Just for shits and giggles.....

as I believe in getting what you paid for.

Which is why your idea is the stupidest idea ever.

It sure would take a lot of balls to do that and I'd like to hear a story about someone that did do it and how it went.

All the way... Or Talia likes too, but after at least a handful of meetings, one has to have a true connection with that person.  Sometimes it happens in the first session, but the expectation that your a one and done kinda client will be perceived... That is for sure!

It sounds like you want the illusion that she is fucking you because she wants to and not because you are paying her, I guess if that's what floats your boat.........

I certainly wouldn't call it sick, but I might mention that it is seems pointless to me.

he just said he was by the statement:
"Here's your money.  I'll let you decide if you want to follow through with the sex or not."

If that isn't paying for sex, I don't know what is. Most of the rest of us are paying for sex as well, If you want to be PC to the point of being delusional, that's up to you, but don't put stupid shit that we are "paying for time" on the rest of us. I'll tell you what, you pay for time, and I'll pay for sex, deal?

It is still a dumb idea though, but not as dumb as your statement.

It's illegal to directly pay for sex.
It's not illegal to pay for someone's time and have sex while on that time.

you're not going to like the response lol. OTOH, if I were not a hooker and were dating in real life, of course I would not charge for it. Some guys act like it's such a shock that a half naked girl with a rates page, actually wants their money. Um, no shit. If I wanted a BF or a husband, I would not be on TER. If you're dumb enough to pay me to NOT fk you, bring it. Wait...do I have to talk to you, though? Heh.

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Amber,

You just try that with a female cop and see how far it gets you.

Come on I dare you to tell a female decoy. "Here you go, here's three hundred dollars for your time, wink wink, now just what do you think we should do with our hour? Hey, lets have sex???" lmao

I am sure that being PC isn't always stupid, but I can't really think of any exceptions off the top of my head.

He idea is stupid, your statement is moronic

I find it fun to ask questions and get people thinking before they talk.  It allows me to learn something about them in a interesting way.

That is the saying my friends would use.
P4P is no drama. Thats all.

and, yes, it's bullshit.  Can someone tell me how many times it's kept a girl out of jail by saying, "But officer, like my site says, he's just paying me for my time, not for sex."
Answer: zero!
This is another one of this game's myths, along with the famous "LE check."
Anyone who believes either one is dangerously naive

and she said she wanted to spend the time you were paying for playing Scrabble with you, you'd be cool with that?  Because if your answer to that is no, then you're paying for sex.

haha, it would take alot of balls to do this in real life.  I imagine someone has done this already.  I would love to hear about it too.  It would depend on how business savvy the provider was.  No and client never comes back.  Say yes, and client may become a repeat regular.

Do you see that bs on my website? Don't think so lol. London knows the LAW!

I don't go for streetwalkers like you do, and therefore I don't need to worry about decoys.

London Rayne,

LOL.. yep. Even if you were verified times 10, a question/proposition like that would have me thinking set-up/LE.  

would make me super leery. I'd probably stand there wondering what the catch is.

I would take 100 bucks for wasting my time and give him the rest back, and he would be on his way. I won't take money for nothing unless it's just a "GIFT" which I would not have to meet him, to receive.

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I can't speak for everyone but I think most feel this way... if I wasn't willing to follow through, I wouldn't meet with you to begin with. Of course the ones who are desperate or on drugs will meet anyone who contacts them.

I just wonder if he's also using Udo's suggestions on going BBFS.

Here is how I took it...

If I had a nickel for every time some new johnnie boy wants to "entice" the hooker with the "I could be a regular" line....

would you kick him in the balls before kicking him to the curb?

Look on the Legal page and you'll see plenty of these lame brained schemes these junior johnnie boys dream up.

But then he would need balls to prove intent to injure.

wow..i know what i would do...i would direct him to put the money down and get over here! would I take the money...absolutly, it pays the bills but i would never send him on his way...that would be such a disappointment for me!!! lol i completly enjoy what i do and get worked up and excited prior to each session and by the time the client arrives i am good and ready to go! not to follow thru wouild be a real disappointment for myself lol! for me sure the money is great, but the excitement and adventure are equally the same!

and I think most gals would send you and your money on their way fearing what strange tricks you might play on them.

He said he would give you the money regardless. Then it is your choice to fuk him or just keep the money and he would leave. Either way, you'd still get the moola.

And just why did you need to comment to Gambler that he sees streetwalkers?

that it's a real concern for him.  I go through that every time the door opens and it's scary for both parties.

but I never really question his balls, I have repeatedly questioned if he has any brains however.

It was the idiot FBSM who chimed in with that witty come back.

Again in the OP's defense, while his question wasn't the brightest in the world, he didn't make a lot of effort in defending it which leads me to believe in was at least partly tongue in cheek.

FBSM OTOH is not only a tard, but one who believes in continuing to dig even AFTER it's plain he's already in a hole.

But yea...still his OP sounds like a veiled attempt to not get busted.

I'm just terrible about keeping money around. I leave it on the counter, and the next thing you know its gone. I can't remember if i picked it up, or the maid took it for groceries. I invite my lady friends over to hang out, sometimes we have sex and go out to dinner, i start drinking. Hell maybe they took it, shit i can't remember i'm usually passed out, all i can say is oh well i can't blame them if i'm so stupid enough to leave money lying around. At least i still got my dick, because i leave that thing out all the time. PARTY ON...........................................

I will answer your question as soon as I get the funds.

Yea ok, I would not go that far, but I would do my JOB lol. Excited for every appt without knowing what a guy looks like, smells like, or how big his c(ck is? I don't think so.

Re: Ball kicking is extra eom

Nah, that's free. Listening to them yap is extra lol.

I met a girl who had a wicked bruise on her foot. Ouch!
She must have turned that guys nuts into cottage cheese.

I like your sense of humor!

Being a new provider myself, I would look straight into your eyes and say : ' Deal, I will follow through with the sex if you show me it's worth it..., so unzip your pants,pls!'!  
xoxo

The problem with your scenario is that she doesn't just have the options you described. She (or this new provider's pimp) can tell you to GFY. I am not a new provider but if this happened to me that's exactly what I would do. If this chick's pimp was involved, you'd be given some unpleasant options in return (hint: you lose your money anyway). What makes you think she WANTS some dickhead for a regular? New girls may not have regulars yet BUT they do have a ton of guys banging down her door for fresh talent, so you are ENTIRELY dispensable.  

ChgoCPA,

Wise reply:
"Oh, honey, I wasn't planning on having sex with you, just spending some quite time together.  (Putting away the money.)  Come on over here and tell me about your life."

listen everyone does it for the money but most of us do it and like what we do, who cares about silly games like that. Most would send you on your way an dblock your number we aren't confused about the work seems you are confused why you are doing it.

From some with out doin some for, of service in return.  
I had one regular once stop by n hand me five hundred n said here I kne u need it I had another client there already too n we'd literally just had a sick emancipated bull dog dropped in my lap by garbage men that am early.  
He was also biting n we the two clients paid for him to get to vet. He ended up tryn to pummel me next morning, after bitin me as well once, I was tryin to carry him from toilet bowl he wa so dehydrated n had garbage stuck to his snout and beat up. It was so sad the garbage men had seen me and my dog walks in am n knew I loved animals they brought him to me that a,.  
That was one instance I gladly took five hundred from a regular , to get this dog to vet n get rabies shots n food. Turned out he was really sick n then next am after I quarantined him in my kit hen so he wouldn't eat my other dog, I realized I am unable to care for a dog that is that out of control. And it was dangerous with my little dog, I feel so bad, still think. A that dog. Poor thing.  
But that was one occasion I accepted money from a client for nothin.
Other than I would have to agree I'd def still do an appt even if they offered it n said u don't have too.  
Totally.