ATF = All-Time Fuck

what it is that a particular provider likes about him.    So, all I can do is surmise.

She and I are on the same page about many things in life. We've talked about SCUBA trips, 3somes, hiking and biking adventures, camping, maintaining boundaries, wines, chocolate and a myriad of other things.

I think they would say I always treat them, and their time, with respect, and that they feel safe in my company at all times. That allows them to be themselves with me, while also knowing anything they tell me of a personal nature wont leave the room and that they wont be judged for anything out of the ordinary they may divulge. At least that is what I would think they would say.

I think that she likes that I know her likes, dislikes and desires (and she mine) because we’ve known each other so long, professionally and also as friends. I know how she likes to be touched, kissed, fucked.  I know where her tight spots are when we massage each other. I know her interests and what topics she likes (and doesn’t like) to discuss. I know what she likes to eat and drink. I know how to make her laugh.

This ATF thing is pretty childish. I think the term REGULAR encompasses the way I truly feel about seeing someone on a consistent basis...  

one regular tell me that I'm always a sweetheart to her and that we have fun together.

That something different always happens with me. I'm not a "normal date" as some have said. I set the tone early with gifts,  and I create a certain ambience that most aren't accustomed to and that draws their anticipated curiosity . I'm an old soul with a youthful heart. And there's something, crazy about hitting a Fatburger on the Vegas strip at 4am, or wings at the Cosmo.....who does that?

get older doesn't mean you have to grow up.  I'm the same way, but I don't do gifts except on Birthdays, Valentines Day and Christmas.    Fun and spontaneous will make you a welcome customer with most ladies, in my experience.  Its a bonus when she is YOUR ATF and you are her favorite customer, too.  It can last for years.  

Indeed mrfisher, you nailed it. I have found this to be very true.

What I mean is that we never really know for sure, because one can not be 100% certain what is going on in the mind of another.

"fruits", I only want to see women.   Will it still work?  

My ATF had a very particular way that worked for her to reach a full orgasm. I learned how to do it and even did edging with her.  

wow male ego on display ...   while a girl might be YOUR ATF .. who is to say you are HER ATF

is looking for some positive reinforcement from the provider to validate his own impression that he is a stud.  Even though he's paying her for it, he wants to believe its the real deal.  A little shallow, but whatever works for him is okay as long as it doesn't negatively impact someone else, right?

Be classy and respectful...AND....concentrate on her pleasure as well! (That's an added bonus that will get you points-a lot of providers say that they're all about servicing the client but they have needs just like we do).

You can relate to being a little shallow.  Ok, you are more that a little shallow with all of your muses and prose on the boards.  Your VERY BIG, BIG, BIG OCEAN is actually a puddle.  Don't splash anyone.  Remember that you too are a "former" and though are considered a "has been" you have most recently been re-classified as a "never was"

I can lick my eyebrows

The comfort of knowing I like her and what I like and that I try to please her a little and notbe a complete deviant ( in a way she doesn’t like)… and the “trust” we’ve built up allowing us to call “audibles” (if some issue arises) without drama or doubt… and ofc my son $ is dependable.

...all the compliments and flattery I've received from providers over the years, I'm well aware that it's part of their job description as companions to make me feel comfortable and good about myself during the time we spend together beyond just making me feel good physically.

I didn’t read the OP as asking why the provider is “willing” to see you. I read it as asking what your ATF likes about you other than  just your money.

Phony compliments annoy me.  I don't like being buttered up.  My fantasy is a chick who has to have cock, any cock.  I can give her mine and not have to concern myself with living up to any other standards she may have in mind.

Only one ATF, and is a current ATF, shared with me what she likes about our encounters.  I am a breast man, love and worship the girls.  ATF complements my nipple and breast play.  

...that it's an interesting topic, and I wasn't actually trying to imply that there wouldn't be any reasons for a provider or someone's ATF to like their client besides money lol, only that those reasons wouldn't be the reasons why she would "keep" on seeing him.

I don't have an ATF, since I hobby once every few months on average.  But providers complimented me for knowing how to be discreet, throwing the Karens off scent, dressing in what looks like work clothes, and picking out good pre-session waiting spots.  In other words, now throwing them under the bus by being negligent.  For example, carrying a bag from a grocery store (with wine in it) as I walk into the provider's building, wearing a nice dress shirt, and standing at a bus stop a block away while waiting to get the room/apartment number.  (I hobby exclusively in the city, but I'm aware that bus stops aren't an option in most suburbs.)  Basically, providers feel safe seeing me, because they know I won't do anything stupid that gets them negative attention.  One provider I saw in a hotel told me that one of her past hobbyists actually went to the front desk and asked for her by her stage name and room number.

Also I bathe regularly and before each appointment and bush my teeth often and other desired hygiene item, plus I am respectful and don't push boundaries. Honestly it is the wallet being full of cash.

full of cash will create a more impressive "bulge" in your pants than the "other."  Lol

If I were to guess, I think it’s because she finds me funny and likes the corny jokes I tell her. Sometimes she’s just really enjoying herself when I take her out and spend some quality time with her in situations that don’t involve me fucking her. Of course, I’m also paying by the hour, so maybe she’s just laughing because half the time she just has to eat food and pretend to find my corny jokes funny lol.

She tells me I’m the only guy she sees that she doesn’t have to fake an orgasm with. Apparently I’m extremely talented when it comes to DATY.  

in the phrase "short notice fee"  but I haven't figured out the punchline yet.  Lol

Money

a gal ups her fee after she notices that your dick is short?

We could both be joke writers for comedians nobody ever heard of.  Lol

Wow, this really echoes a conversation I just had with my atf. In her opinion,  true both in providing and personal relationships.

a lot while receiving BBBJ's, but the more savvy, veteran providers could sometimes tell I was faking it.  

but only when I am getting paid to get my dick sucked. LOL..  Sorry couldn't resist.

a prostitute tells you you are the only one? Lol!  

I would have to say Attitude, Connection & Being comfortable around each other.

"unless he wants to eat my pussy for 30 minutes straight lol)  so we usually have a good 30 minutes"  

An ATF of mine said she likes the way I am gentle when I touch her … that it feels  it is her own hand touching her.  She doesn’t like it when clients grope and maul her, or are rough in any way (who can blame her).  

Agreed