I'm a natural guy and love the uniqueness. He'll I've had brain surgery for a tumor and have a big scar. I'm bald so people can see the scar. Strangely I like when people ask about mine but feel uncomfortable asking others about theirs.
Posted By: TarMassage
I recently saw a gentleman whose upper body had been pretty severely damaged in a childhood accident. His chest and his arms and back were scarred, and there were deep striations where his skin had thinned and healed.
I had never seen anything like that in person, but I found everything about his scarring to be so beautiful and so intriguing. As I touched his body, I found myself tracing the striations with my fingers and palming his skin so that I could feel the difference between his damaged and non-damaged skin. He seemed to enjoy the attention, and I certainly enjoyed giving it.
I have a scars from a fire that I was in as an adolescent. I have a couple of scars on my upper thigh and one on my stomach and a couple of very unique ones on my hand. Growing up, they made me very self conscious, and other than the scars on my hand, I hated for anyone to see them or to ask me about them.
As you can imagine, it's very challenging for me to hide my scars in this "profession", and when I started, I thought that they would be a turn off to the men that I would see. Or that I would have to explain why and I how I have them. I believed that they would be uncomfortable hearing about my story, there is nothing sexy about a childhood fire.
And while I have had a few unpleasant experiences, and a couple of gentleman have negatively commented about my scars, the vast majority have been so sweet in the way they've treated me regarding them. Most don't even seem to notice at all, but the one's that do have asked about them with genuine curiosity and empathy. The very special ones have kissed them and massaged them in such a tender way. I feel so amazing and affirmed as a beautiful, sexy woman in those moments, despite, and because of, my scars.
So, do you have scarring that makes you feel uncomfortable or self conscious?
Would you, do you, see a provider/hobbyist that has visible scars?
I'd really love to hear everyone's story.