How do you handle this. Even thanked me for the appointment and saw friends who charge double what I charge......................UNREAL.

this is so stupid. Apparently I am running a charity.

If you see him again, roll him out into the hallway naked and lock the door.

If a client took back their money that they gave you. Then you are as stupid as you look.

If I saw you I'd do the same. Shit...

... an alias comes in handy.  

ALWAYS and I mean always get the money AWAY before you start the session! It makes me uncomfortable just leaving the money on the table while we do the session. In an outcall put your money in your bag and close your purse and leave it near you. In an incall .. girl you have other rooms besides the room you will be spending the time in so get the donation up front and hide it in the kitchen! Lol you never know.. there's no reason for him to go to your kitchen when his done.

Do you perhaps have "doormat" tattooed on your forehead?

remove the words, "money back guarantee" from her website.  Just a suggestion.

Sounds like that may be the problem.

What the fuck she plans on doing after he gets up is quite a different matter though.

how hard it is to maintain an erection after you're been tasered.

Neither one even close to a guarantee. Ladies, please don't listen to Lisa Lang.  

Did you just watch him do that and not say anything?
Did you not find out until after the fact?
Could it have been an honest mistake like NoYellowEnvelope mentioned?
 

It is possible it was a mistake and one he would gladly rectify. If he isn't willing to correct the issue then you must warn others. This is why blacklist sites exist. Out his ass on several of them. Things like theft of service is exactly why those sites are needed. You ladies must warn each other. Your the best protection you ladies have.

you'll find some guys who get better erections after a good jolt

is at best getting your ass kicked, at worst ending up getting yourself, or any woman foolish enough to listen to the likes of you or JLS, killed over a few hundred or few thousand dollars.

I know that you never saw me. Cause I have not seen anyone from this site since my last review on here.

I too recommend carrying a non lethal means of defense such as a Taser or Pepper spray, but these should be considered "defensive" weapons ONLY, when your very life is in danger and should NEVER be used as an offensive weapon as if things go wrong, as they often do in the heat of the moment, they tend to escalate matters and put your very life in jeopardy.

I won't do that again.

and not another female monger like lopaw, "she" is the OP who had a "client" steal her money.

First of all, I have been doing this for 19 to 21 years and I know that it's not a mistake when a Hobbyist "Client" grabs the money off of where it is sitting and places it in his/her pocket. The Hobbyist figures that he/she does it on purpose. And as provider......I keep a safe box locked up with the cash in it and the key near by. So, that the Hobbyist does not take the cash back. 9times out of 10 (5% to 25% out of 100%)  the hobbyist feels that he should not have to pay for the sex(As if we are required to just give it up because we need the sex just as much as a man). Just my opinion!!!  
 I've come across men like this more so then none. My suggestion is get a safe box(put the cash in it and hid the safe box) and keep the key hidden where only you'll find it. And later on get a bank account or if you already have one then deposit that cash into the bank account.

No amount of money is worth getting into a physical altercation.  Just let it go.  Money can be easily replaced.

Are you sure about that grasshopper?

I don't think you thought this one through. I don't think a  woman should ever put themselves into a position of having to overpower a man that simply wants your money or possessions. I know the advice by experts with carjackers is to give up your car and let the police handle it as your car can be replaced. I think the advice in this case would be the same. You however are much more important than any "thing" and you cannot be replaced. Just one person's opinion.

That's a new one on me.  I've heard of pepper spray made from cayenne peppers and such, but this is the first time I've heard of it being made from regular black pepper.  Or maybe you meant that it's supposed to be used on black guys?

Because your advice, if taken literally is likely to get some poor girl hurt very badly.  

"How To Keep His Balls In Your Purse 101?"  As you know, when you have his balls in your purse his heart and mind will follow.

And I am sorry but its US, along with the self defense experts on one side, and YOU, all by your little lonesome, on the other.

but I would damn sure return to make it right.  I generally have the donation in my key pocket... so I can't get my keys out without finding it.  My preferance is to empty my pockets, just like I do at home, on the corner of her dresser...  so things don't fall out of a pocket & get lost (happened on a civie date).  
The FIRST THiNG out is the donation which will be under my pocket junk...  and will remain on her dresser after I have re-dressed.  I had one gal...  I'd seen a few times but not recently...  who got freaky after the action & swooped in to claim her prize...  That was the only time I've had it questioned.  Admittedly it is old school.      
On first dates, we don't know each other yet & I understand if they want to conduct business first.  Some will not remove the donation & others will.  She is certainly within her rights if that's what she wants to do.  There are a number of places where cash can be put that are out of sight & not in a direct line to the door.    
It's not right for a provider to "Cash & Dash"...  It's also not alright for a client to do it either.  I agree it's unwise to get into a physical confrontation with a larger person, it might be worth trying to challenge him "What are you doing?" before he gets to the door.  You might get between him & the door BUT I would not block it to the extent that he can't go around if he's going to push his way out. (A trip to the ER & injuries could put you out of business for many days.)  
I've heard of theives who actually went into her pocketbook to retrieve the money...  Outrageous!  

What you "Do" is none of our business, what you tell others to do most definitely is our business as "some" of us really do care what happens to the ladies that read these posts, our rather harsh words at times aside.

The OP doesn't mention envelopes but others do.  So I'm wondering ...

she could move in with me.  

want to mention looks.

If a guy weighs twice as much as you, you might get one good punch in, but that will likely be all. This could easily evolve it from a minor physical confrontation to something far worse. I suggest getting yourself a Mace gun (IF legal in your state) for defense, but NEVER for offense. I am very pro-2nd Amendment (with CPL), but I think a provider with an offensive weapon at an incall (or carried outcall) is an accident waiting to happen.

Because if you just give them everything they will leave you alone  
and not beat the shit out of you  
or kill you just because ... thems the rules  
and every douche bag "expert" on here knows that.  

Posted By: JackDunphy

I won't do that again.  
   
 Ask ANYONE in the field of self defense/self preservation and the advice is unless your life is at stake, or you fear severe bodily harm, you give the robber/thief any material thing they wish.  
   
 Of course this is common sense but unfortunately for you they don't sell it on QVC.  
   
 Go visit the morgue sweetie to see how many woman overpower their male thieves on any given day.  
   
 And please, give the "Super Woman" complex a much needed day off. All your doing is endangering women in the biz with your dumbass advice and confusing the shit out of Mr Fissure.

My money is on JLS. She'd beat you like a little drum ...  grasshopper. There are fit women on here who could make most of you soft Weasels cry for you mommies. No wonder you urge them to just give it up. Bigger and fatter does not mean badder.  Many of you "experts" need to go review the "fight science" videos so you can realize just how much damage a human can do to another human.  
 

When I drop off the envelope, I immediately excuse myself to "wash my hands".  Then I go inside the bathroom, close the door behind me, and actually wash my hands.  I have a good reason for that; I usually take public transit to appointments, and we all know how filthy it can be.  So not only does it give the provider a chance to check the envelope, it also ensures I have clean hands before touching her.  More often than not, I found the envelope already pocketed when coming out of the bathroom.

I don't care what you see in the movies. It's virtually impossible for the average 100 lb woman to generate enough force to take down a 250 lb man, unless she gets lucky with a swift kick to the balls and even then if the man can even get so much as a single hand on her, she's toast. Technique and pressure points are important, but you still have to be able to generate enough force to take someone down, no matter where you hit them, and a couple of self defense classes are not going to give the average woman even a snowballs chance in hell of taking down a man with a hundred pound of body weight on her.

I heard he is working on the courage (or is it permission?) to finally write that review of JLS. LOL

You're neither a "man" nor "grown" grasshopper. Only punks talk shit and you're all talk.  

Your obtuseness is only rivaled by your dim witted and insipid remarks.  

But it's tough to be a bad ass with your balls in some old woman's purse. I suppose that's a big part of why he is angry.  

You are the only one who thinks you have "brains".  
The rest of us here know you are an insecure, little, joke, Grasshopper.
Yes, we laugh at you because you think people believe your Bullshit - pathetic little boy.  
 

How much did Bruce Lee weigh?

een taking Bullshit lessons from GaG, I see.  
Just because you say it does not mean people believe it.  
 

Especially bullshit posted from  
 Cowards who hide with alias names.  

The ultimate refuge of a pussy who has no real rebuttal.  Weak.

AND Bruce Lee spent 100+ hours a week in the gym so he could generate enough power to take down someone twice his size. Not to mention NOBODY is as bad IRL as Bruce Lee was in the movies, I suppose you think Arnold is bullet proof IRL like he is in the movies too? My God, please start stalking Jake instead of me, I have plenty of other stalker no where near as dumb as you. Jake OTOH likes his stalkers stupid. The two of you would be a perfect fit.

You certainly seem to be stalking me, especially of late.  And you certainly are dumber than a bag of hammers.  In fact, you are too dumb to qualify as one of my stalkers, so please go back to stalking DREW's lame ass.  I'll take fatty and FG any day over your dense attempts at wit.

I think Scooter Boy is still all butt hurt after getting slapped around so many times and he asked to borrow his balls back so he could make one last, feeble attempt at regaining his manhood, epic fail.

If you go back and check the number of times you've brought my name up lately you'll see how obvious it is that I am your stalkee. Of course I really can't blame you but the least you can do is man up and admit it. It's already obvious to everyone else.

I think is a huge insecurity of that person they are weak on the inside so they act like a jerk and put other people down to hide the little person inside. What do you think, Grasshopper?