After a session a provider asked me to not submit a review “Because I already have enough of them”, which she does (probably 50+).  Looking back I have a feeling she just does not want me to review her since the session was very lackluster and she is considered a “high end” provider charging very “high end” prices.  I want to respect her wishes but I have a bit of a feeling that other guys might want to know about this.

to come on here and admit you were conned by a high-end provider at VERY high-end prices who gave you a lackluster session.   Now, if you want to really help your fellow hobbyists, you should name her here.  Then a review is not necessary and you have done the right thing for everyone involved.

Since I don't write reviews I can't exactly preach to you that you have a "duty to the community", but it sounds like you REALLY want to write this review to keep other guys from parting with so much money, only to end up with so little for it, so let your conscience be your guide.

Not sure what the policy is today but you used to be able to review under your alias -- a quick check was unable to confirm this but you can ask TER or perhaps someone else responding to your query will answer. If you combine that with the fact you have 90 days to submit a review, just wait until around 80 days out and submit it then. She'll be less likely to notice. Anyway, it's your right to write a review.

Give it a month if you're concerned that she ties it to you based on recent activity. The only disadvantage to the alias is that mongers don't get the benefit of comparing your review history to the new review.

I dunno.  If I were you old timer I wouldn't be that concerned --- father time catches up to all of us.  A lot of guys have trouble getting it up.  You got a $600 massage.  It happens.  That said, you haven't written a review in like 8 years so you probably need some practice.  Just write the review.

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Post a review please. Include detailed analysis of why the session was lackluster. But be fair and balanced and include any positives about the provider and session as well. That way we can see your experience and compare it with the well-reviewed sessions. That’s my $0.02.

If I get nothing else out of this post, I at least got a good chuckle rom your comment.  I am not ready to be considered an old timer just yet 😂🤣😂

I did my first one in May, and it went right through.  

You will help your fellow mongers the most if you write your experience as it happened, and describe the provider and your satisfaction/dissatisfaction in details.

If not then you should write a honest review so that others can hopefully decide if they want to see her or not?
If you did agree to not review her and feel as if you want to keep your word then do as the others here have mentioned and give out her name here which is not a review>

Yep, a provider making you agree to not write a review should probably raise some alarm.

If she asked you not to, there may be other very legitimate reasons she doesn't want one, safety reasons, jealous ex's, the list goes on.

I work hard for my money.

I saw this FS Massage provider. I had been thoroughly screened. Early in the session, I'm face down, and I give a light caress to her leg. She says, "Please don't touch the massage therapist". It went downhill from there. She said a few other things that I found chilling. WTF?!

There has to be others that will better care for you.

Sorry if I gave the impression that I was trying to contact her. I was pretty pissed off, and I would never call her, too many other options.

Just to clarify:

Are you saying none of the providers you have already seen will see you again now? That seems odd given you don't seem to be a hard reviewer (never seen any of the girls you list so have no idea if you're being kind or generous in your scores).

One, that I experienced, was the lady was going back to be below the radar for personal reason and was telling ‘newly acquired’ customers she doesn’t need any more reviews and she was excellent in service.
Second, kinda similar, her cop husband was suspicious and he new about ter ... so ... she didn’t want any reviews.

Thanks. It happened less than a year ago. I'm not too worried. Yet. I suppose TER was available through a proxy, but, I didn't bother. No providers in my area got reviews for over a year.

Not sure why my response to you showed up under rocket's post....

If the cop husband knows her working name and can find it on TER, I think there might be other problems.

I see it. Thanks.

Anytime I have to make a decision like this, I look at the upsides and downsides overall, and then, as they may apply to me.

If writing a negative or mediocre review entails outing by a provider, what is the point of reviews ? Might as well get rid of them.

I'm not familiar with the acronym 'BSC'.  Please share?

I get the tired old response from others when I call somebody out about not contributing, "Well GaG doesn't write reviews, what about that!"  Its a bullshit response. You, GaG, contribute in other ways to the board, in a positive fashion. On another thread a guy says he has seen over a 1,000 women. Where are the reviews? Then the bullshit response, maybe its an alias. Then write some reviews under your alias, its there for a reason. Just venting a bit, obviously.

I am surprised that one is not listed in the acronyms in the TER manual.

It's on urbandictionary as the first result for BSC, so that's that.

No need to write a review.  She's high-end, and you didn't really enjoy the time you spent with her.  No details needed.  Just tell us who it was so someone else can save his money.

That  would wreck her Motus operandi!  I have noticed that as time goes by some providers have. Increased their donations while decreasing their performance/services.  You owe it to the other Hobbyists to write a fair review of what transpired.  That is why this forum was created.