How can a guy find a session so good for him, the connection, the acts etc., yet the hooker has the opposite feeling yet he has no clue

We are paying you. If the Ritz Carlton doesn't get a warm and fuzzy feeling about my stay, and I have a great time chilling in their pad, what diff does it make to me?

Here's one particularly amusing example of it, and very apropos to our field:

That clueless pompous Engishmen ran an Empire in the 19th century.  He's a self righteous bastard who just doesn't give a shite because its all about HIM and his feelings and emotions.  He neither notices nor cares what the provider like or dislikes as long as he is having fun or deluding himself into thinking he is having fun.  The "little people" don't count for that clown.

That is the kicker...the next appointment that the hooker refuses because it was so bad and the trick really loved it and wants more. So much so that he talks about the fabulous connection and how hot it was.  

Are you one of HT's gents that NEVER goes on TER?

She's a really good actress and can fool a trick into believing she's into the session when she's not.  It's called GFE.

So what if some dude thinks there's a connection?  Seems like that's "his" problem.

My curiosity was with how can his version of events be so different from hers. Hey I have no issue with a john having it all for him, in fact I prefer that. In real life, it is give and take. The money is what changes that dynamic

I didn't think anyone other than me could travel in time and space.

Posted By: JackDunphy

Are you one of HT's gents that NEVER goes on TER?  
   
 Come on. You can tell us.

No...HT would draw a line there, I'm sure. Unless...

No one can be fooled into believing something they don't want to believe.  H+T is just another GFE gal that had some dude profess his undying love and servitude.  I suspect she's just another in a long list of other GFE gals he does that too.

Highlander?

It's the repeated 'so bad' that makes the question interesting.  Im sure GFE sessions are doled out daily to forgettable or even undesirable guys, but for it to be so bad on all levels and him to have no clue...sounds like the perfect alignment of a all-pro game face and total lack of self awareness and/or experience.

There's always the possibility the client wanted you to feel as if you actually did a good job.

is any connection other than sometimes just chewing the fat with a friendly or interesting person.  Sometimes I suspect that a provider feels a bit good for me that I got happy, kind of because many woman have an innate mothering instinct. No, that doesn't mean that I fantasize about screwing my mother.  

She is a lesbian who happens to be a thespian.

It seems like an occupational hazard of GFE.   If I'm reading it right, it's not so much that he's fallen in love with you, he hasn't crossed that boundary.  It's just that within the boundaries of GFE he liked what you gave him and wants more.  

I have before.

You give me a discount and Chotski's will be on me afterward. Lol.

I'm intrigued... Thanks for my next Kindle read, Mr. Fisher!

All about acting. Great actor= Repeat business and more money.   Emotionally stable guys are not usually delusional about this. Do I think she really wants to be with me… no. I am paying her to make me believe that… yes.  And the better job she does at that is what keeps me coming back for more.