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Eighth_Sin 47 Reviews 1402 reads
posted
1 / 33
whats special about clients that are 45+? and incoming salt.

mostly directed to providers but clients are welcome to input as well i guess.  yea get rdy for some salt...

so ive been in contact with a provider for a few months.  we tried linking up 3 times but unfortunately her schedule is hectic and such and i dont live near her to see her immediately when she has an opening so theres that.  one incident was when she got really sick i would like to say i was understanding and wished her well and that there will be another time we can see each other.  2nd time she was heading out of town for the recent holidays.  3rd time she drops the "sorry i recently made the decision to see only men 45 and over" bomb on me.  even after promising to setup a date after coming back from the holidays.

you can look at my reviews / white list.  even my p411 "okays".  id like to say i treat my providers well and quite often tip / get extra gifts.  so im HOPING that my providers dont lie to my face and say im an enjoyable client.  hell i can even post my texts messages / p411 messages as proof or PM.

anyways lets get some points outta the way:

-yes i understand that provider RESERVES HER RIGHT to see any client she see fit
-yes i understand that the provider can discriminate against all clients to suit her tastes in men
-yes i understand that there are MANY OTHER providers out there for me to see

so i asked the provider if she would provide an explanation of the sudden change and possible blacklisting for a quality i possess that i had no control over.  so far im met with silence.  fine, you dont have to give me one.  i just consider that a courtesy and good manners to respond to an honest question.  i mean you alrdy made the decision to back out of our date so i dont see what the big deal is.  its like shes scared to tell me the truth or whatever.  if i did something wrong let me know and ill fix it for next time or next provider whatever you know?

anyways,  just curious whats so special about clients that are over 45?  did something snap and she was like yea never again?  i mean we had several setups in our date but SHE was the one that cancelled and made new plans.  not me.  ive had several providers setup something with me and cancel at the last minute due to changing their minds and seeing ONLY 45+ clients at the last minute.  which pretty much wasted my time and effort.  if a client did this, lord knows the provider would most likely blacklist him and tell her friends and so on and so forth.  BUT we hardly hear stories of providers doing the same thing to us clients that they dont want being done to themselves.  well heres one.

i hear alot of complaints about clients doing this and that and basically being ungentlemanlike.  but what about providers that are unladylike?  promising to see a client but changing their mind at the last minute?  again yes they can see who they WISH but to GO BACK ON THEIR WORD is what irks me the most.  kinda like giving a donation of 300 but actually putting less in the envelope or something of the sort.  makes you kinda angry doesnt it?

end rant.  thanks for playing.  and bring alot of popcorn and french fries.  thats a whole lotta salt there..

octavia.lexa See my TER Reviews 516 reads
posted
2 / 33
it is my personal sexual preference...

do you mind???why guys can be into asians, bbw or some other types...but females are not allowed to have non mainstream types...

 
it is like posting...i do not understand why some into BBW or MILFs...it is just their sexual preference for f... sake...

PLEASURE7 5 Reviews 383 reads
posted
3 / 33
Re: it is my personal sexual preference...

Octavia sweetheart I am over 50,but can you please tell why men over 45 are you personal sexual preference,it may help the youngest men ...

elainaamhurst See my TER Reviews 364 reads
posted
4 / 33
Bad manners

To start with, I'm taking this at face value.....and there seems to be two issues here.  

For her to continually cancel set dates is just rude. I drove through three hours of ice storms the other night to get to a date, because I hate cancelling anything, within in the hobby or out. If I say I'm going to be there, I am, end of story. To lead you on, and then later say "I'm sticking to the 45+ rule" is in poor taste to me.  

As for the 45+ rule, it's probably different for every woman, but I will speak from my personal experience. I don't have any hard and fast rules and take each case individually. In my experience, men of a certain age just know how to handle themselves in a variety of situations. They communicate better, they know what they want more clearly, and they are more sure of themselves. It is also my experience that older men tend to be more interested in pleasing their partners. All of these are vast generalizations, which is why I always give the younger guy the opportunity to make their case. I would never lead someone on though, again I just feel it is of extremely poor taste.  

Better luck next time, and if you are ever in Chicago look me up. That is if I'm your type ;)
xoxoxo
Related Link: http://www.courtesan-elaina.com/

elainaamhurst See my TER Reviews 378 reads
posted
5 / 33
Re: it is my personal sexual preference...

I think he gets that.....my read on this situation is that it's much more about the rude treatment, ie setting and breaking dates etc. That is just my two cents though

SoapMactavish 10 Reviews 318 reads
posted
6 / 33
Moments like these....

You have to remember what world you are in.  This is the hobby/provider world.  Sometimes, odd, flaky, and discriminatory things go down.

Both hobbyist and providers do it.  Hobbyist have superficial preferences such as age, ethnicity, height, body shape, weight, eye color, length of hair, hair color, and the list goes on.  A lady can be super hot but a hobbyist can have a foot fetish and think "no, I wont see her again, her feet were too big".

Providers are "allowed" to be just as superficial.  Seems hypocritical to believe otherwise.

You are looking at this world the wrong way.  You can't look at it the same way you would a customer service experience in the real world.  You have to have thicker skin and let it roll of your shoulders if you feel like the "customer service" is a little shady and move on.  It really is pointless to complain.  There's no manager you can ask to speak to in this world.

You are upset because you got your hopes up but then was let down.  An emotional rollercoaster.  It's happened to all of us.  Last minute cancellation, that bums you out.  Or the disappointment of a provider you have seen several time just dropping off the radar.

The nature of the beast sometimes.  I'm not saying don't be human and not feel annoyed but it really shouldn't last more than 10 mins before you are thinking "okay, which one of these plethora of wonderful ladies can I see next".

rembrnad0284 12 Reviews 403 reads
posted
7 / 33
Ask anyone who's 50

... and we'll tell you what's special about being 45 lol.

jelloman42 10 Reviews 205 reads
posted
8 / 33
Isn't that the truth...eom


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nothrofboston 24 Reviews 261 reads
posted
9 / 33
Hand up ... over 50 ....

And Italian ... and ..... when did u say you might come to Boston

BigPapasan 3 Reviews 334 reads
posted
10 / 33
She won't see you because of the way you write. It reveals...

...a lot about you - your age, your education, etc.  "incoming salt?"  WTF is that?

BigPeterJohnson 38 Reviews 317 reads
posted
11 / 33
dude, move on

tbh it sounds like all 3 excuses were just that... excuses.  i don't think she wants to see but doesn't have balls (lol) to say it to your face.

remember, providers are, at their cores, women.  women change their mind.

also, i didn't really see that she actually cancelled a confirmed date... just a "maybe we can get together" and then, no it didn't work out.

dude, wait til you actually meet a confirmed date in her parking garage and she says to your face, "no, i cant' do this" and shines you on.  or wait til your confirmed date set 2 weeks ago phones you in your uber when you are a mile away and says "i can't make it i thought it was for 2 hours from now" because (as it turns out from her next review) she was with a guy who extended his 2 hours into 4 hours.  both happened to me in the last 2 months.

am i angry?  no.  (i was miffed, but i got over that).  finding new ladies to play with really soothes the pain. and that's all this is about.  playing. don't take it personal, because, dude, i can assure you, the ladies are not taking it personal.

but in answer to your question, guys over 45 don't demand answers when a provider says no.  they move on.  we know life is too damn short to waste getting upset over p4p.

Eighth_Sin 47 Reviews 277 reads
posted
12 / 33
Re: it is my personal sexual preference...

preferences are just that.  it wasnt a preference until after the 3rd time after she said she would set something up after getting back from the holidays

Posted By: octavia.lexa
do you mind???why guys can be into asians, bbw or some other types...but females are not allowed to have non mainstream types...  
   
   
 it is like posting...i do not understand why some into BBW or MILFs...it is just their sexual preference for f... sake...

Eighth_Sin 47 Reviews 310 reads
posted
13 / 33
Re: When many of us tell a prospective client "no,"

honestly... saying straight out no to me is actually more preferrable.  its quick its easy and it negates the need to waste anymore time.  

i apologize.  its more than 3 but less than 5 providers that have did the whole 45+ age thing.  its more than a few for sure.  am i the problem?  id like to know as well.  but how am i the problem if ive never seen them?  you can look at my reviews and track down any of my providers that ive seen and ask them yourself.

no i dont have a big dick.  if you read my reviews alot of my encounters do not involve FS.  its not enjoyable to me and nor do i really feel any sensation of being inside a women.  yes this is due to my porn induced ED.  but i try and make up for my short comings and try and help my provider enjoy the time we have together rather than make it all about me.  ive had maybe less than 5 of my encounters be about me if memory serves me right. and most of the time its due to the provider not being into cunnilingus.  but hey since we are going with the idea of i am the problem.  lets just say i am completely shit in the department of going down on the woman while we are at it.

and yes i understand that you as a provider reserves the right to set forth any boundaries / stereotypes.  thats fine with me.  cuz i have certain specifications id like to have in my provider as well.  it goes both ways.

and yup i have moved on.  i just wanted to ask the community to see what was so special about 45+.  i do remember that the providers that ive dealt with specify 45+.  thats why.
Posted By: JuliasLittleSecret
we then immediately send all of your future e-mails to spam so that we don't have any back-and-forth nonense with you...i.e., we don't see any more e-mails from you.  
   
 Don't shoot the messenger, I'm just stating the truth.  
   
 If you have had several women suddenly tell you they're only seeing me over 45, you are DEFINITELY the problem.  You may not think so, but you may need to re-evaluate your encounters.    
   
 If you are respectful, is the "quality (you) possess that (you) had no control over" a very large dick that many ladies do not want to deal with?  (If so, please contact me, LMAO.)  
   
 Or do you want to pound the hell out of a lady for an hour or two straight, saying please and thank you at the beginning and end of your meeting??  (If so, probably don't contact me unless you're an Italian God, LOL)  
   
 Personally,I don't like to see guys under 40 because most of them have grown up watching so much porn that it's the only way they know how to have sex.  I am not a porn star, nor do I have any desire to be, so those guys are not what I want walking through my door, and I feel like I'm saving both of us a lot of disappointment not seeing them...and after 5 years of doing this, I feel I am more than qualified to set a stereotype if I see fit.  
   
 In the end, if she's not responding to you, move on to another lady who meets your desires and check her profile and reviews to ensure she's into the same services you are.  Hopefully you'll meet someone who enjoys the same pleasures and both of you can be fully satisfied.  
 

Eighth_Sin 47 Reviews 254 reads
posted
14 / 33
Re: Moments like these....

everything you are saying i completely agree.  HOWEVER if the client stands up a provider.  INSTANT BLACKLIST.  no 2nd chance or whatever.  from the stories ive heard.  but when a provider does the same im just stating MY frustration.  and wanted a opinion.  45 seems to be a magic number and i just wanted to know why thats all. it will be 15 yrs before i get there so its a long wait.

Posted By: SoapMactavish
You have to remember what world you are in.  This is the hobby/provider world.  Sometimes, odd, flaky, and discriminatory things go down.  
   
 Both hobbyist and providers do it.  Hobbyist have superficial preferences such as age, ethnicity, height, body shape, weight, eye color, length of hair, hair color, and the list goes on.  A lady can be super hot but a hobbyist can have a foot fetish and think "no, I wont see her again, her feet were too big".  
   
 Providers are "allowed" to be just as superficial.  Seems hypocritical to believe otherwise.  
   
 You are looking at this world the wrong way.  You can't look at it the same way you would a customer service experience in the real world.  You have to have thicker skin and let it roll of your shoulders if you feel like the "customer service" is a little shady and move on.  It really is pointless to complain.  There's no manager you can ask to speak to in this world.  
   
 You are upset because you got your hopes up but then was let down.  An emotional rollercoaster.  It's happened to all of us.  Last minute cancellation, that bums you out.  Or the disappointment of a provider you have seen several time just dropping off the radar.  
   
 The nature of the beast sometimes.  I'm not saying don't be human and not feel annoyed but it really shouldn't last more than 10 mins before you are thinking "okay, which one of these plethora of wonderful ladies can I see next".

Eighth_Sin 47 Reviews 256 reads
posted
15 / 33
Re: it is my personal sexual preference...

can i correctly assume that this isnt directed towards me?  see as i have than one review im going to bank on a yes.  sorry its hard to see whom you quoted.

Posted By: JuliasLittleSecret
"One incident was when she got really sick.  
 2nd time she was heading out of town for the recent holidays.  
 3rd time she drops the "sorry i recently made the decision to see only men 45 and over" bomb on me."  
   
 Ok, so the only real cancellation I see is the first, and maybe it was because she decided, for whatever reason, she did not want to see him.  And maybe after that she was just trying to blow him off.  
   
 Whatever the reason, you only have one review, so if you are really that new to all of this you probably haven't had to deal with the ongoing debate with men who you have decided you do not want to see.  
   
 If that's the case, come back here and tell us how you feel about that in a couple of years...then we will consider the merits of your post(s), if any.  
 

Eighth_Sin 47 Reviews 258 reads
posted
16 / 33
Re: She won't see you because of the way you write. It reveals...

i apologize i could care less about all the grammar nazis online.  the way i see if if you have a problem with me and my writing and its not an english class?  you got bigger problems later on in life pal.  short of combining numbers and letters and short hand abbreviation w/ "swagger" and correctly spelled words?  i think im doing just fine.  seems your writing style is the same as mine there buddy.  black pot cant call the kettle black if you know what i mean XD

incoming salt is more or less incoming complaint or some frustration / anger, etc.  
Posted By: BigPapasan
...a lot about you - your age, your education, etc.  "incoming salt?"  WTF is that?

Eighth_Sin 47 Reviews 261 reads
posted
17 / 33
Re: dude, move on

i like the the pun good sir.

actually we had a set date twice.  the third time was "when i get back from the holidays".  the first time on the day of our date she "woke up very sick".  thats fine.  2nd time after the date she call me back 2 days later and said she was leaving town for the holidays.  third time there was no date set but after i waited and contacted her after the holidays PER HER REQUEST / INSTRUCTIONS, she drops that 45+ age bomb on me.  not cool nor courteous.  

not so much angry here.  just some salt and annoyed you know?  wouldnt be anything if it was random numbers but the 3-5 provider that used the age bomb all said 45+.  and yes i typically do feel better find another lady to see.  HOWEVER i have a thing called loyalty and once i lock in or correspond with a provider about an appointment and shes interested then its like a burning desire to see ONLY them unless i will go along time without seeing another provider thats when i break off and see someone else till i am able to see that one provider again.

i didnt demand answers.  i simply MAY ask why?  but if she chooses to ignore me or whatever that just tells me all i need about her as a person and as a provider.  but its usually nice to know if i did or said anything wrong so as to avoid that possible mistake in the future with another provider.
Posted By: BigPeterJohnson
tbh it sounds like all 3 excuses were just that... excuses.  i don't think she wants to see but doesn't have balls (lol) to say it to your face.  
   
 remember, providers are, at their cores, women.  women change their mind.  
   
 also, i didn't really see that she actually cancelled a confirmed date... just a "maybe we can get together" and then, no it didn't work out.  
   
 dude, wait til you actually meet a confirmed date in her parking garage and she says to your face, "no, i cant' do this" and shines you on.  or wait til your confirmed date set 2 weeks ago phones you in your uber when you are a mile away and says "i can't make it i thought it was for 2 hours from now" because (as it turns out from her next review) she was with a guy who extended his 2 hours into 4 hours.  both happened to me in the last 2 months.  
   
 am i angry?  no.  (i was miffed, but i got over that).  finding new ladies to play with really soothes the pain. and that's all this is about.  playing. don't take it personal, because, dude, i can assure you, the ladies are not taking it personal.  
   
 but in answer to your question, guys over 45 don't demand answers when a provider says no.  they move on.  we know life is too damn short to waste getting upset over p4p.

BigPeterJohnson 38 Reviews 232 reads
posted
18 / 33
Re: dude, move on

sorry i misunderstood about the set dates.

but, there's never an answer to why.  just chalk it up to the "no strings attached" part of p4p.

and truly, dude, it's her loss.

FatVern 226 reads
posted
19 / 33
Like the ladies write all their own ads...

and website drivel, or do not run it through the grammar check. Congratulations to them for their/their effort.

There have been two touring ladies who have visited my area, both of whom have blown off my attempts at booking with them on a few occasions.  I have since moved on, thanks for the advice.
Posted By: BigPapasan
...a lot about you - your age, your education, etc.  "incoming salt?"  WTF is that?

hbyist+truth=;( 406 reads
posted
20 / 33
I disagree.

From his post I doubt she is thinking Oh my , my loss. I think she might be thinking...good call. His post says volumes about him too. And if 3-5 hookers have bailed we might not be hearing the truth from him and his approach. He seems to be the common denominator.

And I highly doubt if given a reason he will leave it at that. I feel he will continue to press his POV in the hopes the hooker will cave....a very good reason why I personally send back a no thank you we are not a good match and then block....the "whys" can get very messy.

SoapMactavish 10 Reviews 245 reads
posted
21 / 33
As a Hobby Youngin' myself

I think it's a dumb stereotype myself. And the number 45? I guess it just sounds good. A big number and right in the middle of 40.

People are inconsiderate assholes or awesome regardless of age. That doesn't change  because someone hit a magic number of age.

But like all stereotypes, there's flaws in the logic.

But you have to understand we are a minority so when one of us fucks up it easier to make the rest of us look bad and it perpetuates the stereotype. Then we get lumped all together, even though statistically there really arent more ass holes under 35 than there are over 45. But because we are a minority the misconception can be created.

No different than any other social minority group phenomenon.

nothrofboston 24 Reviews 207 reads
posted
22 / 33
Maybe this'll help down the road. ..

being 60+, i can only be empathetic, but I use cancellations as an opportunity to show a woman that I really want to see, how much I really want to see her. And it's not because I'm so coy. No, most of the woman here can smell bullshit before you finish your second sentence.  

So, while not answering your question per se about why 45, perhaps my post can give you some insight into how to ACT 45. lol  You know, overcoming an obstacle. Just like IRL

Instead of challenging her, I try something respectful and creative, hoping to reach the woman in her. Znd no, im not always successful. Escorts are women first and not machines. They have lives, get sick, have families and just bad days that don't intersect with our availability. And yes, it does suck, but when it works out, you feel like you know a bit about each other and that's usually a very good thing. Many (most?) appreciate your patience and perserverence, but not by being a nuisance. You may find they are actually looking forward to meeting with you.  

As for a big dick, I was with someone very tight for the 3rd time the other night who commented on my largess, asking me if any escort EVER did not see me again because of my cock size. After some thought, I told her I can't say say it has happened. But size doesn't matter for man providers. What I wouldn't give for a smaller dick, more DT and less teeth! Sometimes.  

You know, they say 50 is the new 40. How young are you and how young do you look and act? (HINT?) And btw, if you're under 45 and have ED from watching TOO much porn, then you watch TOO MUCH porn! Find a hooker! Oh? Christ, they make drugs for ED, don't they?  

There are plenty of guys here that are quite successful with more experience and money than me, that can make suggestions in fewer words. Not my strong suit .... 😕 Hope this helps even if you have to wait until your 45

MasterZen 34 Reviews 273 reads
posted
23 / 33
I can damn near guarantee that it is not your age in years...

but your age in terms of maturity that caused the lady to change her mind about seeing you.

Your story speaks to an aggressive insistence upon seeing this provider, and a sense of entitlement to see her on your part. I suspect that she initially agreed to see you, and then became wary and uncomfortable as you continued to communicate insistently with her. Your post says volumes about your ability to accept a simple "no", and thus might present the perception that you would not accept a "no" in the bedroom.  

Everyone in this game has heard "no" before. Most have had a NCNS. Justified or not, fair or not, presented honestly or covered in a white lie... how we handle that "no" is a function of maturity and respect. You have the choice to handle the situation more graciously than she seems to have done

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 227 reads
posted
24 / 33
Yup.

There's definitely more to this story. There's just no way that 3-5 ladies would all coincidentally decide to suddenly institute an age minimum during communications with this particular guy.  

And I agree, he's exactly the kind of guy who won't accept her explanation without at least attempting to convince her why she's "wrong."

Oh and every time I've rejected someone only to be met with a reply of "your loss," it has only bolstered my confidence in my choices.  
Posted By: hbyist+truth=;(
From his post I doubt she is thinking Oh my , my loss. I think she might be thinking...good call. His post says volumes about him too. And if 3-5 hookers have bailed we might not be hearing the truth from him and his approach. He seems to be the common denominator.  
   
 And I highly doubt if given a reason he will leave it at that. I feel he will continue to press his POV in the hopes the hooker will cave....a very good reason why I personally send back a no thank you we are not a good match and then block....the "whys" can get very messy.

Jackbenimble17 181 Reviews 210 reads
posted
25 / 33
Re: Hand up ... over 50 ....

Julia will rock your world, she did mine! Just saying...

Eighth_Sin 47 Reviews 213 reads
posted
26 / 33
thank you all for the input!

thank you for the replies.  keep em coming!  all advice and points of views are great!  both negative and positive.  says "volumes" about the ppl here too!  XD

anyways would i love to get that provider on here so she can defend her case?  sure.  am i allowed to call her out?  no.  and i wouldnt.  there are certain things us clients / supposed gentlemen shouldnt do.

oh even though this is a late correction.  maybe those that think i am the common denominator due to 3-5 providers changing their minds.  its actually over the course of my last 5 years that this happened.  with a estimate of approx. 25 seen providers.  not that it matters but hey.  you do you guys and gals.  assume away.  i told you my story as best i could and i wanted opinions.  sorry if i cant offer anymore.  

the hobby is just that... a hobby.  you WILL run into scrubs and scum that hear what they want to hear and the common captain save-a-hoes as demonstrated here on this post.  all in good sport.

i just asked a question and stated the facts as best i could.  sorry those of you that are closed minded immediately just went to the providers side.  there was no witch hunt here.  unless its me.  bring on the stakes and fire boys

nothrofboston 24 Reviews 195 reads
posted
27 / 33
Glad you didn't use an alias ... e


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nothrofboston 24 Reviews 237 reads
posted
28 / 33
Young guys, you gain experience by aging, the hobby is like IRL ...

You've entered the hobby in the electronic age, when it's easy  
to find anything at the tip of your fingers. This obviously benefits
providers exponentially. .. as well as us. Don't be spoiled little brats!

So don't fool yourself for a minute that you already know what you
will when you're 35, 45, 50 .... can you grasp this? Do you have a job, run a business, raise a family? Do you think you'll learn anything new over the next 5, 10, 15 years? You better. Same here.  

So if you think you're bringing something unique to the table that an experienced provider hasn't experienced already, open your eyes. It might just allow these amazing woman to bring you somewhere that you think you've already been too. I've learned SOOOO much in the past 12 months it's staggering. Shut up, lay back and hop on a magic carpet ride, but expect a few bumps in the road.

You'll look back in 15 years and understand ... exactly what you didn't understand but be wise enough to know there's more to learn.

SoapMactavish 10 Reviews 202 reads
posted
29 / 33
Excellent post. EOM


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nothrofboston 24 Reviews 196 reads
posted
30 / 33
smh .... sorta. e

Posted By: Eighth_Sin
thank you for the replies.  keep em coming!  all advice and points of views are great!  both negative and positive.  says "volumes" about the ppl here too!  XD  
   
 anyways would i love to get that provider on here so she can defend her case?  sure.  am i allowed to call her out?  no.  and i wouldnt.  there are certain things us clients / supposed gentlemen shouldnt do.  
   
 oh even though this is a late correction.  maybe those that think i am the common denominator due to 3-5 providers changing their minds.  its actually over the course of my last 5 years that this happened.  with a estimate of approx. 25 seen providers.  not that it matters but hey.  you do you guys and gals.  assume away.  i told you my story as best i could and i wanted opinions.  sorry if i cant offer anymore.    
   
 the hobby is just that... a hobby.  you WILL run into scrubs and scum that hear what they want to hear and the common captain save-a-hoes as demonstrated here on this post.  all in good sport.  
   
 i just asked a question and stated the facts as best i could.  sorry those of you that are closed minded immediately just went to the providers side.  there was no witch hunt here.  unless its me.  bring on the stakes and fire boys!  
   
 

Eighth_Sin 47 Reviews 252 reads
posted
31 / 33
Re: Young guys, you gain experience by aging, the hobby is like IRL ...

whoa there cowboy... you lost me.  just asked a question and i dont think you even touched basis on anything.  kinda went off to deep space there dont ya think?  

no need for the shut up and lay back and what have you guy.  i just asked a question and wanted to know an opinion of others.  no bashing was given from my end.

but from the looks of things you sound like someone whos entitled to something.  cant say what but its an attitude thats negative in my book.  /cheers
Posted By: nothrofboston
You've entered the hobby in the electronic age, when it's easy  
 to find anything at the tip of your fingers. This obviously benefits  
 providers exponentially. .. as well as us. Don't be spoiled little brats!  
   
 So don't fool yourself for a minute that you already know what you  
 will when you're 35, 45, 50 .... can you grasp this? Do you have a job, run a business, raise a family? Do you think you'll learn anything new over the next 5, 10, 15 years? You better. Same here.  
   
 So if you think you're bringing something unique to the table that an experienced provider hasn't experienced already, open your eyes. It might just allow these amazing woman to bring you somewhere that you think you've already been too. I've learned SOOOO much in the past 12 months it's staggering. Shut up, lay back and hop on a magic carpet ride, but expect a few bumps in the road.  
   
 You'll look back in 15 years and understand ... exactly what you didn't understand but be wise enough to know there's more to learn.

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Re: She won't see you because of the way you write. It reveals...

the fact that you say "i could care less" means that you care but you could care less when you really mean that "you couldn't care less" This reveals that you don't have much in the way of language skills.lol

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Re: Young guys, you gain experience by aging, the hobby is like IRL ...

I tried to use analogies to communicate my message. It was meant to share info that seemingly hasn't resonated with you yet. I believe others were more direct and negative. More than several.

My message was to expand your opinion of your experience. Others saw it differently, and responded thusly. Mine was to put it into a context of time. You grasped that part at least?

No skin off my back. There's plenty of women who'll find you more appealing than over 45 men or 60+ like me. Even in conclusion, you thanked people for sharing in this forum, but I'm not sure how many believe you based on your retorts to their contemporaneous comments. Hey, live and learn. Or not.  

Good luck.

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