charge different rates and part of the difference in rates is often based on looks.  

A very high percentage of people on this planet encompass something beautiful about them. I believe everyone has a gift about them in one way or another. Its up to us as the giftee to decipher just what that is when coming across them.  

...but indiscretion has been all the rage the last 10 days or so.  

there are guys here who LOVE paying for the things you don't.

with my ex. I loved her despite her being double the size she was when we married.

If I hook these soft Johns up to a polygraph, if be willing to bet I would be in the majority.

Who is paying whom?  You're being paid to deal with our little dicks.

Getting asked questions like these is the natural consequence of having old pictures.  If you want to be subtle, ask for a current selfie.

I guess you'll be missing out. Not sure what else to tell you except that I have one question for you...

absolutely right gfe.  there's no substitute for good company, and yes, i bet i'd give you a 10/10 too, cuz i just go crazy for a girl that gives me attention.

I think you're one of the "fall and can't get up" kinda guys here. Despite what you spew on a weekly basis lol.

But Jack might be getting close to falling with this brand new SB.

I'm not here for love, or love handles ...

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Yes. Go for it!!!

A www come on Jack I'll give you 7 guesses. I think I guessed it the first time. Is there a prize?

Prostitutes get paid to fuck anyone who has the money.

If she's still a fatso she'll ignore you.  And that will save you from wasting your money and being taken advantage of.

...and it paid off in spades.

I wouldn't make a remark about her weight.

That's what this is all about, P4P

Posted By: JuliasLittleSecret

I wouldn't fuck you if you were the hottest guy with the biggest dick on earth and you offered to pay me $10,000.    
   
 So there ya go, we're not all willing to fuck anyone and everyone just because they will pay us.  
   
   
   
   
 

"Havnt seen u in a while..Do you have any current pics?"
That could help...

Isn't there a bridge you should be under?

I have bought many dresses over the years, but if a woman requires anything larger than about a size four.....

I didn't notice until she pointed it out. IMO, it's an improvement, not that she needed to make any.

I said it not once but many time in this board . The most successful providers are in business less than 5 years  Along with  longevity of life as the ones that stay in the business make $$$$ and leave or become successful owners agency .. I seen so many top 5 providers in region over a period of 5 years who let them self go or became addicted to substance 👎. It's a shame but true . In life greedy people don't last in this world period .

The GD was for "morons and losers?" What gives of late?

In jeans and a t-shirt   (picture)  not an unusual or awful request

My favorite-to-date has been in the business for probably eight or nine years. She looks different than she did in the beginning, but she's every bit as beautiful. Killer body and face, and super performer (not to mention a total sweetheart).

Well said! There are some real jackasses on these boards!

Posted By: JuliasLittleSecret

I wouldn't fuck you if you were the hottest guy with the biggest dick on earth and you offered to pay me $10,000.    
   
 So there ya go, we're not all willing to fuck anyone and everyone just because they will pay us.  
   
   
   
   
 

As a woman I do understand our bodies change for limitless reasons, with that's said, there is no acceptable excuse for false advertising. If you've gained some weight, have pictures to reflect such or post size in your ad. If you've lost weight, same thing. There is someone for every body type but it should be the buyers choice to purchase his type. If you don't want people asking about your weight, be honest about it. You'd have a different tune if someone said I'll pay your hourly fee and short you a couple bucks. Buyers feel the same way, shorted out on what they paid for. Nothing wrong with gaining but pretending you didn't then getting angry it was asked is bogus. If it makes you angry that it's noticeable, do something about it besides lie and get angry at those who ask. If someone is being rude or degrading is one thing but asking is another. Just like some females say no black men as is their right, it's a man's right to say no heavier woman. You can't get mad at choices. He may like her thin but not heavy, he doesn't have to like her no matter what. If women stopped that bs, there'd be allot less clients here. We catch them looking one way and say, aww, gotim now I can let myself go. It doesn't work like that. Yes you love your mate but your mate should try and be what you fell in love with. Woman have a kid and 6 years later still blame the pregnancy for the extra 50lb. We all change but when you are selling a look that's how you should look. If it's all about personality, then you shouldn't mind presenting your real self. If you order a black evening gown online and get a yellow summer dress, you don't keep it just because it's nice. It's not what you saw, ordered or expected point blank period.