I like to be able to have her come a visit me then go home. No hassle, no taking time trying to make her happy between session. She lives her life I live my. Then one night our lives come together for two hours of fun.

That all nothing more.

His current GF is an UTR provider whom he met as a client too.  We can all hang out together and be honest, be ourselves.  It's really great for me, as no one else in my social circle knows about this part of my life.  

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where you meet. How about someone you may have slept with in the past as a civvie? Friendship eligible?

And yes, I'll take real friends wherever I find them.

but my game is really mediocre, so I'll have to just settle being another one of the provider's ATMs instead.

Also, this hobby is a business transaction, so it is what it is.

Any stranger is a friend I have not met yet. That has caused tension in the house but if you treat me respectively and kind I return the same. In fact I try to treat others better than I get treated. Not always successful but I try.

My 2 Cents

When you see someone for who they truly are anything is possible. I would consider myself close with one or two girls. I talk to one almost daily. To answer the question I'm not a stage 5 clinger which was mentioned earlier today in a different thread.  

My two current favorites I feel is based off a friendship which isn't predicated on lies.

The more you see someone the closer you become with them. If they let you in it's an even better experience.  

Those are my thoughts.
 

Even more true after an ATF retires and you realize how much you miss her...wish you had seen her more back when you could.

Reality is: it's no good to try and tie strings in a relationship built on NSA.  Keep the good memories and move on.

Just not interested in exploring a homosexual relationship.  I guess others might have that interest however.

I have been friends with many prostitutes over the years.  Some I fuck, others simply just enjoy spending some time with.  Some of the prostitutes are moms, and grandmoms.  Others are single and plan on staying that way.  Each has goals and dreams.

I have no interest in being around people who are not themselves.  The prostitutes and johns I've befriended are good people.  

Two of the providers I have met numerous times have retired. We have remained friends and have met for  Lunch and correspond frequently. It can be done, if you consider each other as human beings rather that rather than just a piece of sexy meat or an  ATM. My ATF lady and I do lots of things off the clock and we are friends

Yup... after one of my ATFs retired, we remained friends in the real world.  She moved to be closer to her family, but we still keep in touch and get together for lunch/dinner whenever we are both in the same area.

Provider Friends.

My ATF and I are great friends. She's such a sweetheart. I love spending time with her outside our playtime sessions. The other side ladies I see I'm friendly with them. But it's more of a business like friendship.

Over the years, I have developed what I call my circle of friends.  This is a group of ladies that are providers that I have built an ongoing relationship with, most of which have lasted for years.  In addition to the sexual component, there is a friendship and intellectual component of varying intensity that waxes and wanes as time moves forward.  Some have been ongoing and enduring for years, others end after time for various reasons (with a few where the flame renews), and I always keep myself open towards the new.  I never could have possibly anticipated this when I first entered the hobby, when my main goal was to simply to get laid by the hottest chicks that I could afford, but life always has the capacity to surprise.  I got a whole lot more than I ever thought possible, and the road continues forward.  And, yes, I do have feelings for those ladies who have been part of my journey...damned right I do!

I'm friends with two, now retired, providers.  None of us planned it, just happened.

Some even come with benefits!

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YES, with perks!

Friendship means repeat business for the girls I see regularly. We can talk about anything including sharing all the personal details with each other. Of course, the extras are perks on the side -.

I am very good friends with with at least a few young ladies I have met in the hobby.

And a few that I met outside the hobby who just happened to be providers. In those instances we were already friends/acquaintances before I even knew what they did. So I'm not sure if that even counts.