What do you tell family, when they see you living comfortably, and not going to work everyday????

I go to work.
A dinner date is work.
I have incall couple a times a week thats going to the *office* so to speak.

My parents live busy lives I have a pack of kids I raised moving in and out of my life friends BFs Im busy
Do you really think anyone sane keeps tabs on us?
We look and act normal pay bills spend some save most.
Do not live beyond my means and throws no red flags.
Everythings great.
No one has a clue what most of us do.
I dont get the fascination with our lives.
Just enjoy the fantasy and dont worry about how things work behind the scenes.

They simply looked at that pathetic soul and laughed their asses off.

I happen to know several ladies personally and just wondered how they pull it off.
Your family ( mom, dad, etc ) must be WAY busy, not to notice something different???
I wasn't trying to belittle anyone....just a question, that's all.

I guess they have no idea what TER is or they'd know all about you.

Friends to the equation instead of the mom and dad which makes u seem like u want to touch a nerve on some ? Rewrite us your friend !!!!!

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Fired and soon to be rehired. ( lot's of work available )
Hell CPA, I could be screening you and you would never know it

And now you're off to scare more women...that's why these boards are so important.

I've been on my own since I went to college, so family members have not been aware of my schedule on a day to day basis.

Really?

...and there is no one here to say "hey, why arent you going to work everyday?"  I dont physically watch any of my friends and fam members go to work,  I take their word for it that they have jobs.  

Yes, and i'm sure ALL the women on here are gonna listen to you. ( hell, i'll probably get an email from London soon, canceling our up coming date )
You done scared her off......LMAO.

LOL, I'm a 'freelance writer' too... hahaha. And I get the exact same response. Only I will never 'come out'.

I used to, after doing something naughty, go somewhere and think everyone knows. I told a friend, and he said, "Yeah, I walk into church after doing something bad and think (covers his face) "aaaaaah! They can see right through me!" No one can... I can't see through them!"

That its dangerous out here.  And you have a long trail of scary events that are all still here to read.

And what type of music ? And I'd love to read your writing.  

The sad thing is, he doesn't even know he's judgmental.  He wants to worm his way into girls' heads and into their lives, imagining what they deal with.  And he has no clue.  Then he blames people who call him on his bullshit.
Clueless loser.  He's toxic.  Stay away.

Guess this doofus thinks you're going to see him.

Well my mic is attached to me so ? I'll let u name that tune xoxo , u girls rock !

Well, anyone can say they can sing and/or write songs, but this one is actually legit. I do have many, many complete songs, and recently wrote an entire orchestral piece. It turned out pretty good. Just gotta' get it punched out on better software so it will sound like real instruments, lol.

I'm gonna' tease you
And I'm gonna' make you wait
The more you want your way with me
The more you'll compensate

I was in food service and advertising prior to this same kinda schedules.

You should just mind your own business, and yes you are being judgemental or just mental...either way myob!

The truth, this is an occupation a career choice, not an indictment on your soul. People who love and care for you don't have to love your choices. I tell my family the truth, I want no issues of being publically outed or anything like that. Pitfalls may happen in this career I for one want and need the support of my family if ever it happened to me.  

Most of us adults, i.e., old enough to be in this hobby does not live our parents (shocking). We pay our bills, have our own bank accounts, credit cars, take vacations on our own, don’t borrow money from our parents or others and most of us don’t check-in and check-out with any friends and relatives.

And never looked back.  

I have been in this industry for over a decade, and my parents who are divorced & remarried both know what I do because safety is my #1 priority.  

And yes, the little Dungbeetle is firmly in the lead.  Only FIDIOT can seem to match him, dumb post fro dumb post, but the Dungbeetle is way out in front on volume.

Better be careful if this dude is anywhere near your computer!

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If that little turd ever did that shit with me he would be in a wheelchair with a seeing eye dog. Defenseless and worried.

Not to mention the info that gets backchannelled.

Absence make the heart grow fonder , don't stay away to long for I may wander xoxo , anytime u name the place , for a moment with u is worth the wait . xoxo sing me a song or read me a poem then we'll make memories when we are alone .

There is no way you would let some poor defenseless dog suffer by putting in the care of someone as feckless as the Dungbeetle.  Don't make me report you to the ASPCA lol

After serious thought I see where you're coming from, okay he can fend for himself. I cannot believe he put unblurred images of an escort out there. And altered her website.

Did you write that one?

DiscussionBoardAdmin didn't put (eom) after the subject line, though it was an empty message?

As long as it was a starving pit bull and we hid a pork chop in the little dungbeetle's pants lmao

And yes, Dungy is beneath contempt, not just for his idiocy and "lack of game" but for some rather serious transgressions that cross over into the "real" world. Some things should not be forgiven, much less forgotten

exactly how toxic he is.  If he were only the feckless fool he appears to be most of the time we wouldn't swat him nearly as hard.
What really amazes me is why he keeps coming back for more, when he knows he will never live this down.  Sick, sick, sick

I am angry I opened that post and have told them never to do it again.  They agreed.

Dangerous and crazy has no place in this biz.

But dangerous is a completely different matter and has no place here.  Thievery purpose of TER is to protect it's members through the free flow of information.  I consider calling out the wackos and predators among us a public service.

Was easy , just was thinking of y o u .  

and everyone else who looks out for us, both sides of this game.

I did?
It's news to me.
Proof?
justanillusion...I never did understand your type......why no reviews? Why the secrecy?  
FYI, ya can't believe everything you read....just sayin.

Which is a blessing and a curse.  A blessing because I don't have to lie and a curse because besides all the concerns and lectures about what I'm doing, I also get asked for money a lot.  Another one is that two of my sisters and even my mom have secretly mentioned to me that they are tempted to jump in this line of work everytime they have money troubles because they see me living comfortably and having to work very little.