If I were ismellturkey, I would be very careful in how I conducted business. I would take new photo to hide my features, especially any identifiable tattoos. I wouldn't post a phone number that could be traced back to me. After my mother found out I was providing, I started using Google Voice (then knows as Google GrandCentral). I would change the title of my ads frequently and change the wording.
I've been waiting for my mom to apologize to me for 25 years (I'm 31 years old) If she was going to make amends, it would've happened before now. She's so screwed up emotionally, it's a wonder she can even function. I brought my current landlord over to her house for a short visit. She said if I came over to her house with him again , then she would leave me standing outside her door. She wouldn't even look my landlord in the eye...and he's one of the nicest guys I've ever known. She has a near abnormal aversion to strangers. My LL is a stranger to her...but she gave him the cold shoulder and acted if he was a walking disease that she should stay away from. She said I should've stayed in Corona, Queens...problem with that was my roommates were backstabbers who talked about me behind my back and when they found out I was a provider, they gave me grief for it. Even their boyfriends were asking me if I had a pimp, where was I going and who was I having sex with. I had their boyfriends banned from the premises due to them being sexually inappropriate. The girlfriend blamed me for his actions, saying I was sexually suggestive towards him. I had no interest in him at all. After that incident, I moved out. And my mom said to me that living with them would be better than where I'm living now, that I made "a bad decision" in moving so "far away" from NYC and that I didn't think things through before I moved. Sorry for the long post, but being outted really hit a sore spot with me.
An ex screwed my life up and called all of my family right now to let them know what I do as a job. Which I should have expected of course. They have been calling me with the worst of stories and heading my direction of town. Has this happened to any other ladies? I don't want to hear from any men's advice. I am not in Provider's only. I'm just so upset and lost. Thank you.
Immediately upon hearing that ALL of your family was called by your ex to tell them you are a hooker, your first reaction was to come on the national GD board? Ok...
And your family's initial reaction is to throw the "worst of stories" back in your face? Not shock? Not "are you ok"? Hmmmm...
And your family took as gospel what your ex had to tell them from jump street?
"Ismell" something too, just not sure if it's turkey
Long story I won't discuss. They tried to drive to see me and discuss it immediately. They found out I danced from another person who followed my car. They thought this was a new low for me. I was hoping to possibly hear advice from providers.
Posted By: JackDunphy
Immediately upon hearing that ALL of your family was called by your ex to tell them you are a hooker, your first reaction was to come on the national GD board? Ok...
And your family's initial reaction is to throw the "worst of stories" back in your face? Not shock? Not "are you ok"? Hmmmm...
And your family took as gospel what your ex had to tell them from jump street?
"Ismell" something too, just not sure if it's turkey.
I understand their concern if you are being trafficked, but if this is your choice you have to live with it. Yes, it can be embarrassing for your loved ones to find out, but they will get over it. You have to be more thoughtful and confident with your decisions if you can truly manage to think independent of other's opinions. A tough cookie to swallow, but they will get over it. It's great they are concerned but reassure them that you know the safe ways to play and this is your decision. Obviously you got into the hobby out of need....either sexual or financial. Whatever made you do it is the guns you need to stick to. If they can't accept it, you should find supportive friends who can help get you through. If you like what you do, don't shy away from it.....embrace it! And if they really love you, they will support your decision to continue or quit.
It is life the people who shun you are they willing to pay your Bills if not tell them To shut up and live with what do unless they are Prepared to change your life.
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