Has anybody just created a "real" friendship type of non-sexual relationship after you have  
dated a professional since we have "the hobby" in common?

I like to be able to have her come a visit me then go home. No hassle, no taking time trying to make her happy between session. She lives her life I live my. Then one night our lives come together for two hours of fun.

where you meet. How about someone you may have slept with in the past as a civvie? Friendship eligible?

but my game is really mediocre, so I'll have to just settle being another one of the provider's ATMs instead.

Any stranger is a friend I have not met yet. That has caused tension in the house but if you treat me respectively and kind I return the same. In fact I try to treat others better than I get treated. Not always successful but I try.

Not to mention Johns only view hookers as cum receptacles. Sheesh, didn't they teach you anything at HookerU?

When you see someone for who they truly are anything is possible. I would consider myself close with one or two girls. I talk to one almost daily. To answer the question I'm not a stage 5 clinger which was mentioned earlier today in a different thread.  

Even more true after an ATF retires and you realize how much you miss her...wish you had seen her more back when you could.

I guess she didn't want to corroborate anything you posted.

Just not interested in exploring a homosexual relationship.  I guess others might have that interest however.

Well shit, I guess that's what happens when you're self-taught.  

She identified herself. Why don't you read the post again.

I know some of the hookers and johns you have befriended, and not all of them are what I, or anyone else, would call "good people"

I don't care how many years you "thought" you were friends, you can just ask every BSC hooker or BSU here and they will tell you that even if you didn't know it, you only wanted his money and he only wanted your pussy, never mind the fact that he never gave you a cent and you never fucked him once. It was all an illusion. Hundreds of TER members can't all be wrong on this subject. lol

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.......I do NOT like stirring the pot.  

Two of the providers I have met numerous times have retired. We have remained friends and have met for  Lunch and correspond frequently. It can be done, if you consider each other as human beings rather that rather than just a piece of sexy meat or an  ATM. My ATF lady and I do lots of things off the clock and we are friends

Yup... after one of my ATFs retired, we remained friends in the real world.  She moved to be closer to her family, but we still keep in touch and get together for lunch/dinner whenever we are both in the same area.

My ATF and I are great friends. She's such a sweetheart. I love spending time with her outside our playtime sessions. The other side ladies I see I'm friendly with them. But it's more of a business like friendship.

Over the years, I have developed what I call my circle of friends.  This is a group of ladies that are providers that I have built an ongoing relationship with, most of which have lasted for years.  In addition to the sexual component, there is a friendship and intellectual component of varying intensity that waxes and wanes as time moves forward.  Some have been ongoing and enduring for years, others end after time for various reasons (with a few where the flame renews), and I always keep myself open towards the new.  I never could have possibly anticipated this when I first entered the hobby, when my main goal was to simply to get laid by the hottest chicks that I could afford, but life always has the capacity to surprise.  I got a whole lot more than I ever thought possible, and the road continues forward.  And, yes, I do have feelings for those ladies who have been part of my journey...damned right I do!

I'm friends with two, now retired, providers.  None of us planned it, just happened.

Some even come with benefits!

Friendship means repeat business for the girls I see regularly. We can talk about anything including sharing all the personal details with each other. Of course, the extras are perks on the side -.

That's a scene I just assume avoid, I mean can you imagine the conversations that comes up and trying to get a word in edge wise? It'll be like a Republican debate...let me guess who the Trump is of the group and who the Bush is.....

I am very good friends with with at least a few young ladies I have met in the hobby.

..you can be friends with the GaG.  Ha….ha…ha…is there a “not” in the looming?

I should keep this private, but we go back to the beginning, to that little room in NYC.  The rest is history...NYC, Jersey, PA, Vegas, Chicago, LA, DC.  Not just us, but many others that play our game...