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Yes you can get the child a gift
Kikiloverkink See my TER Reviews 41 reads
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I think it would actually be sweet, shows you care about her and her little family. If she’s into soccer then get her something soccer related.

SEVENNY921 reads

I see my ATF 3-4 times a year when I am in her city and she always brings up her daughter and we talk about how she is doing. It's always a nice moment and conversation. Is it appropriate to bring a gift for her daughter next time I see her (she is really into soccer)?

Thanks for your input!

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Kitty7636 reads

I'm sorry but bringing your child around your clients........That's not cool. Let alone allowing the client to by your child a gift.

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holystonethedeck37 reads

Where do you get that the lady is bringing her child to appointments?????

 
It's absolutely appropriate to bring a gift for the child - I think it would be greatly appreciated. My opinion.

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impposter51 reads

I've had hostesses bring up the subject with me. See my recent post:
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/re-i-try-to-avoid-married-providers-1011482
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In the current case, there is a lot of missing detail. I did NOT get the impression that the child was brought along, introduced, or even on the premises. Also, is the daughter 2 yo or 22 yo? "I'm so happy that my daughter just got into a great pre-school program for 2 yos!" versus "I'm so proud that my daughter just got accepted into law school!"  
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In either case, "Here's something to get your daughter a nice present. (A Barbie doll versus a "Bar Exam Test Prep" book.)
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I.e., I think that there's a way to handle such gift giving nicely and not weirdly.

Posted By: Kitty76
Re: Gift for provider's child?
I'm sorry but bringing your child around your clients........That's not cool. Let alone allowing the client to by your child a gift.

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SEVENNY46 reads

She doesn't bring the child- she speaks of her.

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WIMissScarlet37 reads

I don't think he said she brings the child with, I think he said she talks about the child. I do not have kids, but clients do often bring treats for my dogs, which is very thoughtful.

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MatureGFE39 reads

that the provider brought her child to see him-sigh...

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mrfisher34 reads

but only with gals I have gotten to know on a personal basis.

 
If you are skittish about doing it, then that tells me that it is better not to.

 
Better idea:   Give her a X-Mass bonus and say that you hope she can buy something nice for her kid of X-Mas.

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Steve_Trevor38 reads

I know that would be appreciated.  

 
I’ve known my ATF for many years, and I know a lot about her kids because she brings them up in conversations. But I’ve never met them, so I’d feel weird buying them gifts—and they might not be gifts they’d like.  But their mom knows what they like.

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coeur-de-lion44 reads

daughter through the mother is the best bet to avoid any awkwardness.  Just tell your provider not to tell her daughter that a guy who is one of her sex customers made the gift possible.  The joy is in the giving.    Lol

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brownjack47 reads

I learned that a woman that I was seeing had children.  We discussed them when we'd meet.

 
I used to be in the toy business, and had an in at an educational toy store.  I bought her kids an educational toy, that I doubt she would have found on her own.  I had no expectation of "compensation".  I was motivated by my interest in helping a single mother support her kids.  

 
She reported that her kids loved the toy, which was gratifying.  I have no regrets whatsoever.

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QueenBia40 reads

You’re very thoughtful. My friends have sent my children gifts over the years & it makes me love the more. You’re a sweetheart. I am sure they both appreciate your thoughtfulness.

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lester_prairie52 reads

Again mixing business and life can have risks.  There is the story of a famous Minneapolis provider who was befriended by a client, met her kids, helped her out financially etc, but then became her stalker and allegedly ratted her out to the cops.  Later she learned from the guy's brother that he suspected him of murdering his former girlfriend.

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Kikiloverkink42 reads

I think it would actually be sweet, shows you care about her and her little family. If she’s into soccer then get her something soccer related.

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inicky4646 reads

He talked about buying milk and diapers for her kid. He also suffered from what we called Random Capitalizatiion Syndrome. What a fucking weirdo.

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josulli45 reads

For her daughter. It was fun.

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