If the provider allows you extra time.

She's serving me lunch or dinner.

Extra time you are allowed to stay divided by 60 minutes times her full hour rate.  So if she allowed you to stay an extra 25 minutes and her rate is $400 an hour it would be (25/60)400=$166.67 round that up or down based on the type of currency you have and there you have a reasonable tip.

Are you hanging out and chatting with her? I would tip nothing for that.  Are you getting naked and going at it again?  For how long? I would say you need to think in terms of her hourly rate and how long you stayed.

She is inviting you.  

I never deduct for the cost of booze. If I did, the poor waitresses that serve me would probably starve on what my tips would be.

There are many places in my life where I try to save money, tipping waitstaff is not one of them. I tend to "overtip" by quite a bit, but I consider it "abuse tax" if I've run a three hundred dollar bar tab. You ever notice that the guy who leaves a benji as a tip almost never gets kicked out of the bar, no matter how drunk or obnoxious he is?

As for tipping hookers, there are so many variables that even trying to give a guideline is an effort in futility.

If you're just talking after you're done, then I don't think a Tip is required. But if you're still Playing beyond your Initial Time, then for sure you have to Tip. My Provider is really Awesome when it comes to Tipping. I ask her what she thinks is Fair and pay $50 above that.

I paid for the time I wanted and I am prepared to leave on time. If she wants my company, she can have it if I have the time, but I am not going to pay her for it. I am not there to fill a vacant time slot.  

And generally when we go out most of us simply don't drink.  How the fuck do you think I can afford to pay  for hookers?

All those times the gals wanted me to just chat with them about...well, stuff...they were just using me.

WTF is wrong with you?

It was a joke, some nerdy humor for you but I've never really been good at jokes I guess.  I frequently allow my favorite clients to stay longer at no extra charge.

So if I excuse myself 15 minutes early, would you proportionately refund me? 20 minutes? You are going to break that down to the penny?

it's funny, we have had that very same conversation about envelopes about once a year for the last decade or so. If you go back seven or eight years ago my position was exactly what it is today, I don't use them, and I won't be "bullied" into doing so by hookers without a clue about why they are doing it, but several years ago I was one of only maybe two or three guys who refused to "play by the rules" The last time the subject came up, even about half the hookers agreed it was a rather dumbe idea.

My how time changes things.

Oh as for tipping guys, maybe it's from living in Vegas for many years where "everybody" seems to live on tips. Yes I tip the guys too, unless I get bad service, then I don't have a bit of problem leaving absolutely nothing, I don't reduce the tip to 10-15%, I don't give bad servers a single red cent, but I overtip everybody else.

my ribs started to hurt, but I did answer her.

Especially when they get all teary and empty all the baggage. That's abuse.

And it wasn't 7 or 8 years ago...but rather a year or two (maybe three) ago.

Here are a couple of ways the conversation goes if you don't assume she's just granting you extra time for NO fee....

Does she return your balls to you at the end of the date, or do you tip her to get them back?

It was a joke, but hypothetically speaking no you wouldn't get a refund if you left early because you scheduled an hour.

why even bring up the topic saying "I'm in no hurry"..

Please don't assume "I'm in no hurry" means "let's kick it off the clock." If she wanted to do so on the clock, do you assume she'll say "I'm DEFINITELY IN A HURRY, but I am willing to extend on the clock." No.

And if someone says to me, I'm in no hurry, I would certainly perceive that as request to spend time Off The Clock.  There is certain wiggle room for implying things in life.  

I've informed men "I'm in no hurry" with the next statement being "would you like to extend for a fee?"

is the tip of my cock rubbed on her lips.  All 4 uv 'em.

I'm sure she'd much rather have that than money.

in the regular price. It is a marketing ploy. Charge the 90 minute price for an hour session. If she is a higher end independent provider; at least $400, it wouldn't be surprising if she allows "extra" time. In that case you don't have to give anything extra. If she is less you may consider just paying for the extra time or refusing it if you don't feel you really want that much.

I'll leave on my own when my time is up .
 When  she pleads ,  please don't leave .  
We have a dilemma .  
 My time is valuable also .
 I'll stay if I want to .
 I won't when I don't .
 If she tipped me I would stay more often .  
 

but ymmv!

I am always ready to leave within timeframe allotted but always willing to stay longer. I have stayed 3 hours before for a one hour date with no extra cash other times I have gave extra for a 1 hour date. And once I was given money back for giving to much and actually paid for 1/2 hour for the hour rate. But I have been seeing this lady for several years now on a regular basis so she's probably just wanting to keep me around for good business reasons. But for a new lady whom I enjoyed our time together I would tip say around 60-80 if I had the cash on hand and nothing more unless she was crystal clear to what she expected as she did invite me to stay after all.

It is up to you, but no tip needed. Good to do but don't have to. Now if she said "Want to extend" then you pay.

Good one, lol. Looks like the joke was too intelligent for everyone! hahahaha

ou are a fucking idiot

When I say no rush, I do add, at my invitation. The guys get it and realize that I am not expecting any more money.  

For to remember you and smile

That was supposed to go on a different comment!

LOL!