I have, over the years, seen several ladies that were married ( seeing one now actually ). Mom's and married ladies, I have found, have been wonderful and generous lovers.
Also those with boyfriends. It's a biz.
many either married or with an SO. Also, many still have yutes at home. I have also been a boyfriend to an active provider, so I understand the dynamic from that perspective. As long as everyone involved is fully informed of the situation (except minors), there are rarely any problems. I even saw some married providers who entered the business during Covid to help their families while their husbands were out of work. However, if I find out a provider is married and her husband does not know they are doing this for money, I will stop seeing them. It's too risky. If he should think his wife is just cheating on him and decides to go after the "other" man . . . . at best, a lot of unwanted drama. and at worst, a physical assault when you are least expecting it.
Because I did that. 13 years still going strong.
I see two gals now who are married. In one case the hubby doesn't suspect, at least as far as she knows (or is willing to tell me.). In the other case, he is her driver, at least at times.
Then there have been a few who were in committed relationships, but most of the time those didn't pan out.
Amazing how time flies. That was probably the most fun I ever had at a wedding. And that includes both of mine.
I hate to be the one to break it to you, but the vast majority of providers are married with kids/grandkids or in a committed relationship. I do share details about my personal life, some do not.
I have been with my significant other for 5 years, we have been engaged for 2. I personally do not have any children.
This is our job. We are regular human beings just like everyone else outside of work.
Omg! Can’t imagine! That’s wild!! Good for them!
The average age of someone to become a first time grandparent is between 45 and 50, which is also the age of most established providers. Really not that unusual.
Have you ever fallen for a client? Or close to it? Have you ever gone too far in a session that didn't think would ever? The regular provider I'm seeing had 3 sessions before we had sex. We just have this chemistry that I can't described. Honestly it just happened, and we mutually enjoyed it. But at the same time, I kinda new from the start that there might have been something she was not telling me (until she told me just recently). I'm okay with it, as long as she's okay with (she's a sweet girl)
So I the customer am married and many providers I see get that special feeling when they are with me. I am in contact with 9 providers who I’ve known ranging from the past year up to over 11 years. The special feeling is still there with each of them when we meet up.
There is a regular provider I've been seeing, and we have sex on the regular. She told me just recently she's married, and she can only jerk me off going forward. I told it was fine, but last time I saw her, we ended up having sex again. I found it to be a huge turn on knowing she's married. I feel terrible, but I'm going to keep on riding the wave, until we both get tire of each other! Just wondering if anyone else had a similar experience?
Fucking married guys is huge turn on for me as well, even outside providing. 🙈
In civie world, I love the ego boost of fucking a married woman who is cheating on her hubby. I should say I loved the one time it happened for me. We were both married to other people and carried on for several years. It's not the same thing if the hubby knows.
if the hubby knows, in the situation you described. If the hubby knows, it could mean very bad things for the woman and/or you. If the hubby knows AND approves (eg open marriage), that’s much safer even though it may reduce the thrill for you.
On the original subject, I’ve met several married providers, or those with SOs. One of the most recent cases was with a woman who became a provider partly because her husband had lost interest in sex… which based on how beautiful & hot she is, sucks for both of them.
There’s one I’ve seen numerous times who works out of her house even when her husband is home. He’s much older and knows what she does. It’s how she gets both her orgasms and her spending money. I have to admit the first time it was kind of weird. But once she explained the situation I got more comfortable with it.
Wow, with the husband in the house. That's horrible. But Damn, not sure if I have the balls to do that!
several years ago. That provider introduced her hubby to the client at the start of the session, then he went to another room.
My thought was, what a great way for a provider to have a safe environment for herself.
Similar to my situation. The first few times I saw this lady it was just the two of us at her house. Then one time as I was walking in she whispered that her husband was there, she would introduce me to him, and we'd then go to the bedroom. I was a little uncomfortable, but I'm a big guy so I figured I could take care of myself if there was a problem. Then she introduced me and he was in his 80s and somewhat frail and my worries went away. He stayed in the living room and watched tv, and she and I went to the bedroom and had a great romp. On the way out he said goodbye to me. It was weird, but okay. I was probably there when he was there maybe 2 or 3 times. Now we meet at my house and it's not an issue.
Hell. I knew a provider who left her husband for a client.
What the heck was the client supposed to do with her husband? [rimshot]
Posted By: Mwboi
Re: Lol
Hell. I knew a provider who left her husband for a client.
(Who was that lady I saw you with last night?)
(That was no lady, that was my wife.)
I've seen several providers who were married. In fact, I was just starting an appt with a provider when she told me her husband needed to come back home to get something he forgot. I was in the room, but nekkid, and she comes in and tells me her husband was coming home She assured me it was fine, since he knew everything and nothing happened. 
Married + boyfriends it is not unheard of. Lol Smile for me! Beloved.
I saw a Hudson Valley NY provider, Naughty Lil Natalie, a few times. She hosted out of her private house and she was married.
First time I went to her house I was a little uneasy because there were two cars in the driveway but there was no sign of her husband anywhere and I had a great time with her. She made it clear that he knew everything and that they had no secrets.
I did go back to her house once and even met her husband. We didn't session there but she did hold my dick while I peed. Mostly I saw her at a nearby motel or at hotels in the Hudson Valley. She also came to my house on two occasions. She was unique. A real wild-woman.
Sadly for me, she moved to Florida.
She told me she'd keep on escorting but it looks like she shut down.
She was definitely wild - one time in her house and in the middle of a session she asked me to take the condom off and cum inside of her. She wanted to get pregnant. She said she had agreed to have a baby for some gay couple she knew. She got kind of pissed off when I refused and said she couldn't see me again, but then apologized a few days later and I did see her one more time before she left.
She was kind of crazy and could be mercurial. But you know what they say about crazy broads....She and her hubby moved to FL and she was working there for a while. But she's not well, so.....
I say move fwd and find a new one
I have seen her many times since NLN moved to Florida. I have met her husband as well. We always had our session at her home (except for the time we did an overnight in Tampa when we went to a Tampa Meet & Greet) and her husband worked from home. As stated, she isn't well now. She hardly remembered me the last time we got together. Very sad. I think she may have retired. I no longer see her posting ads.
Thanks for sharing your experience
it's no surprise considering her situation. What a damn shame. We were good friends for a while and I even helped her with screening. She knew what would likely happen to her and I'm sure that's why she burned the candle at both ends.
That's crazy. Next time, maybe check to see if there's any hidden cam. I bet he's watching. I honestly prefer if it's just you and the provider, keeping it a secret from the husband.
I seen one who was dominant to her husband. She had him suck my dick one meeting and had him watch us in the corner. I’m guessing he liked it lol. Ex Mormon chicks can be a little freaky.
Honestly, honesty is the best. Everyone who is important in my life knows the truth. Being honest gives others the opportunity & freedom to make their own choices. If you’re honest no one can tell on you. Lol!
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2 providers who are married. I'm indifferent towards their martial status. They consistently provide excellent service, so that's all that matters to me.
I have seen several providers who were open about the fact that they were married and I would speculate there are a few more who were married and never say one way or the other.
Have to wonder why the inquiry?
Has anyone of you guys ever convinced a married provider to do more than she's willing to do?
Posted By: karllokia
Re: Convincing married providers
Has anyone of you guys ever convinced a married provider to do more than she's willing to do?
I've probably seen a dozen married Providers and haven't had to convince them of anything. I usually only see Providers who have an open menu and do everything I want anyway.
Sounds like instead of "convinced" you really meant "coerced."
Not to mention that anyone who'd actually done it would be nuts to admit it.
This post puts you in the running for the SPOTY Award.
Yea, convinced is probably not the best word (yuo're right). I guess what I was trying to say if you ever had such chemistry with a provider and sh!t happens. With this regular provider I've been seeing, it did happened.
So you're saying you're into scat and she went along? Happy for you.
Wow, looks like you're having a sh!tty. Well good for you
But if we ended up doing something that wasn't on her menu I never wrote about it in a review.
That would betray her trust and expose her to either having to do it with others when she didn't really want to, or saying "No," which would hurt her scores and generate bad feelings.
YMMV.
Totally agree with you. I would never ever say who it is (the provider). Also the alias on this site differ from the one I use to setup appointments w/providers. FYI, I'm not that kind of person
One of my hostesses pulled out one of her favorite toys and made me play. I got an A for performance but a D- in chemistry when the Pop Rocks experiment made a mess in her bathroom.
Posted By: inicky46
Re: Yes, I've had "chemistry" with lots of girls.
But if we ended up doing something that wasn't on her menu I never wrote about it in a review.
That would betray her trust and expose her to either having to do it with others when she didn't really want to, or saying "No," which would hurt her scores and generate bad feelings.
YMMV.
to be added to many providers’ DNS lists.
And it’s a great example of why it’s vital to have one’s brain in gear before writing a post on this or any other public forum.
I finally convinced a provider I wasn't going to see her again to stop texting and emailing me. I might be the only one who answers this question. Lol
My experiences has told me that some men aren't as "liberal" as they seem....More on that but I have to ask.
How does the subject even come up, if she's married or not? Does she innocently blurb it out? Do you guys,please don't be that guy who actually ask?? So how do you find out? I have never asked but I have been asked about my situation. I tell them the truth and move on. It's not my business if she's married or not. But how did you know she was married? I have never seen an ad on a reputable site where her martial status is ask or indulged. My guess is that women just kinda let out, but why??
Cheapass sites have the "Lonely housewife needs to get fuck" ads..that's where I've see them. Not the P411, Slixa, PD, Tryst and even Eros has their limit.
Now my experience.
One lady I knew, had seen her a few times and I knew she had a kid, just not the husband. She gave me a heads up that he found my number and he was going to call me. Her and I got our story straight, He called, we talked and that was that.
Another girl was in the process of getting married when we were meeting, by the way she married a TER guy so he knew of me. She was told by him, when they got married that she can continue seeing clients, but she couldn't see me anymore. And one thing about this young lady, she use to be the life of the party, but she was monitored after the marriage. Time in, time out.
There's a couple more but you get the idea.
But some girls I know could be married and I wouldn't even know nor would I even care.
man... such a sensitive subject. Sorry I brought it up. I just wanted to share my experience, that's all. But I thank you for sharing yours (it was very insightful). Thank you
Some people use marriage info (T or F info) proactively to fend off or encourage certain behaviors. Some M or F remove their (real) wedding ring to lower the barrier to being comfortable with intimacy. Is an F thinking, "I'm going to lead this guy on so he'll become a regular."? Some M or F wear a FAKE ring to try to prevent intimacy from becoming anything more than a brief sexual encounter. "I don't want to lead this guy on. The ring should keep him from thinking that this is anything more than a one hour meeting."
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At the moment, I am thinking of one encounter where the subject came up. I asked about a tattoo: "Johnnie" (or other M name). I asked, "Who's Johnnie?" Johnnie was her baby boy, the love of her life, then around 2 yo. It turns out that she was an unwed mother and the baby's daddy was out of the picture. (I don't remember how the conversation got there, but it was natural and not an Inquisition.) Was it true? I assumed it was true. It was in a November and she mentioned that she wanted to make it great Christmas for Johnnie. True? Lie? Doesn't matter. I gave her a big tip and I probably said something like, "This is for Johnnie." or "Buy something nice for Johnnie." I was thinking a toy or electric trains.
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Thinking about it now, maybe Johnnie was actually her husband and I bought him a new leather jacket for Christmas. Doh!
Posted By: Hpygolky
Re: I try to avoid married providers...
My experiences has told me that some men aren't as "liberal" as they seem....More on that but I have to ask.
How does the subject even come up, if she's married or not? Does she innocently blurb it out? Do you guys,please don't be that guy who actually ask?? So how do you find out? ...
Even after this experience, I have a feeling you would do it again if the story is compelling.
with mixed emotion, the married provider (my regular) decided to stopped massaging. Her exact word (thru email) "I want to make it work with my family". I didn't ask, but I think she has kids. I do truly hope it works out with her situation - she's such a nice person, I only wish her the best. I will miss her. I tried to reply and wish her well, but her email is no longer active. I have no way of contacting her - I think it's for the best.
Met her on SA. Has several videos on Pornhub and is married.
