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So let me get this straight.confused_smile
JackDunphy 818 reads
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Immediately upon hearing that ALL of your family was called by your ex to tell them you are a hooker, your first reaction was to come on the national GD board? Ok...

And your family's initial reaction is to throw the "worst of stories" back in your face? Not shock? Not "are you ok"? Hmmmm...

And your family took as gospel what your ex had to tell them from jump street?

"Ismell" something too, just not sure if it's turkey

ismellturkey1919 reads

An ex screwed my life up and called all of my family right now to let them know what I do as a job. Which I should have expected of course. They have been calling me with the worst of stories and heading my direction of town. Has this happened to any other ladies? I don't want to hear from any men's advice. I am not in Provider's only. I'm just so upset and lost. Thank you.

JackDunphy819 reads

Immediately upon hearing that ALL of your family was called by your ex to tell them you are a hooker, your first reaction was to come on the national GD board? Ok...

And your family's initial reaction is to throw the "worst of stories" back in your face? Not shock? Not "are you ok"? Hmmmm...

And your family took as gospel what your ex had to tell them from jump street?

"Ismell" something too, just not sure if it's turkey

ismellturkey544 reads

Long story I won't discuss. They tried to drive to see me and discuss it immediately. They found out I danced from another person who followed my car. They thought this was a new low for me. I was hoping to possibly hear advice from providers.

Posted By: JackDunphy
Immediately upon hearing that ALL of your family was called by your ex to tell them you are a hooker, your first reaction was to come on the national GD board? Ok...  
   
 And your family's initial reaction is to throw the "worst of stories" back in your face? Not shock? Not "are you ok"? Hmmmm...  
   
 And your family took as gospel what your ex had to tell them from jump street?  
   
 "Ismell" something too, just not sure if it's turkey.  
 

That was where the mistake happened.

I understand their concern if you are being trafficked, but if this is your choice you have to live with it. Yes, it can be embarrassing for your loved ones to find out, but they will get over it. You have to be more thoughtful and confident with your decisions if you can truly manage to think independent of other's opinions. A tough cookie to swallow, but they will get over it. It's great they are concerned but reassure them that you know the safe ways to play and this is your decision. Obviously you got into the hobby out of need....either sexual or financial. Whatever made you do it is the guns you need to stick to. If they can't accept it, you should find supportive friends who can help get you through. If you like what you do, don't shy away from it.....embrace it! And if they really love you, they will support your decision to continue or quit.

It is life the people who shun you are they willing  to pay your Bills if not tell them
To shut up and live with what  do unless they are Prepared to change your life.

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