Why do the prostitutes post that crap on their websites?  

self image, and also about your desperate loneliness. Damn, you have an ax to grind and you just can't stop. Must be something like: you have no social life and have to pay women to even look at you, so you hate them for that.

Care to answer the OP?  

needs to be labeled for what it is.  As to the "upscale gentlemen" issue, that is an old chestnut that been aired quite a few times, but it was grist for you mill, just another device to say something nasty about the women that you pay hundreds of dollars.

But you still haven't answered the question.

I see that you're a "fully qualified Psychologist".

expose him for the lonely exhibitionist. "Refreshing" in the sense of a clean wind blowing away the incessant derogatory drumbeat intended to reduce women to mere scorned objects.

And you failed the test on every count.

Can you be more specific?  Did I somehow send an inquiry to your site, if so, why are you posting as a man?

Because right now you have BBFS right where he wants you. You are playing his game, not the other way around.

plus 10 times

As a prostitute that has been servicing men for decades, you should know the answer.

When we read what you post.

Upscale gentlemen are respectful, clean and fun. If you think for one minute that any lady here will see just anyone paying then you're a bigger idiot than I ever imagined.  An upscale gentleman is a GENTLEMAN!  
That answer your damned question?  :

My personal fave, of course, is: "discriminating gentleman".

If you haven't seen them before how would know if they are upscale? Another failed attempt at an answer.

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. . . And some of them can be quite overzealous. Words such as upscale, high class, and even VIP are just so . . . cliche'.  

I never understood those terms either, upscale, VIP, exclusive, etc... I get the luxury, but the rest don't make much sense.  

My answer only applies to myself.  I am not speaking for other ladies.  I pride myself on my gut instincts to where I can differentiate whether a man is an actual true and genuine gentleman or someone who is your average guy just looking for a quick fuco.  I have learned over the 10 years that  I have been in business that most proper gentlemen have no problem filling out my contact form and share with me their work information.  This tells me that they have done a thorough research on me only to learn that I am highly reputable and well trusted.  This also tells me that he is very selective in whom he is wanting to spend time.  If a man goes through this much trouble to find that one special lady that he feels compatible with, then he is indeed a special type of man.  Also,  a real gentleman always writes or calls me to introduce himself to me by telling me a bit about himself and always gives me a compliment during his correspondence with me and let's me know what it was about me that caused him to choose me versus the other ladies.  He doesn't visit multiple ads of ladies and call each one hoping one of them will answer the phone and ask if she is "available now" as if we are just sitting around dwindling our thumbs waiting for the phone to ring so we can make some money.  They don't call and say, "Hey baby, you available."  A genuine gentlemen uses proper English skills with words spelt correctly and correct punctuation is used. A upscale gentleman treats me like a lady and not an object.  He allows us time to get to know one another by conversing on the phone before our scheduled time together so we would feel more comfortable with one another once we meet in person. He also sometimes takes us to dinner.  A real and true gentleman doesn't contact me and leave a message asking me to contact him only to ignore my phone call or email once I do. A true gentleman doesn't contact you asking to spend time with you on a certain day and time then when you write them back to say you are available during that time and would love to meet him, you never hear from them again. A real gentleman doesn't contact a bunch of ladies hoping to score for the night not caring who she is and then when those same ladies calls him back, he has to ask which lady she is because he called several and can't remember all of their names.  A true gentleman takes the time to visit your website to learn more about you to be sure you will be compatible with them instead of contacting you and asking your rates and ask if you do Greek.  A true gentleman doesn't call you from a bar, or while he is drunk.  Lastly,  a true and respectful gentleman doesn't call you at 2.00 am asking if you are available. Any ladies have anything else to add?

He is booking a provider's TIME, not a result, not a list of menu items, just time with a beautiful woman in his company.
An upscale gentleman appreciates that this beautiful woman (who he has CHOSEN out of the crowd of otherwise available women) has consented to spend time with him - having never met him before - and becomes fast friends with him.
An upscale gentleman may or may not round up on his donation.
An upscale gentleman may or may not tip, based on a meeting exceeding his expectations.
An upscale gentleman doesn't troll discussion boards, trying to demean women in any way possible.

It really doesn't take much to tell the difference between a douche bag and a gentleman.  Maybe since you're not a hooker you can best answer the OP? LOL!!!  I'm sure you can tell what a gentleman is way better than I could

Thank you sir a gentle man indeed.  

If so I have beach front property for sale in Florida for cheap. I have several people who will tell you it's true. There are also some great fliers to back up my claims

..this, several times over

.....need attn much, girl?  Yes, I said girl.

I'm still guessing you really know what a real gentleman is? Lmao!!  
Thanks but I already own enough property  
Your lame ass attempt at fucking with me won't work.  Haven't you heard? I'm a slut and I fuck gentlemen all the time dear  
Run on with your bad ass self You're definitely proving what a gentleman is not
Fyi,  references are not just rumors.  Funny thing is, I've been a hooker for 15 years and VERY FEW times have I ever encountered a man that wasn't a gentleman but hey what do I know? lol!!
Your brilliance is way over the top on this one  
Xoxo,  
TL

I'd like to state that you're a troll... 100%
I'm kicking myself for having entert---- nm

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Omg!!!  Full on the OP -- Plus my loser boyfriends when I was in college! lol
.....Though, I am not sure if the OP is a girl or guy???

also, it's a fantasy...if i can't imagine myself as an upscale gentleman while i'm in the arms a beautiful woman, it kind of lowers the quality of the experience.

a woman who relies on the experiences of and reports from other women, who have no reason to lie about a guy, is a dunce.

also, don't feed the troll

Whether there is a test or not we  need to just let it happen.  TER obviously won't do anything because they see no harm done in anything that is posted.  We all need to accept for the entertainment (or lack there of)  value that it brings to the table.

Thank you for my morning laugh

In order to smell the roses you have to stop!      

Upscale means that gent travels a lot, stays in nice hotels, saw different cultures and knows why he should pay to the escort. On another hand I think no one knows who you are, if you have ever paid to the escort, where are your reviews.
You are very bothered by the fact that no one explains to you what upscale means. I hope I am a bit clarified things. I am almost sure this didn't make sense to you, because you either student or don't have funds to hobby. And you are also student in this particular thing; life will be very cruel to you, you don't get an idea that you have to be generous in order to enrich yourself. Xo

I could talk about choice of clothes, personal hygiene, use of language, etc, but these are superficial.  
An upscale gentleman accepts the responsibility he takes for this who love him or count on him and  is mindful of others needs, interest, and feelings.  
I lived for a few year-- in my early 20s-- with a lovely lady many years older than myself . During an argument, I said very hurtful things to that lovely and noble lady.  
A few days later, I sheepishly apologized and asked her to forgive me because I was upset.  
She answered: "Upset? listen If you are upset enough or sick enough to have decided to kill yourself, you pay all your back bills, clean your apartment and toss anything in it that can be hurtful if found by those who care for you. You write each person a letter apologizing and assuring them they have bought meaning to your life and none of this is their fault. You make sure your bank accounts are as they should be.  Then you find a way to kill yourself that'll cause those who care for you the least trouble, You arrange your funeral and only then you kill yourself.  Upset is not an excuse to cause pain to those who care about you."  
An upscale "gentleman" tries not to cause pain or insult.  In an argument with some the upscale person tries to frame his/her arguments in a way that respects the other person.    
He/she takes full responsibility for his/her role in meeting the need of patients, clients, students, friends, wives and children and parents if they are still around.  
And he/she tries to give as much respect and pleasure as possible in transactions like those we have in the hobby.  He should leave his/her partner feeling respected and to the degree possible having enjoyed the encounter.  
In sex in general he realizes nice guys finish last.  
Thats the abbreviated version

whos sometimes going to opera, theater and good jazz clubs.. and reading some meaningful books by referral from a good friend of course, not NY Times. Xo

it is an assessment of your character and whether or not you are a gentleman. The test is fluid and perpetual, judged by others in the community:

been called a useless, ignorant  asshole in such a polite and gentlemanly way in his entire miserable life.

As far as I can tell this person is a sociopath.  Everyone just keeps fueling his behavior.  😕

engaging with him by replying to the substance of his comments, versus simply calling him out as a lonely angry troll. I called him out because I believe that the men here have an obligation to show the women that we don't accept their constant degradation by one of us as just amusing horse play.  

I think this means they'll choose a guy who writes a nice respectful email vs the "u avail?"

Makes a provider upscale...

This is messaging to the Hobbyist how he is expected to act, especially if he wants a great experience.

What about:  

No, a "refined gentleman" is one who gets out of the shower to pee.

I picture a guy who is 40+, drives a nice car, has some bucks, some education, doesn't swear a lot, drinks in moderation, and opens the door for a lady.  Oh, and clean and well groomed.

"U There?"  
"Ummmm... where?"

Upscale gentleman  

Respect.

You are a perfect gentleman in my book.  Kuddo's to you.

Are you saying that there is no such thing as a highly educated lady that is low volume?  It's unfortunate that that some ladies use these inaccurate terms when describing themselves.  I can't speak for all ladies but I can honestly say that there are many ladies out there where their description of themselves are very accurate. I know several ladies who are indeed upscale, low volume and highly educated, including myself.  It's unfortunate that we all get painted with the same brush as those ladies who you claim are less than honest.  The one true way that you can learn if a lady is who she claims to be is simply by reading her reviews, and having a conversation with her.  It's amazing what you can learn about a person by simply having a conversation with her.