TER General Board

young vs older
mistermike2001 51 Reviews 133 reads
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I personally prefer older woman, just think they are sexier.  I set my age limit at 30-35,  but prefer over 50. Thats just me.

I follow many providers on Twitter, I have also been a long time member here so I know the ropes.
Recently I saw a provider on Twitter comment how she felt it discussing and degrading when a 50 plus client will book with a 19 20 21 year old. Now I see many of all ages, what ever I feel the urge for. I have a regular or 2, one is 20 years younger than me.  
Am I not supposed to book young girls that are in this business?  
I truly feel I should stop seeing providers, I actually felt shamed.

FYI, her comment was in general, not directed to me....

Your thoughts? From BOTH sides of the line ...

TheVoiceOfReason150 reads

Don't over think stuff.  Many, probably the majority of younger ladies like seeing older guys especially if they book multiple hours.  Young bucks want to go at it like 4 or 5 times in 2 to 3 hours (they tend to want no stop action).  Older guys maybe 1 to 3 times.  Bottom line is that most ladies don't care and many ladies like older guys because they are less work and have more disposable income.  

So you are gonna let one hooker on Twitter dictate your mongering activity?
Insecure much grandpa? Have you considered stamp collecting or Bingo as an alternative hobby instead?
As long as your cash is fresh, who the fuck cares?

I may be a grandpa but I will run circles around some of you smart mouthed newbies. I look late 30s and can do a 100 miles on a bike in 6 hours.
Want to be a smart mouth take it down the road, been here a long time and it was just a question so back off sonny!

GaGambler215 reads

For the record I am  sixty and I won't be seen with a woman much "over" thirty, much less "age appropriate" by these old biddy's standards.

 
It wasn't JUST a question, you clearly said in your OP that you felt "shamed" so shamed as matter of fact that you even mentioned that you were thinking about giving up providers altogether. If you were really as secure as you pretend to be, you would have told that old biddy the same thing that Nick or I would have said in your position and that would be for her to GO FUCK HERSELF!!!

 
It's nice that you finally grew a pair and stood up for yourself, but you are directing your ire at the wrong person, you should be saying this to the old biddy who "age shamed" you. For the record, you can ONLY be shamed if you either consciously or subconsciously feel somewhat ashamed about your behavior in the first place. I am IMPOSSIBLE to shame because I feel no shame in seeing women a third of my age or younger. Now that you've finally grown a pair, why don't you go find the OTHFB who was running her mouth and tell HER to fuck off not the people here.

Sweet Melissa said it all!  She's dead nuts on!

I've been with women from the age of around 18 to probably nearly 50, I tend to prefer younger girls, however. And Make no apologies for it.  For my part, I tend to look down on people who look upon others' sexual preferences as weird.

From reading the board one might conclude that the return of TER brought nothing but a bunch of nosey neighbors and "virtue" police. For fucks sake, if you don't like something DON'T do it and don't pay any attention to it. Let those that like nose rings, tats, big breasts, little breast, short (didn't we have some little people members way back?), tall, same age, different age, same sex, different sex or even wrong review because I disagree (and yes, there are, were and will be bad and fake reviews as well as just plain differences of opinion and off day or simply the wrong two people meeting).

One might think no one here is getting laid.

GaGambler213 reads

I would say it was much more the VACUUM that was created when TER went offline in the US that was filled by SWITTER/TWATTER and other Social media over the last couple of years. That is where you find most of the "virtue police" that you speak of.

 

Hopefully with the return of TER we can orchestrate a little pushback to the virtue police who try to spread their "woke" ideas to the hooker world that many of us have been living quite happily in for the last several decades.

 

and if ANYBODY thinks that I am going to change my opinion or my behavior one iota because of a few loudmouth woke hookers and johns on TWATTER, they most definitely have another thing coming. I am having much too much fun "getting laid" to pay any attention to these fucking nut jobs, aside from calling them nutjobs of course. lol

So the return of TER just sucked the bad back in with the good? lol. I can see that too.

They can all go back to where ever they were before. I would say we'll all be happier but they will be sad not being able to save us from ourselves, or at least preaching their BS.

Still, seems like the ratio today versus 4 years back is way higher.

I would also suggest that there is NOTHING woke about the BS they push. It is prejudice and narrow-minded my view is the only legit view plain and simple. Certainly cannot be called embracing diversity or or an inclusive attitude. Maybe we should make them all watch Harold and Maude.

GaGambler115 reads

IMO "woke" is synonymous with "prejudiced and narrow minded, my view is the only legit view"" although they pretend to be the exact opposite.

 
Yes, the "woke crowd" is very diverse and inclusive as long as EVERYBODY thinks "exactly" the way that they do. lol

Some young women have this odd prejudice towards women who date older men. I know firsthand, because I've dated a few of them, and it's interesting to watch someone go from "aren't you a little old" to not caring about it whatsoever once they realize that dating is way, way better when you're with someone who has their shit together.

 
My guess is, the predjudice comes from some sort of inherent mate-competition that they're wired for, and make no mistake, women are phenomenally competitive, it just gets expressed in different ways than what you'd think.

 

Outside of that, 50 isn't 50 for everyone. Some guys age like milk, and even more just don't take care of themselves, and by 50, it's pretty obvious which is which. I can't blame someone for not really wanting to bed some Ron Jeremy looking asshole, but everyone likes a George Clooney silver fox.

I've seen a number of ladies of varying ages. I prefer older women because I just find older (40'2 and 50's) women who are in good shape and sexy to be really hot. But that doesn't mean I stick to that type of lady exclusively. I've been with women in this age group who are smoking hot with bodies a 20 year old would envy.

I have seen some ladies in their twenties and they've been awesome - mature, responsible, etc.

I don't think there is anything wrong with variety or trying different things. I also don't think anyone should paint with a broad brush and assume anything about a client or provider based just on their age.

No need to be ashamed or embarrassed because you saw a twenty-something lady. Nothing wrong with it.

it is safe, sane, and consensual.

Let everyone keep their opinions about what others do to themselves, and don't get hung up on their hang-ups.

tbinsocal949122 reads

Even though I am in decent condition, I generally like Asians in their late 50s to late 70s.  It is inexpensive and they are similar in age to me.  It would be nice to visit a 25 or 30 year old but I can't imagine how disgusted they'd be to see me so I stay clear.     I used to date a 17 year old worker, but I was 16 at the time.

Senator.Blutarsky107 reads

Itโ€™s her problem, not yours.

When I was in my teens, 30 was ancient.  When I was in my twenties, 30 was ancient. When I was in my 30's, 30 was ancient, but I did have some good experiences with 35-45 year old women (who looked in their 20's).  Now I'm in my 40's and 30's don't look that bad, if they look like they are in their 20's. :)  Maybe when I'm in my 50's, 30's will look doable . . . it would make filtering easier, in my market older a heavier seems to be the thing (sadly for me).

I will say that body thing is real: firm, tight, pre-baby 20 year olds are all that! They have the looks and enough experience to get it done.  Although, to be honest the teens I've seen have been great too (I guess because teenage providers are more experienced maybe?).  But the post sex conversation is difficult . . . I mean the music they listen too (total garbage, strike that, it doesn't even rate as music) and the generation gap is difficult.  But talking to 30 year olds sucks too, you wind up talking about kids and ex-husbands . . . that's a giant turn off.  Hence I try to avoid conversation, and keep it physical.

and I had to do it this way out of necessity. Probably now more than before will be that way.  
But like I say I went cheap, fast  and nasty, without details or compromises as they say.  
But way when it comes to speed, yeah. I could go for longer. But in places they knock on the door by the 20th min. when they think your $65 is up. I have to say that's a short time even for a young guy. But like I said, out of necessity and funds it would be fine. Good thing I have long time known or better known ones that don't rush. There also they more expensive ones that go for a little bit longer. These girls don't go by race, age, weight or anything. It's all business. But they do have complain to me about dirty guys. One understood that some of them work like in construction and stuff and they can't go home and clean up. If they get home the wife won't let them out.  
OMG as they  say, I have lived in a world of reality! That makes me happy. Now back to the world of fuckery, being with whoever if available with whoever is available.  

Everybody has an opinion on what other people should or shouldn't do. It often doesn't pertain to them. Funny about that huh?

You should decide what suits you and do it. My personal rule is I won't see a provider under the age of 21. I've had that rule since I began seeing providers 10 years ago. I was 56. Even with strippers I follow that rule.  

Regarding seeing women much younger than you I've seen discussions where men have said, she's young enough to be my daughter. One responder replied: yes, but she isn't. That's how I look at it, she may be young enough to be my daughter (or granddaughter) but she isn't.

Considering my age a 40 year old could be my daughter.

I am over 60, I like older women, 40-ish or 50. Not that many out there. If there is, drop me a line. Not  that I do not like young women, but early 20 is definitely too young  to me.

...socially and romantically.
Even in my civvie life i've never been interested in anyone too close to my own age.
When I was 18/19 the YOUNGEST guy I dated was still 8 yrs older than me. Around 19/20 I was dating two 40+ y/o men (both were pushing late 40's).  
Somehow i'm trying to get to that I'm not a fan of "yucking someone's yum" esp if what's going on is happening between two consenting people of legal age.

Mocha, you are one of the smartest gals on this site. Always have been. Stick around.

And because i'm also a well-mannered heaux .... I warmly say thank you much.
Since it seems a good chunk like the ladies in their 30's too I guess I have another good 10 yrs here lol so I intend to stick around (20's are done in 2 months). :)

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You ain't the only one. MsMocha is a wonderful lady! I've always admired her!...  :D

Not ole bitter ones that think criticizing our choices is going to get them more business.

I'm a live and let live kinda guy so it's whatever floats your boat. It's not my style but that's me. There's a group that covet this age group, see the exotic highway and they have that preference. So be it
Being in the 60's I can't see being with anyone under 30, I prefer the over 35 ladies but every now and then I'll stray and see a young lady, say 25 yrs but I use that as a wake up call to myself, to say,"WTF are you doing".
Just trying to avoid a "Hey 19" moment

I've fucked 'em from 18 to 59.  And I'd fuck 'em older if I could find 'em.   I'm probably wired a little different than guys that like 'em only young.  I like to dominate sexually.  That's my kink.  And I get the same thrill dominating some 18 year old vs dominating some GILF.    

As for what others think about any of it ... if they are in the room with you, chase them out.  Then relax and do what you want.

Its almost always the clients putting down younger ladies (citing we older ones know what were doing, while the youngins play on their phones etc), they put them down in an attempt to compliment me (often assuming im insecure about my age which I'm not and have no reason to be). I dont like it when they put down others in the midst of a compliment, its fine to have your preferences but dont put down other providers. I also hate stereotyping, i have a 25 year old duo partner whos absolutely fantastic. And I once duoed with an older lady who was a good provider but habitually late.

Steve_Trevor176 reads

If sheโ€™s 19, 20, 21 and she wants to see you and you her, itโ€™s really no one elseโ€™s business.  

I have a 25-year-old daughter and am mid-60s, so my preference in ladies is 40s-60s.  One of my favs is 33, but sheโ€™s an โ€œold soulโ€ and is mature beyond her years, and we get along great.  Another fav is 30 and seems to dig older guys.  So, it depends.

...I tend to prefer women who are 30+, as long as they are taking care of themselves (since I'm doing the same).

The youngest I've had a session with recently was a 27 year-old tgirl. We had an overnight and went to a nice restaurant before playtime. With a near four decade age difference, we got some looks from a couple of women two tables over. There were even a couple of "Well, I never..." kind of comments, even though we were behaving in quite the PG capacity.

As we finished dinner and headed out of the restaurant, my date walked by the women's table and said, "We're going back to our room and I'm going to fuck his brains out. Have as good a night yourselves!"

And she did ;)

We had just had a terrific session in Manhattan and she'd agreed to accompany me afterwards for dinner. Per usual, the agreement was I was to buy her dinner but not pay for her time. We met another monger and his "date" at one of New York's finer steak houses. My date, a mid-20s Korean-American (but not a K Girl) wore wedgies and a skin-tight, faux-leopard mini-dress. I am about 70, so....I was anticipating some old bat telling me, "You should be ashamed of yourself! She's young enough to be your daughter!"
My retort (which sadly never needed to be delivered) would have been: "Madam! She is FAR too young to be my daughter!"
[Special response for GaGa: "She's a gook and I'm a Heeb, so that's just not possible."]

GaGambler175 reads

Technically it's "possible" that you could sire a gook looking girl even with your inferior Jew genes. lol

 

Personally I am glad so many guys prefer the OTHFB's, it leaves more young pussy for me.  

 
I know Jack will remember this one. A couple of years ago I had an 18 year old Black SB who went to the local college a couple of miles from me. One day she wanted to go for a couples mani/pedi session together so I took her to a local nail salon. Naturally the place was owned by an older (fiftyish) Vietnamese woman and during conversation she gave me the ultimate compliment IMO, she asked me "is this your girlfriend?" So I asked my SB "Are you my girlfriend?" to which she answered with out a moment of hesitation.  "Of course I am boo" EVERYBODY got a good tip that day.

 
I honestly don't know why middleaged/old guys are EMBARRASSED to be with much younger women. Personally I am embarrassed to be out with an old ugly fat broad, NOT a young sexy girl a third of my age. I am PROUD to be seen with a hottie and if some old biddy gets her nose out of joint that's HER problem, not mine.

White genes aren't recessive as far as skin color. However everyone, including minorities, divide the world up into white and non-white.  So a brown child of a black parent and white parent is thrown in the non-white category even if the child is exactly half way between the parent's skin colors.   This "pure white" and "other" division is arbitrary and doesn't say anything about gene dominance.

I've seen in Western Europe in my travels for P4P are incredibly beautiful.  I would have no problem HAVING a child with an Asian, but I'm too old to want to be stuck RAISING a child with anyone.  

At first reading this I was thinking of the time we had these two ladies at your place, but realized it was another time with another monger, lmao!  

But in defense, Natalie was crazy-fucking-fun and you, sir, set up a hell of an afternoon for us all!..

I'd copy and paste the review I did of her on other sites but she decided to not hang with us anymore and I have to respect that..

30+ y/o and been in the biz at least a few years over a early twenty-something every single time.  A gal in her 30s or 40s is generally going to be more business savvy than the young โ€œhottieโ€ who has the attitude of โ€˜who wouldnโ€™t want to bang meโ€™.   I have no problem with young people but I am generally not near as impressed with them as they are with themselves.  Itโ€™s not necessarily their fault; they just donโ€™t have the life experience to know otherwise.  Yeah, there are some gals that are mature beyond their years but Iโ€™m not willing to roll the dice.  Iโ€™d much prefer a provider, with an established review history, who has been around long enough to know that there is more to the biz than just physical appeal.  

Iโ€™ve always preferred women in their 30s and up, even when I was in my 20s.  Most of them just seem to have their acts more together and donโ€™t rely solely on their looks.  Why take the chance at $500 an hour?  For me, I just find older, not necessarily old, women to be more reliable, interesting and more fun BCD as they are a hell of a lot more experienced.  

I can see why a lot of guys my age dig gals that are that young but Iโ€™ll take an attractive older woman over the same equally attractive younger woman every single time.  

One type, who prefer to be with a YOUNG "pro" simply to suck up that "new car smell" these young gals give off, REGARDLESS of their "skills."    
Then, there are those, like myself, who prefer a "pro" who has some "mileage" under her, not SO much that she should have RETIRED ages ago, but enough so that she KNOWS what she's doing, and is virtually guaranteed to show you a "good time."  :)
A review site like "T.E.R." is MADE for such "pros," as such "skills" are not readily apparent.
Those just wanting the next NEW thing will suffice with just a clear, current PHOTOGRAPH to "pull the trigger!"  ;)

mrfisher, you know what I think. I'm a fucking degenerate, fuck you very much! BUT....!

You know I know the fiber of your being. You're twisted. But you're down to earth.  

I picked you as a big brother for a reason ;)

... that goes on there on "Twitter," extinguishing any possibility of it being seen as a useful tool in the "game," in the social media era.  :(

You got "kids" POSING as "pros," airing their "dirty laundry" for ALL the world to see, including "mongers"/potential clients, and ALIENATING them in the process, like the OP apparently was.

A true professional doesn't bad mouth a client, actual or potential, in public.  Why risk the business?  Duh!

The SAD part is the REPERCUSSIONS these "ladies" have on the REST of the "field."

Clients end up feeling disparaged and discouraged from seeing ANYONE at all, mistakenly, but understandably, assuming that ALL "pros" think this way (smh...).  :(

in my personal life when I turned 20 and early 20s I was dating guys who were in the mid-age 40s and early 50s.
So for me it is not disgusting. So if a guy who is in that age range wants to see a lady who is in her early 20s what is the problem? She is of age. Do what feels best for you and not what someone on Twitter decided to write.
I have found on both sides men and women....will say one thing on Twitter and do a complete opposite.
It is funny many who complain about ter on twitter have been posting their ads quietly here. Things that make you go hmm...if you dont want to be on the site thewn don't. But don't be loud on social media and then come here and post your ad and then go back there and talk shit. Be consistent if you are a shit talker...I guess that is what I am sayin' lmao.

At least one beautiful, known, and well rated provider seems to understand the good and bad of social media.
Have read some of your reviews here and you do not disappoint and they seem to match your understanding of the intertwining social media and TER
I might also add that the reemergence of TER has helped rather then hurt you and your business.

Black-Panther119 reads

To put it bluntly, a product is being sold. Fuck 'em if an old guy buys a Corvette. Yeah, mid-life crisis, but he is enjoying the car. This is even less so because nobody is seeing you fuck a 20-year-old.

That being said, just had a date with a 21-year-old (you realize how badly women lie about their age when you do get a true young 20 year old). It was fantastic body-wise, thin, toned, perfect tits with areolas jutting STRAIGHT out defying gravity. As others noted, she was a bit immature and lacked the experience and skills to get into my mind and make me feel like a million bucks. Sometimes the younger girls can do it, but more often you get a bit of immaturity which can put a damper on things. She was a great fuck nonetheless.

Age is not always an indicator of emotional maturity. Age is just a number. I enjoy younger & older; but both can come with their own issues.  
I don't like younger guys that are inexperienced or got a whim cuz they've been watching cougar porn. They will have unrealistic expectations.    
Older men come with health issues, if I'm keeping my phone close to dial 911 cuz daddy may stop breathing or he's wondering around the hotel lobby like he has Alzheimers.. I'm not interested.  

This should be about fun. Nobody's looking for a life partner....so as long as everyone is two consenting adults.

C'est la vie!

Thanks for the morning "chuckle," luv!  ;)  

("...I'm keeping my phone close to dial 911 cuz daddy may stop breathing...") LOL!  

If the client has Alzheimers he probably won't remember how much money he had in his wallet.

she just needs to get him in the shower, and when comes out, help him dry off, get dressed and tell him what a great time he had.  That will be $500 please.  

I dont see anything wrong with it. Beauty of this industry is that 2 consenting adults can choose to do what they want. As a provider we know there will likely be pretty big age differences... Just comes with the tertitory... Enjoy!

Dont ever make someone make you feel bad about yourself.  Especially when they are not perfect themselves.  The chick you are talking about is probably going through some sort of age crisis or something.  Boo fucking hoo, right?  

Tell her to straighten up and fly right or you wont see her again and to keep her benign opinions to herself.  

Sorry if I sound like a bitch but I used to be one of the young ones and I remember being hated for it.  It wasnt cool.  Now I'm old but I am cooler than a cucumber when a client of mine decides to test the younger waters.  Oh fucking well-they always come back.  Tee-hee!

XXX-Giselle

I personally prefer older woman, just think they are sexier.  I set my age limit at 30-35,  but prefer over 50. Thats just me.

Why would you give a shit what she says.  Just put her on your list of ladies not to see.  Even if she is the right age for you.

So, I'm pretty sure that you don't believe everything you read on Twitter...you actually can't, since it takes about 15 seconds to find a view that is 180 degrees different on ANY topic.  So why give any credence at all to what some ranting provider on Twitter has to say about YOUR mongering.  It was probably a marketing ploy anyway -- it would make sense if she's not in her 20s to rant to her followers about the disgusting behavior of all those "old men" that are seeing 20-year-olds instead of HER.  She just has to succeed with one of them to make her 3 benjamins today.

Besides, for me, it is not about how old they are, but how maturely they interact with me.  When I was mongering consistently, I started in the older ages.  I went almost three years with my youngest provider at 28 and saw a dozen 40+ in that same time.  Then, in a weak moment, I met a 22 year-old in Denver -- and she had all her shit in one bucket.  My last three favorites were 22, 26 and 26, and all of them were mature, had a plan, were real businesswomen, were a delight in conversation, and were GFE's GFE -- with 20-something bodies and mature BCD skills.  Oh, and by the way, don't let ANY 40-year-old tell you that she's better in bed than all 20-year-olds -- it simply isn't true....there are a lot of 20-somethings that can find their way around a bedroom.

My commitment to psychological, emotional and social maturity has extended into my sojourn into the sugar world.  My instincts three years ago were that I'd be much better off with the 28-38 year-old crowd.  It took me a year to figure out I was wrong about that, too.  In my current rotation of SBs, if I could only keep two, I'd keep the two youngest (22 and 24), at least in part because they would both rank very high in reliability, trust, predictability, interesting conversation, understanding where I fit into their plan, and understanding where they fit into my plan.  I see two 34 year-olds, both of which are great BCD, but much lower on all of the factors listed above -- and they would be the first I'd drop if I had to drop SBs.

That's my long way of saying we all have our reasons for playing in the end of the pool we choose to play in, and we all want to be comfortable in this world, so figure where you fit in and it's no one else's business.  And don't believe everything you read on Twitter....

I joke that half my age and half my weight is the sweet spot. In reality, while I can't help but be attracted to cute young women, I'm often equally attracted to more mature women my own age.

GaGambler100 reads

He was talking about celebrating with two 27 year olds, naturally I suggested he try THREE 18 year olds. He liked the idea, but I don't think he was able to arrange it that quickly.  

 
My next birthday I turn 62, Does ANYONE think I am going to see two women over age 30 on ANY day? lol

I'm guessing you will be seeing two 21's and a 20.  Do your last will and testament first.  Lol

When it come to paying for pussy there isnโ€™t no rules as long has the provider is of legal age and is willing to take your money just like any other provider would...have anyone heard of sugar daddy? Itโ€™s the same thing Iโ€™m pretty sure when a 20 something young lady is looking for a sugar daddy she looking for a guy who is well established which more then likely would be 50 plus!!

GaGambler109 reads

and what really cracks me up is seeing a rather average looking 18-21 year old looking for a rich sugar daddy, but then puts in an age range of 18-34. ROFL. Yeah, rots of ruck with that one. lol

I only had one SB ever refer to my age, and that was indirectly.  She was a bit in need of immediate money and I didn't feel like driving the 45 minutes to get to her, so I said she could come to me.  It was evening when she got here and she said it was good she was out driving at night instead of me.  She said it earnestly. I believe that was some reference to my age and not being safe for an old codger like me to be driving at night. (Unknown to her I'd just driven a 72 hour round trip from Minneapolis to NYC and back just days before. :-)

Book whoever you want as long as she has reached the age of sexual consent. Tell her during the screening process roughly how old you are. That gives her a chance to reject you if she doesn't like older guys. Personally, I see nothing wrong with an 18 year-old provider seeing a 50-year old client (or older).

I realize that men are visual creatures and bed whomever does it for them. Personally, I don't see gents under 40. There are 3 that are just under 40. They are all Spanish and amazing  on all levels.  
Perhaps this woman is uncomfy with herself. It's easy to fault others when you're unhappy with yourself.  
I've seen many tweets from ladies who shit on those of us that have had plastic surgery.  I could 2 shits if they feel that way. That being said; I may be 48 but my titts are still young.  

I used to be young and beautiful.  
Now I'm just beautiful!

Agreed and thank you...mine are nice and squishy ๐Ÿ˜‹

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