This often gets maligned as a bad cliché in reviews, and it probably does get overused, but I found myself using for my latest review. I gave a brief explanation there, but thought I'd explore this little phrase to see if it has any real use.

This goes beyond the standards of treatment all ladies deserve. For me, I feel like using this when I sense a certain vulnerability from a provider. Usually she is young and/or new. A sort of proto-WK response?

Many ladies have a "profesional shield" about them. I am not referring to any sort of jadedness. If you walk in, drop the cash, drop your pants, get off, then get out, she considers it a great, no-hassle session. If you talk to her like you would a business vendor, she appreciates your straight-forward approach.

Others, though, *are* concerned about how much you enjoy their company, and might consider it a service failure if you don't tell them you had a great time. They prefer to be seduced, at least a little, before getting down to business.

Like I mentioned before, this is not a discussion of jaded or not, that is a whole 'nother topic. This is about a very subtle difference in a girl's temperament from provider to provider. It's not to say you can treat other providers poorly.

It's just a feeling that this girl will appreciate and respond to that little extra effort to show you see her as more than a notch on your belt.

I hope that made some sense, to really explain what I mean by that phrase would take way more verbiage than I would have the patience to write, much less expect anyone to read.

So there it is.

When you see "Treat her nice," it's to describe a hint vulnerability, a wisp of the girl in every woman we aren't meant to see.

*sigh* or maybe it's just a stupid cliché?

Not sure yet . . .

-tessen

Along those same lines; Providers: what kind of bad experiences have you had and specifically, what would you like us hobbyist to do to make you feel more safe and comfortable. I can't have a good relaxed time unless the lady also does.

I've probably used that phrase in some of my reviews.  It only means:  Don't ruin it for the rest of us and get her jaded to the point of leaving the hobby, because I may want to see her again when I get my ass back to Vegas (or LA).  That's all

I never use "treat her nice" in reviews. Not sure why, just don't see the need, I guess.

Can't you folks ever learn English? It's called: "treat her nicely"; that's an adverb!

grammar. not english.

It's the latter and one of the worst used to evoke sympathy for someone that chose this life. None of us put her here. Respect and the money should be the only thing that any of us should convey in this experience. Those are the hallmarks of entry and exit.

I might have used it once -- in the grammatically correct form -- but I've had the urge many times. I guess that's a post-coital neuro-hormonal response. But then, I figure I shouldn't assume that she's not capable of taking care of herself.

It's a bit cliché but I won't judge you if you use it.

ok guys the whole point is "treat her nice " treat her like a lady .respect her and her fellings .just because we sleep with a number a of  men a month a day a year  ...and so on should not reflect  on how u treat her. And by no means does that phrase make her young or new the bizz. it just  means see showed  u a good time and and was in to u and not putting on a show.so to speak .  as the golden rule says do on to others as they would do on to you .think about that and maybe next time u show a girl that she will rock u cocklol
               peace and love groovychic

Ok,I confess...am a nice guy.  But have had several providers comment that I am one of..2,3,6 guys that treat her well (doesn't mean presents, big tips, boundary violations, submission)just considerateness in getting my needs met.  Has paid off in extra- time, extras, and high erotic energies.

amen lol

I'll agree the phrases (the grammatically correct and grammatically incorrect ones both) are over used and have taken on tinges of clichéness.

But why assume the use is intended to convey sympathy?  That's a stretch.  If it said "Don't beat her up like everyone else does, treat her nicely instead", OK, that's a tug on the sympathy strings.

When I see it in a review I read it like the OP set it out, that she has a more sensitive demeanor than many.  I’ve used it where I thought it fit but would never use it for the provider who’d rip off my clothes and attack in full PSE mode.  Depending how you interpret “treat her nicely” and “respect” they aren’t that far apart.  Why get hung up on the writer’s word choice?

Don't let the secret out!

I'm constantly amazed at what I consider small courtesies have an effect far out of proportion because they are so unexpected by the provider.  Little things like pulling out her chair at dinner, asking her what kind of music she likes, treating her like a GF while we are out before expecting a GFE when we are in.

Having a few less caveman genes does have it's rewards.  

I see treat her nice or well is like saying don't be a d-bag. Try to be respectful, she don't like someone keep pushing it and by that I mean the issue, don't haggle her, try to get extra time for no extra pay....... you know what I see it as saying have some common sense.

that douchbaggery might be in order for that particular lady?

























HalfHour

Hmmmm lol not always. If you feel the need to go there you should leave.