TER General Board
Yeah this happens more than we think. I guess it shows that a girl who really thinks she's a 9/10, not only will be offended by an 8... but may take revenge.
I didn't expect any providers to respond to this actually. Because if a 10 girl did reply, it implies that she thinks she's a perfect 10 hot stuff and she might not want to appear "cocky"... although if a girl with mostly 10s claimed that she's a 10, then it's nothing more than telling the truth. Additionally, if she did admit to being disappointed by an 8... well same reason applies.
However, silence speaks volumes. Also, from the number of similar cases such as yours, I think it says a lot. 
If you live in the reality (or illusion) that you're a perfect 10 or at least a 9... and someone rates you an 8, how do you honestly feel?
I'm not referring to "I've seen it all so it doesn't affect me anymore", I'm referring to the initial reaction when this kind of stuff really affected you, perhaps emotionally, at the time. ( And in the world of TER, we all know that a 7 has become the new 'average' score rather than a 5. )
Did it hurt your esteem to see an 8
... or did you still feel you're a 9/10 and 'project it outward' just blowing it off thinking he must simply be "fockin" blind?
(that was an italian mobster accent BTW)
Long time ago, I witnessed an actual case where a girl was offended by a very solid "9" review when she wanted a 10. To make a long story short, she was so offended that she took revenge on the reviewer. A very beautiful lady IMO but she's not around here anymore. Don't be a dick asking me who cuz my lips are tighter than my untapped virgin ass.
Now I realize that was a rare case, but it got me thinking... cuz we all have a certain alterego or image thinking that we're pretty unique, different, and attractive in our own way.
IMO, TER ratings have boiled down to 7 being average, 8 being acceptable or above average.... 9 being very pretty... and 10 being perfect. So there isn't much room for anything. Also, if one gives a bad rating to a girl less than 8, or worse, less than 7, the guy won't have much luck being welcomed by that agency again so it seems rare for someone who intends to stick around giving such low scores.
Another thing about looks is that, and I know some guys may disagree... but to me, 99% of the girls never get anything above a 9 on initial visit no matter how pretty... because there's this thing called inner beauty (or maybe just growing fonder and getting used to her) that really makes the girl prettier... closing that 1 point gap to a 10... or, on the flipside, makes her uglier if she's being a nasty bitch giving me attitude all the time, dropping her down a notch to an 8 or even a 7. Maybe it's just me but that's honestly how a lady appears to me in my two eyes.
To put a number on ME, I don't even like to think about it. I know for a fact that I was hot stuff in my younger days cuz civvy girls called me out of the blue left and right 'just to talk' when I'm not even much of a smooth-on-the-phone kinda guy. Of course, fast forward a decade or two I'm pretty damn sure I'd be lucky if I was 8.0 now. lol Yet it would hurt my esteem and pride, breaking down the illusion that I live in to hear less than a 9.
Bottom line is, putting myself in a women's shoes, I personally would not like being rated AT ALL.... cuz I think I'm a unique individual. Of course, this is the hobby and it's a review board so we're forced to give numbers.
Apparently, our choice of numbers has boiled down to only an 8, 9 or 10 if we want to stick around and not get bad-mouthed.
Yeah this happens more than we think. I guess it shows that a girl who really thinks she's a 9/10, not only will be offended by an 8... but may take revenge.
I didn't expect any providers to respond to this actually. Because if a 10 girl did reply, it implies that she thinks she's a perfect 10 hot stuff and she might not want to appear "cocky"... although if a girl with mostly 10s claimed that she's a 10, then it's nothing more than telling the truth. Additionally, if she did admit to being disappointed by an 8... well same reason applies.
However, silence speaks volumes. Also, from the number of similar cases such as yours, I think it says a lot.
That was in no way, shape, or form at 10, or close to it. I gave her a great review, and was generous, even by newbie standards, as to her physical appearance. She got pissed that I didn't give her a 10, and she was maybe a 7 on a good day, three years earlier, pre Morton Steak house dinners with mashed potatoes with clients.
Since then, I've met some 9's, a few 10's, and mostly find that the really great looking ones think their good looks will allow them to basically lay there. It is pretty awesome though when you get those rare dates when the great looks, killer bod, and awesome performance align just right.
It's kind of funny, one of the ladies I see most often these days, took some pictures of her the last time she was over. Totally informal, wasn't planning on taking them, had a new camera basically. When I saw her pictures on it thought, wow, she is not that hot really, but man, is she a great lay. Ad to that the fact she is fun to be with, and not a bullshitter means inner beauty I guess, so even though she might be 7 for you, she is a 10 for me.
Still, just so you know, since that Vegas review, I am way more honest in my reviews, and have not seen any 10's lately
Ive had girls apply to me that were IMHO a 2 and thought they were perfect and figured they should be at a rate of $500/hour and up. This is not the industry for a girl to be thin skinned. Whats the saying? "Show me a beautiful woman and I'll show you a guy whos tired of fucking her" One guy may think Angelina Jolie is a 10 another guy will think shes a 1. Not every guy in the world is going to think every girl is gorgeous. Just my .02