This often gets maligned as a bad cliché in reviews, and it probably does get overused, but I found myself using for my latest review. I gave a brief explanation there, but thought I'd explore this little phrase to see if it has any real use.

This goes beyond the standards of treatment all ladies deserve. For me, I feel like using this when I sense a certain vulnerability from a provider. Usually she is young and/or new. A sort of proto-WK response?

Many ladies have a "profesional shield" about them. I am not referring to any sort of jadedness. If you walk in, drop the cash, drop your pants, get off, then get out, she considers it a great, no-hassle session. If you talk to her like you would a business vendor, she appreciates your straight-forward approach.

Others, though, *are* concerned about how much you enjoy their company, and might consider it a service failure if you don't tell them you had a great time. They prefer to be seduced, at least a little, before getting down to business.

Like I mentioned before, this is not a discussion of jaded or not, that is a whole 'nother topic. This is about a very subtle difference in a girl's temperament from provider to provider. It's not to say you can treat other providers poorly.

It's just a feeling that this girl will appreciate and respond to that little extra effort to show you see her as more than a notch on your belt.

I hope that made some sense, to really explain what I mean by that phrase would take way more verbiage than I would have the patience to write, much less expect anyone to read.

So there it is.

When you see "Treat her nice," it's to describe a hint vulnerability, a wisp of the girl in every woman we aren't meant to see.

*sigh* or maybe it's just a stupid cliché?

Not sure yet . . .

-tessen