I follow many providers on Twitter, I have also been a long time member here so I know the ropes.
Recently I saw a provider on Twitter comment how she felt it discussing and degrading when a 50 plus client will book with a 19 20 21 year old. Now I see many of all ages, what ever I feel the urge for. I have a regular or 2, one is 20 years younger than me.  
Am I not supposed to book young girls that are in this business?  
I truly feel I should stop seeing providers, I actually felt shamed.

Don't over think stuff.  Many, probably the majority of younger ladies like seeing older guys especially if they book multiple hours.  Young bucks want to go at it like 4 or 5 times in 2 to 3 hours (they tend to want no stop action).  Older guys maybe 1 to 3 times.  Bottom line is that most ladies don't care and many ladies like older guys because they are less work and have more disposable income.  

So you are gonna let one hooker on Twitter dictate your mongering activity?
Insecure much grandpa? Have you considered stamp collecting or Bingo as an alternative hobby instead?
As long as your cash is fresh, who the fuck cares?

Sweet Melissa said it all!  She's dead nuts on!

Absolutely, age of consent!!  
I am 56 and at 54 I saw a 19 year old and she was all about it.
I have also seen same age providers.
YEP I over think EVERYTHING! LOL

There is nothing in his post that suggests that he is sharing this sort of information with other ladies in casual conversation, nor is there anything about ladies deliberately trying to make him feel bad.  

So every woman sub 30 yo is a "child?" Is that REALLY what you are saying? WOW! I am sure a lot of women would just LOVE your thoughts on THAT one.

I've been with women from the age of around 18 to probably nearly 50, I tend to prefer younger girls, however. And Make no apologies for it.  For my part, I tend to look down on people who look upon others' sexual preferences as weird.

Some young women have this odd prejudice towards women who date older men. I know firsthand, because I've dated a few of them, and it's interesting to watch someone go from "aren't you a little old" to not caring about it whatsoever once they realize that dating is way, way better when you're with someone who has their shit together.

And many are total hypocrites.

I've seen a number of ladies of varying ages. I prefer older women because I just find older (40'2 and 50's) women who are in good shape and sexy to be really hot. But that doesn't mean I stick to that type of lady exclusively. I've been with women in this age group who are smoking hot with bodies a 20 year old would envy.

it is safe, sane, and consensual.

in her 20s, then why did you date (and marry) such a man?

You said "in her 20''s" hence I said "sub 30."

Even though I am in decent condition, I generally like Asians in their late 50s to late 70s.  It is inexpensive and they are similar in age to me.  It would be nice to visit a 25 or 30 year old but I can't imagine how disgusted they'd be to see me so I stay clear.     I used to date a 17 year old worker, but I was 16 at the time.

It’s her problem, not yours.

When I was in my teens, 30 was ancient.  When I was in my twenties, 30 was ancient. When I was in my 30's, 30 was ancient, but I did have some good experiences with 35-45 year old women (who looked in their 20's).  Now I'm in my 40's and 30's don't look that bad, if they look like they are in their 20's.  Maybe when I'm in my 50's, 30's will look doable . . . it would make filtering easier, in my market older a heavier seems to be the thing (sadly for me).

I may be a grandpa but I will run circles around some of you smart mouthed newbies. I look late 30s and can do a 100 miles on a bike in 6 hours.
Want to be a smart mouth take it down the road, been here a long time and it was just a question so back off sonny!

and I had to do it this way out of necessity. Probably now more than before will be that way.  
But like I say I went cheap, fast  and nasty, without details or compromises as they say.  
But way when it comes to speed, yeah. I could go for longer. But in places they knock on the door by the 20th min. when they think your $65 is up. I have to say that's a short time even for a young guy. But like I said, out of necessity and funds it would be fine. Good thing I have long time known or better known ones that don't rush. There also they more expensive ones that go for a little bit longer. These girls don't go by race, age, weight or anything. It's all business. But they do have complain to me about dirty guys. One understood that some of them work like in construction and stuff and they can't go home and clean up. If they get home the wife won't let them out.  
OMG as they  say, I have lived in a world of reality! That makes me happy. Now back to the world of fuckery, being with whoever if available with whoever is available.  

Everybody has an opinion on what other people should or shouldn't do. It often doesn't pertain to them. Funny about that huh?

I am over 60, I like older women, 40-ish or 50. Not that many out there. If there is, drop me a line. Not  that I do not like young women, but early 20 is definitely too young  to me.

From reading the board one might conclude that the return of TER brought nothing but a bunch of nosey neighbors and "virtue" police. For fucks sake, if you don't like something DON'T do it and don't pay any attention to it. Let those that like nose rings, tats, big breasts, little breast, short (didn't we have some little people members way back?), tall, same age, different age, same sex, different sex or even wrong review because I disagree (and yes, there are, were and will be bad and fake reviews as well as just plain differences of opinion and off day or simply the wrong two people meeting).

...socially and romantically.
Even in my civvie life i've never been interested in anyone too close to my own age.
When I was 18/19 the YOUNGEST guy I dated was still 8 yrs older than me. Around 19/20 I was dating two 40+ y/o men (both were pushing late 40's).  
Somehow i'm trying to get to that I'm not a fan of "yucking someone's yum" esp if what's going on is happening between two consenting people of legal age.

Boy did YOU come to the right place.

Not ole bitter ones that think criticizing our choices is going to get them more business.

I'm a live and let live kinda guy so it's whatever floats your boat. It's not my style but that's me. There's a group that covet this age group, see the exotic highway and they have that preference. So be it
Being in the 60's I can't see being with anyone under 30, I prefer the over 35 ladies but every now and then I'll stray and see a young lady, say 25 yrs but I use that as a wake up call to myself, to say,"WTF are you doing".
Just trying to avoid a "Hey 19" moment

I've fucked 'em from 18 to 59.  And I'd fuck 'em older if I could find 'em.   I'm probably wired a little different than guys that like 'em only young.  I like to dominate sexually.  That's my kink.  And I get the same thrill dominating some 18 year old vs dominating some GILF.    

Its almost always the clients putting down younger ladies (citing we older ones know what were doing, while the youngins play on their phones etc), they put them down in an attempt to compliment me (often assuming im insecure about my age which I'm not and have no reason to be). I dont like it when they put down others in the midst of a compliment, its fine to have your preferences but dont put down other providers. I also hate stereotyping, i have a 25 year old duo partner whos absolutely fantastic. And I once duoed with an older lady who was a good provider but habitually late.

If she’s 19, 20, 21 and she wants to see you and you her, it’s really no one else’s business.  

...I tend to prefer women who are 30+, as long as they are taking care of themselves (since I'm doing the same).

...i've been here .

30+ y/o and been in the biz at least a few years over a early twenty-something every single time.  A gal in her 30s or 40s is generally going to be more business savvy than the young “hottie” who has the attitude of ‘who wouldn’t want to bang me’.   I have no problem with young people but I am generally not near as impressed with them as they are with themselves.  It’s not necessarily their fault; they just don’t have the life experience to know otherwise.  Yeah, there are some gals that are mature beyond their years but I’m not willing to roll the dice.  I’d much prefer a provider, with an established review history, who has been around long enough to know that there is more to the biz than just physical appeal.  

We had just had a terrific session in Manhattan and she'd agreed to accompany me afterwards for dinner. Per usual, the agreement was I was to buy her dinner but not pay for her time. We met another monger and his "date" at one of New York's finer steak houses. My date, a mid-20s Korean-American (but not a K Girl) wore wedgies and a skin-tight, faux-leopard mini-dress. I am about 70, so....I was anticipating some old bat telling me, "You should be ashamed of yourself! She's young enough to be your daughter!"
My retort (which sadly never needed to be delivered) would have been: "Madam! She is FAR too young to be my daughter!"
[Special response for GaGa: "She's a gook and I'm a Heeb, so that's just not possible."]

Mocha, you are one of the smartest gals on this site. Always have been. Stick around.

mrfisher, you know what I think. I'm a fucking degenerate, fuck you very much! BUT....!

And because i'm also a well-mannered heaux .... I warmly say thank you much.
Since it seems a good chunk like the ladies in their 30's too I guess I have another good 10 yrs here lol so I intend to stick around (20's are done in 2 months).

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... that goes on there on "Twitter," extinguishing any possibility of it being seen as a useful tool in the "game," in the social media era.  

One type, who prefer to be with a YOUNG "pro" simply to suck up that "new car smell" these young gals give off, REGARDLESS of their "skills."    
Then, there are those, like myself, who prefer a "pro" who has some "mileage" under her, not SO much that she should have RETIRED ages ago, but enough so that she KNOWS what she's doing, and is virtually guaranteed to show you a "good time."  
A review site like "T.E.R." is MADE for such "pros," as such "skills" are not readily apparent.
Those just wanting the next NEW thing will suffice with just a clear, current PHOTOGRAPH to "pull the trigger!"  

Technically it's "possible" that you could sire a gook looking girl even with your inferior Jew genes. lol

Exactly.  That is what is great about this place.  A 50 year old can do just that.

I would say it was much more the VACUUM that was created when TER went offline in the US that was filled by SWITTER/TWATTER and other Social media over the last couple of years. That is where you find most of the "virtue police" that you speak of.

Girls in their 20’s were “dumb” didn’t she? That’s not terribly woke is it??😢😕🙃🤔

You ain't the only one. MsMocha is a wonderful lady! I've always admired her!...  

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White genes aren't recessive as far as skin color. However everyone, including minorities, divide the world up into white and non-white.  So a brown child of a black parent and white parent is thrown in the non-white category even if the child is exactly half way between the parent's skin colors.   This "pure white" and "other" division is arbitrary and doesn't say anything about gene dominance.

Which means the person could be anywhere from 20-29. Do I really need to explain this to you?

on the internet not just about sexual preferences of millennial women for older men, but in most other relationship areas as well.  The women interviewed say the boys their age are still living with their parents, aren't very far, if at all, into any type of career, and really seem immature compared to themselves.  Many are therefore seeking relationships with older men 20-30 years older than themselves.  Its a good time in history to be an older man.  

For the record I am  sixty and I won't be seen with a woman much "over" thirty, much less "age appropriate" by these old biddy's standards.

So the return of TER just sucked the bad back in with the good? lol. I can see that too.

in my personal life when I turned 20 and early 20s I was dating guys who were in the mid-age 40s and early 50s.
So for me it is not disgusting. So if a guy who is in that age range wants to see a lady who is in her early 20s what is the problem? She is of age. Do what feels best for you and not what someone on Twitter decided to write.
I have found on both sides men and women....will say one thing on Twitter and do a complete opposite.
It is funny many who complain about ter on twitter have been posting their ads quietly here. Things that make you go hmm...if you dont want to be on the site thewn don't. But don't be loud on social media and then come here and post your ad and then go back there and talk shit. Be consistent if you are a shit talker...I guess that is what I am sayin' lmao.

To put it bluntly, a product is being sold. Fuck 'em if an old guy buys a Corvette. Yeah, mid-life crisis, but he is enjoying the car. This is even less so because nobody is seeing you fuck a 20-year-old.

IMO "woke" is synonymous with "prejudiced and narrow minded, my view is the only legit view"" although they pretend to be the exact opposite.

At least one beautiful, known, and well rated provider seems to understand the good and bad of social media.
Have read some of your reviews here and you do not disappoint and they seem to match your understanding of the intertwining social media and TER
I might also add that the reemergence of TER has helped rather then hurt you and your business.

Age is not always an indicator of emotional maturity. Age is just a number. I enjoy younger & older; but both can come with their own issues.  
I don't like younger guys that are inexperienced or got a whim cuz they've been watching cougar porn. They will have unrealistic expectations.    
Older men come with health issues, if I'm keeping my phone close to dial 911 cuz daddy may stop breathing or he's wondering around the hotel lobby like he has Alzheimers.. I'm not interested.  

FUNNY!

Thanks for the morning "chuckle," luv!    

If the client has Alzheimers he probably won't remember how much money he had in his wallet.

I dont see anything wrong with it. Beauty of this industry is that 2 consenting adults can choose to do what they want. As a provider we know there will likely be pretty big age differences... Just comes with the tertitory... Enjoy!

i would never have a child with a gook...but that's just me.

I've seen in Western Europe in my travels for P4P are incredibly beautiful.  I would have no problem HAVING a child with an Asian, but I'm too old to want to be stuck RAISING a child with anyone.  

Dont ever make someone make you feel bad about yourself.  Especially when they are not perfect themselves.  The chick you are talking about is probably going through some sort of age crisis or something.  Boo fucking hoo, right?  

Wow. I had been debating whether or not to contact you but I now know for sure that I won't. Great attitude. Best of luck to you.

I usually get bored with almost everyone I fuck in a few months, So I am never guilty of "using up" any more that a small percentage of any young woman's precious youth. lol

wise for your age, but I think you are overlooking a few things.  Successful May-December relationships all have a financial component.  Maybe the guy isn't "loaded", but as long as you get to have the things you want and need, and not have to sorry about where the next car payment will come from, you can have a comfortable life.  As you say, if you have to stay in this business to go 50/50 on everything to make it work out, then the guy is not financially secure enough, and you should NOT have stayed with him.  Civvie women trade up, why not working girls?  

Wowzas.  No kidding.

Maybe you should have my handle.

I guess your definition of "take care of" are much different than theirs or mine.

I have no desire to marry ANYONE, hooker or otherwise.

There are a LOT of hot women who don't need a man to take care of them, and I hardly hate them.  

Sorry, Mya, you're wrong on beaucoup counts. First, I'm not married, haven't been for 16 years. Second, you WERE on my favorites "to do" list. No more. Third, I know plenty of well-off men who enjoy the boards, myself included. Fourth, I've been with plenty of black women, including in civilian life and in this world, from serious multi-year relationships to one-night stands. A look at my reviews will demonstrate that.

What about the reverse or the ladies that post?  Are they all old deadbeat hags?  

I personally prefer older woman, just think they are sexier.  I set my age limit at 30-35,  but prefer over 50. Thats just me.

When I was married i never cheated, not even a single time. When I knew the marriage was over I "bought" my freedom and never looked back. I "try" not to judge how other people live their lives, but I can't imagine lying every single day to the woman I claim to love.

Why would you give a shit what she says.  Just put her on your list of ladies not to see.  Even if she is the right age for you.

I failed to touch on.  I'm with you in not wanting a woman who is a sponging slug sitting around all day.  I think for a woman to have a sense of self worth, she should have a purpose in life.  My late wife didn't need to work because of my income, but she was on the board of directors of a local charity, which took three days a week of her time, so it was just like a job, and gave her "purpose" like you suggest.  In recent relationships I have had, if a girl wants to live with me, I don't have a problem paying for everything, but she still has to do SOMETHING with her time while I'm working.  If she wants to keep her own place, then I will usually pay her rent and utilities, which are usually an independent woman's biggest living expenses.  This allows her to have a better life than she could have on her own income.  

Hmmm. There seems to be something a bit self-refuting.

hate hot women over 25.  When it comes to P4P, I generally won't even SEE a provider under 25.  My favorite age demographic for providers is 30-35.

A male billionaire will marry a waitress.   Your CV (curriculum vitae, "course of life", resume) is largely irrelevant.  Most married women aren't "10" models.   Except in child rearing years, most wives have some sort of employment.
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So you don't have to be a beauty, you don't have to be a genius, you don't have to have a PhD, you don't have to have a an executive position. You shouldn't be lazy.
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You should be pleasant.  You should be feminine.  
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A consistently pleasant women is rarer than blue diamonds, while a feminine demeanor brings out a man's masculine protective side.
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Unfortunately the modern women is decidedly unpleasant.  Competitive, scolding, self-righteous. i.e. woke.  And I have to say the perception is that black women are even more extreme in these characteristics -- i.e. the you-go-girl attitude.  Any guy getting a whiff of that is going to be heading for the exit posthaste.

At first reading this I was thinking of the time we had these two ladies at your place, but realized it was another time with another monger, lmao!  

The last person I dated that was in his 50s was an awesome person was with him for years until he passed away.
He was the owner of many businesses but he understood that I am independent and always will work in some kind of capacity.  
LIke my momma says God bless the child that has his own.
He didn't drain me or waste my youth. As a matter of fact he dropped many jewels of business knowledge and how to deal with people in all kind of business situations. And for that I will always be grateful. Sorry if you have not experienced this but not every older guy is trying to suck a younger woman's youth away.
But everyone is entitled to their opinions.

I think you know I have always liked you as a person, but the difference between you and the ladies experiencing a bit of "burn out" is becoming clearer and clearer.

she just needs to get him in the shower, and when comes out, help him dry off, get dressed and tell him what a great time he had.  That will be $500 please.  

I admit I didn't read the whole exchange, but Gambler is my brother and Jaydalee I have loved from afar for years!...

If you were ever going to blow your wad on a FMTY, this might be the lady to do it with.  Lol

So, I'm pretty sure that you don't believe everything you read on Twitter...you actually can't, since it takes about 15 seconds to find a view that is 180 degrees different on ANY topic.  So why give any credence at all to what some ranting provider on Twitter has to say about YOUR mongering.  It was probably a marketing ploy anyway -- it would make sense if she's not in her 20s to rant to her followers about the disgusting behavior of all those "old men" that are seeing 20-year-olds instead of HER.  She just has to succeed with one of them to make her 3 benjamins today.

I joke that half my age and half my weight is the sweet spot. In reality, while I can't help but be attracted to cute young women, I'm often equally attracted to more mature women my own age.

justify have a session with two 25's.

When it come to paying for pussy there isn’t no rules as long has the provider is of legal age and is willing to take your money just like any other provider would...have anyone heard of sugar daddy? It’s the same thing I’m pretty sure when a 20 something young lady is looking for a sugar daddy she looking for a guy who is well established which more then likely would be 50 plus!!

Book whoever you want as long as she has reached the age of sexual consent. Tell her during the screening process roughly how old you are. That gives her a chance to reject you if she doesn't like older guys. Personally, I see nothing wrong with an 18 year-old provider seeing a 50-year old client (or older).

He was talking about celebrating with two 27 year olds, naturally I suggested he try THREE 18 year olds. He liked the idea, but I don't think he was able to arrange it that quickly.  

I'm guessing you will be seeing two 21's and a 20.  Do your last will and testament first.  Lol

🙏 thank you fine sir

I realize that men are visual creatures and bed whomever does it for them. Personally, I don't see gents under 40. There are 3 that are just under 40. They are all Spanish and amazing  on all levels.  
Perhaps this woman is uncomfy with herself. It's easy to fault others when you're unhappy with yourself.  
I've seen many tweets from ladies who shit on those of us that have had plastic surgery.  I could 2 shits if they feel that way. That being said; I may be 48 but my titts are still young.  

Fake tits are awesome 😎

and what really cracks me up is seeing a rather average looking 18-21 year old looking for a rich sugar daddy, but then puts in an age range of 18-34. ROFL. Yeah, rots of ruck with that one. lol

I only had one SB ever refer to my age, and that was indirectly.  She was a bit in need of immediate money and I didn't feel like driving the 45 minutes to get to her, so I said she could come to me.  It was evening when she got here and she said it was good she was out driving at night instead of me.  She said it earnestly. I believe that was some reference to my age and not being safe for an old codger like me to be driving at night. (Unknown to her I'd just driven a 72 hour round trip from Minneapolis to NYC and back just days before.

Agreed and thank you...mine are nice and squishy 😋

Being black you are NOT "over the hill" at age thirty. White girls are over the hill at thirty, Black and brown women about 35 and Asians make it until about 40. lol

But not too bad.
There's a real science behind "black don't crack" lol.
Not that it's a competition or anything but...we TEND to age the best.  
Asian women tend to do pretty well too though.