A bit of a less toxic subject:

see, that was easy. and quick. and i answered your questions. i think.  Did you see that squirrel just run... lol, great question. You deserve a better answer. But I'm a guy.  Wanna have sex?

When I'm with women I tend to be chatty and very detailed in our discussions. When I'm with men I tend to be monosyllabic and less detail oriented.. It just sort of happens naturally that way. And then of course there are plenty of chatty men and tight lipped women out there, so one size does not fit all.

I can't summon up enough chattiness. I'm like your client except it's the phone that makes me super uncomfortable. I've only met with one provider so far, and she said she didn't know what to make of me over the phone lol. So many variables go into these exchanges. As you say the gender differences enter into the mix, but then it's also part business transaction, part love fantasy, part lust. Since everyone's psychology is so different, these meetings will always be unique and infinitely variable, even though sex has been going on since the dawn of our species. It's a wonderful and fascinating thing.

My thing is though, if you can talk on the phone to a female coworker or friend, why can't you talk to an escort?  If you can run an entire corporation, why can't we have a functional conversation?  That's whats frustrating.  


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of the Conan The Grammarian School of Communication.
You're welcome

Yeah I can definitely understand your frustration. For me the phone thing is practically a phobia - I avoid talking on it even with friends and family. Maybe this guy had a similar hangup about email or something. Oh well, I guess like any customer service you get difficult people sometimes.

There is Venus... there is Mars...

I was literally just saying this to myself the last few weeks. Must be something in the air lol.

I usually find that clients that give me a headache in the beginning, tend to end up headaches In the end.
I skip all the frustration and end the conversation

...I don't tend to take direction well. It depends on the manner it is given. Now, I do agree with you it's not rocket science, but common sense and common courtesy toward the other person.

if I shared with you my emails and PM's from guys from the last two weeks you'd be like....Huh? lol

If he specified a land line there is a certain credence to his 'security' concerns. If conversing by cell phone the NSA and every other government agency and agent is privy to the conversation; just like an e-mail.

And is it a Venusian trait that draws conclusions about the nature of men based on the executions rare enough to stand out?

If they haven't given me what I need by the third email then DEUCES.

Considering what we do here is illegal in most places, it is not as simple as making an appointment with a doctor.  Perhaps the guy was nervous to write to much regarding an illegal activity with an email that is easily printed out.  He could just be more comfortable talking to a human voice over the phone, and by inflection can determine if the woman on the phone is LE.  Then again, maybe that is the way he communicates the best, and can't write for shit.

I don't think some guys realize that all the communication or lack thereof is a form of screening. Be a dick or withholding in an email at anytime before a booking and you're history. Same goes for hookers, be anything but polite and cordial and the guy leaves and rightly so.

We ask for what we do for a reason.  I don't get why, if they want to see us, they don't just say "okay here's the info you asked for" or "I'm worried about giving that out, what other methods can work?" It's not that hard.  Yes there are other providers, but they contacted US for a reason.

It was poking fun, not meant to be taken literally lol. But yes, I know a tad bit different than making a Dr's appnt. Just a tad lol.  

Point well taken

My bucket list is coming along just fine, as I indicated by the thread you found from the other day that I am nearing the end of it.

Though I agree with you mostly.  Remember, it only takes one guy in a thousand to mess you up, just like it takes only one provider in a hundred to mess us guys up.  Shit can go downhill on both sides of the transaction.  

...must have had some butta, huh?

To the HottiePhotoPostingGuru on here lol....see super hot chicks come on rockets too.  

...I especially like her boots. But, I like 'real' gals better.

Real Hot Women Ride Real Hot Men with Rockets

since you're nearing the end of your bucketlist, I am wondering what the outcome was from the thread then for you? Should I assume I was wrong on that basis too lol. You wanting 'more' perhaps that you aren't achieving here anymore?

Though treating ALL providers as though we're that one even in the face of multiple good reviews is not a recipe for getting laid.  I agree, though, there's BSC on both sides.

...BTW, real hot women also ride real hot men who ride Harleys. Just sayin'

lady who will rock his world.  Reading reviews, and not just the profiles, gives great information to have a memorable time.

LOL

was similar at first, but quickly explained that he felt more comfortable being screened by phone, and asked if there was any way we could do it that way. I agreed, and he was perfectly delightful. He was damn hard to communicate with, however, so I ended up in the wrong place because he didn't want to put anything in email or text, and the name of the place he gave was the same for two separate locations. Ugh! Frustrating for sure. 45 minutes later, we finally were face to face.  

men's lack of chattiness make easily communicated situations overly complicated!!!!!!!!