Why Are So Many Hookers Broke?

1) Some have pimps, never have understood why that is necessary.  
2) Addiction to the lifestyle, money, spending, etc.
3) Financial literacy is a learned behavior, some simply haven't learned how to balance it.
4) Money turns to greed.  Greed turns into overworking.  Working out of necessity equals burnout.  Burnout equals lackluster performance.  Which equals declining demand.

listening to providers complaint about business being slow (ironically it was OTC).   My conclusion from my own sampling is that they may be great hookers, but many are weak or else lazy in marketing activities.  Many think they can just throw up a nice-looking website and customers will be breaking down their door.  Many will be in the midst of a good run of business for a few months and will cut back on their marketing, like pulling ads that have been running for awhile, or spending less time on boards or PM's with customers.  Then things come to a screeching halt, and they are scrambling around trying to get business.  Marketing activities must remain in place during good times and bad.

Hookers (some/many hookers, not all) are broke all the time for the same reason/s that a lot of people who make "easy" money are always broke. Look at pro athletes for example, how many of them end up broke despite making more money in a single year than any hooker could make sucking five lifetimes worth of dick?

These girls have things to pay for like the rest of us. The girls that depend on this kind of work don't get a steady paycheck like most of us. Business for these girls can be busy one week, then nothing the next week. I help my two favorite girls as much as I can.

That was a rhetorical question.

That was a rhetorical question.

...working some shitty job for 40 years with "well paid for taking the high hard one and guzzling ball snot day after day" and you get many Americans financial situation.

lucrative as many people think.  Let's pick a price point...say $400/hr.....

That's $100,000 looks more like $70,000.

If a woman is seeing only one guy a day at $400 for the date and spending $50,000 on rooms, she's an idiot and deserves to be broke.

Very true.  It also takes money to make money.  If you blow all your money and enter a slow period with very little you can get to the point where you can't afford stuff like hotel rooms or advertising.  It's hard to get out of that "I can always make more money" mindset but now I always set aside a good amount for expenses.  

People who are financially secure, and all secure in the same way.  People who are broke, are each broke in their own way.

Smartie is much smarter than clueless john. lol

There was a point quite a while ago when I'd just pay for what I had to and never really factored any of that expense or budgeted (or what would happen beyond the next 3-4 days) because I knew I could just make more money... until that didn't happen and I had to figure out how to bail my ass out.  I kind of resolved myself at that point to actually budget things assuming there were going to be times I didn't make much, as well as preparing for an exit from the industry at some point in the future.  

I think no one will care about what you have to say. Your posts now sound more sad than before

You walked right into that one.  LOL

If you have a lot of whiny, clingy customers.  Professionals are able to separate their emotions from the physical aspect of what they are doing, just like an actress when the cameras turn on.  The ones that are best at keeping professional make the most money, the ones that are less professional often get side-tracked, at least in my  experience.  

as a temporary condition, as it has happened to me, albeit mostly on paper.  Being poor, on the other hand, is oftentimes permanent.  

All hookers came back to business from retirement or long vacation.....Paying bills being single lady things very expenses nowadays .My child passed away I'm still paying for funeral cost and student loan.  Thank you for welcome back!

This gross, imposing post and many of its equally repugnant responses are the metaphorical equivalent of the sweaty, smelly intrusive man who pushes into you on the subway trying to cop a feel and maybe steal your wallet.  

Why do you think your seeing a provider and a provider seeing you are the same amounts of energy output? I'm truly curious.

I would hazard to say that most aren't paying taxes, and those that are likely aren't claiming everything they make.

Lots of providers see 5-10 guys a week, and there are a LOT of providers who can see that many guys in a single day. How many guys do you know that see 5-10 providers a week? I bet you the number is pretty damn small.

Somebody is awfully defensive about the post.  

Did you forget you were going in to read a post by OTM?

of your child.  I have lost one too, a young US Marine Lieutenant killed in the service of his country, and it is devastating because it seems so out of the natural order of things.  We all expect to pre-decease our children and when it happens the other way around, its tougher to deal with than losing a parent, because we all are conditioned to expect that will be the case someday.  Losing a child is the worst thing a parent has to go through.  

Sorry for your loss, Fancy.

But the last time I copped a feel on the subway, the lady pushed her ass back at my crotch.  Maybe I wasn't as sweaty and smelly as the ones you get, but I will own that I might have been a bit intrusive.  I will try to behave better, but its not likely I will have much success.  

yesterday's potato salad, and the more you expose it to the air, the more its going to smell, and the smell will be coming from you.  Everyone else has moved on.  No drama needed.  

Lol I am not familiar with most posters here as I only pop in ever so often, but sheeeesh that was quite a read before my morning coffee. Particularly the snot reference.  

They CONSTANTLY ask about income. And it is indeed offensive. Why would you want anyone, let alone a lady, need to feel defensive by your impositions?  

No one wants to "buy it" anymore. I am glad to see you haven't been bullied off the boards by the likes of this rapscallion, Sasha.

Ah, that makes sense. I only have my Associates in whoring from Whore Island Community College.  

I have NEVER asked a hooker about her finances. They are the ones who want to discuss it with me.

Yep, and unlike you, their money making skills have a shelf life with declining sales due to depreciation of the merchandise, so to speak.  So remember ladies, for every cock sucked or fucked, throw 15-20% of that profit into an IRA or somesuch, cuz someday you're gonna be old an unfuckable.  Sorry to be blunt ladies, just the Gods honest truth.  

Call Girl, Courtesan, Provider, Lady of the evening...to name a few....and Who said All are broke!!  And whos business is it anyways? not me, I'm rich in many ways.. Hugs and Kisses

Yes, but you have a lot of information before you choose the 5 - 10 per week and you are far less likely to be 'uninspired' (for a polite word) by what you find when the door opens.    

It was supposed to be a joke that I as a customer is/was seeing just as many women as "some" hookers were seeing tricks. People are so fucking literal around here, especially the up tight ones like Scarlett.  I don't know her, but judging from her posts of today, she doesn't have much of a sense of humor and takes herself VERY seriously.  

I found your comments to be right on the money - literally- it was more about your discerning eye given the descriptions of the women you have seen.  Keep keeping us honest - and if not honest, at least keep us laughing.  

It's ok Jack - GaG was being funny too which is why he typed Scarlett instead of Charlotte lol

I will most definitely settle for keeping you laughing.  

Such are my diminishing comprehension skills   I always do so much better when you translate for me lol...  

Yes, but instead pussy should be "easy as pie"

One of my ATF's recently told me she purchased a new sports car!  Six or nine months later I found out she traded it in for a new fancier sports car!  That trade alone must have cost her $20k!  I think half of this hard earned hobbyist income goes right out the door for luxury goods! My income is multiples of hers, but I have never dropped a fraction of what she has on luxury stuff like cars,  watches, jewelry and handbags!

but.. Why you guys worried about how we spend our earned money is my question LOL

Yes you're right, it is all about context. If the word "dyke" were to come from you or another fellow monger here that I have developed a repore with, it world be taken in the context it was meant in - good natured ribbing amongst (online) friends. But when it comes from someone I don't know or talk to and is intended as a slur (especially in a conversation that I wasn't even involved in), then it is an unprovoked insult. There was no excuse for it.

I am not surprised to see at all with a few consistent views on here. For some people they suck at managing their own money. It hardly makes to me that they are a bad person.

Here's why it's intrusive: it emboldens others to ask their escorts about a myriad of things that aren't appropriate. Whether you ask a specific lady or the masses, the trickle down reaches all of us. My response helps wipe up some of that unfortunate spillage into an otherwise lovely pool.

I will blame this on being stone cold sober when I made that post. I wish I could say with a straight face that I knew what I was doing when I typed Scarlett instead of Charlotte, but unlike Scarlett/Charlotte I don't take myself so seriously that I can't admit a fuck up when I make one.

Some of us can control our spending on the hobby pussy needs while others rack up credit cards or cash in 401k (s).  

1) We are laughing AT you, not with you.
2)  Some of the clowns here have NOT had their sense of humor removed.  They were simply born without one. You forgot that part.  You're welcome.

There was a thread a while back about starting a school for hookers.  
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-12/re-if-you-did-id-open-up-a-school-across-the-street-802725?frmSearch=1#802725  
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And it was started by OTM himself! It looks like part of the thread has been deleted. Alyson (anybody remember who she was?) was going to open Alyson's Academy for Hookers and I was hoping to become Dean of Students at the Mr Fisher Academy.  
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Does JDU have a program for hookers or is it just for johns?

For a pedantic putz you seem to have forgotten "you're welcome" really doesn't apply unless it's preceded by a thank you, which even a moron like you must realize is NEVER coming.

But we expect that of you.
So it's all good.
You're welcome.
ROFL

Actually, if it was easy to make money in the biz, everyone would be doing it, thus driving down the price due to competition.  The end result is that the influx of new talent and the outflux of leaving talent finds an equilibrium.  Around this level some will do better than others.  They'll tend to stay in the biz and the others will go find different means of income.

I've experimented with different ways of saving money as it too tends to burn a hole in my pocket  (along with family members that always need help).  This is going to sound silly but my most successful way of saving to date is sticking cash into one of those old fashion piggy banks with no hole at the bottom (etsy) and sticking it in a safe.  Only way I can get to the money then is breaking it and it took a huge emergency to do it.  Investing seems like a better idea though, especially the precious metal bars.  I also wish there was a time locked safe with a slot on top but the closest thing I've found to that is one of those kitchen containers.

Spot on truth!! Perfectly stated!! To quote George Bernard Shaw: "It's a pity youth is wasted on the young."

but at times, a school can have a pernicious influence at least on certain trades and arts.

Because ALOT of us don't make as much money as you think we do.......

Chill out GaG...you surely knew I was teasing you?

'It's not easy money - it's fast money'

....probably the same reason most musicians are....

I would totally agree but that was a very very baseline explanation of how it's not that easy to drag in 6 figures in this business.  If I was spending more on rooms than I am clearing at the end of the year, I would definitely rethink things.  I just discussed this with my last appt, she said if she was feeling especially "froggy" she could do 10+ appts a day but of course that wasn't her usual model.  My only point here is that it takes some effort and thought into making it in this business if it's your only source of income.  

for such a painful, tragic loss.  Thank you for your son's service.  Am confident even though this was a few years ago, it is just as painful as if it were yesterday.

Gross.

Many of the ladies that I know are killing it.  Over the years I have seen several ladies save over a million by investing in just a few years.  Problem is that virtually all ladies claim to be "low volume" and only see 1 guy a day or a few a week when in reality many ladies see 5+ guys a day especially ladies that tour or work for an agency.  It is a lot less uncommon than you think for a lady that works for an agency to see 7 or 8 or even 10 guys in a day.  Some agencies schedule back to back w/o breaks.  A little gross but on a good day these ladies can make a few grand in a day.  

So very sorry....
I couldn't imagine how hard that has to be.

A moment of silence.  I am so sorry.

I wonder how much cash is easy to have taken (and more valuable to the person taking) than various personal possessions.

It's perfectly permissible to simply make a new OP on a topic if it is of interest to you.

Just because the link was posted on the P&R thread where DFB posted vile comments about a gold star parent, he decided to post on the thread from two years ago bumping it and now here we are.

It wasn't 36363Jensen who revived this thread, my bad. It was indeed Onceamoronalwaysamoron. The ONLY poster who refused to condemn DFB for his uncalled for comments directed at CDL I might add.

No worries on that GaG, after posting I noticed the date and was like "What?!! Why am I in this old thread?"

and nothing he has said since then has given us any indication he has changed his attitude about you girls in the slightest. He constantly makes posts "Why are hookers so dishonest?" "Why are hookers so dumb?" I am not going to try to play armchair psychiatrist, but if I were to do so I think he actually hates himself for the fact that you "lowly creatures" are the only ones who will have sex with him. It must really suck to have needs like most men, but hating yourself for giving in to them with such horrible creatures as you hookers. lol

I don't give a fuck what you say about me but I had nothing to do with a two year old thread getting resurrected. My observations go back over30 years.  IT Does not apply to every hooker.If I wanted to talk about this subject I would have started a new thread.

We know who revived it and why.  

You know perfectly well that if I"hated" hookers I would be happy to post that. I post observations.  If it sounds hateful it is not my fault.