Question mark for a reason.  Is there a certain thrill in NCNS a client at this level?  Are you that busy in the summer that a response to a email is beyond you?  This is not question if the service is better.  More of should I expect more at this level. Based on my experience today, the answer is no.

Sorry that happened to you.  I feel that if more money is asked, then EVERYTHING has to be better than the lower cost alternative.  Appearance and performance have to be better, and so does the professionalism.  

I (think) I understand you are saying you expect more at the 500+ level - some will agree with your expectations some won't

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Nobody? Really?

just as her phone batteries died and she tried sending an email but there was no wifi.

Thank you Fish.  Gentleman as always.

Just thought maybe there is a short term thrill at having me wait for the call.  Along the lines of I'm so busy and in demand that I have them lining up to see me.   NYC ladies on a power trip perhaps.  Funny, I met a really nice girl from a Ohio while I was waiting.  Next week, I'm going to be a tour guide.  I guess the evning wasn't a total loss.  I am still money good, and I met a new friend.

....regardless of their price range.

I guess some of us are ATM's.  I'd rather know that than be NCNS.  At least I know where my donation is going towards.

That being said NCNS from either the girls or the guys at any price range should be unacceptable.  

My post was about an event that didn't happen, so the compliments wouldn't have happened, even though I've heard that before.

Every time I stray from Asian ladies I am reminded why I love them.  They know what time it is, and know how to keep an appointment.  I'll deal with their neurotic tendencies, because that works for me.  Latin time or Island time drives me nuts!

I agree with a lot of what you post, but this is fucking awful business practice.

For supporting my stupid rant.  I've read many of your posts about NCNS.  Funny thing is, I knew about 24 hours ago, the meeting was not going to happen.  I just wish that the lady would have fessed up so I could have gone home early.  

Now I'm confused. I've been NCNS'd, it sucks, and you have my empathy. But now I'm confused. What do you mean you knew the day before? I guess I'm wondering how did you know, and why not find someone else?

It wasn't about why she NCNS it was about courtesy.  There are many reasons why a 'lady' NCNS.  I get it.  I would like a bit of notice so I can make other plans.

I had a sense that the session was not going to happen. I usually set up appointments days ahead of time.  If I have to confirm the meeting, the chances are 50/50 that it will happen.  If she confirms the meeting, the odds are much higher.  In this instance, she said she would send me the incall details the night before.  Guess what? She didn't send the details and I had to ask her the next day.  The result was a NCNS. It's about motivation.

Then she did not NCNS you, she blew you off for whatever reason.  The failure occurred when she failed to live up to the prearranged confirmation.  Doesn't make it any less painful maybe but a great deal of the NCNS falls on you because there WAS NO CONFIRMED DATE, period. Flaked out, dusted you, sick, mama sick whatever, SHe NEVER CONFIRMED A DATE....maybe not right but you certainly should have known better when you received the first signal.

Well, this is a different tone than your earlier post.  

You learned not to capitalize random words.  Good for you.  But you capitalize multiple words?  Whatever. Please know what you are talking about before you post.  You don't have the e-mail trail so you are just speculating.

I know what you mean. When you set it up way out in front, but then you're confirming with her rather than she with you, and you get that sinking feeling. Yup. Sounds like you had the date booked, but then when she doesn't give you the location details when she said she was going to, you pretty much know the situation is fucked. But if you book someone else and she then comes through, you look like the asshat.

" If she confirms the meeting, the odds are much higher.  In this instance, she said she would send me the incall details the night before.  Guess what? She didn't send the details and I had to ask her the next day. "

and IMHO it has nothing to do with her rate.  It is just life, and we all share it's ups and downs.

Asians are more reliable in my hobbying experience; both AA and women in Asian countries. It's cultural.

The higher the lady's rates, the more she loses by flaking out on an appointment.

LOL even paying a girl and she won't show up to see you, how does that make you feel.

Oooh come back and let us know how that works out!

Hey it's five o'clock somewhere.  Maybe I'll even tip you a quarter and make your day.  I have some funds left over from yesterday's NCNS.  

That you were getting your brains fuck out...and then end it with a "So sorry"

Post her NCNS on your local board. There have to be consequences for this sort of behavior, otherwise she and others will continue to do it. If they see that there are negative consequences, it serves as a deterrent in the future.

Informing other hobbyists of her NCNS is neither vindictive nor retaliatory. It is the responsible thing to do, and this type of reporting is an important means of holding providers accountable for their actions.

what you call "disrupt and damage" I call "discouraging bad behavior"

It would have taken you all of five seconds in between the 11 orgasms I gave to grab your phone and text "so sorry" to the poor sap who was supposed to have been fucking you instead of me.  

If there is a way to discourage bad behavior, such as NCNS, that does not involve damaging the business of providers who commit such misdeeds, I would like to hear about it.  As with any other for-profit business, the only way to get them to change is to impact their bottom line.