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Saliva is enough lube!! IMHO (eom)
Khym_D_NYC See my TER Reviews 2072 reads
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You know, I've never had any complaints but this kinda makes me wonder...just a random Sunday evening thought.  

a good FB of mine the other day were messing around and i whip out my trusty bottle of silicone lube to make the BJ messier/sloppier. (what can i say, i like it sloppy super soaker style. if nothing is running down my chin, its not messy enough) When I whipped it out, the most amazing thing happened (amazing because i can't believe he said this)
"i don't like lube during BJ's....it desensitizes my dick." o.O

ookkayyy......maybe i'm slow on the uptake but i can't find anywhere that states silicone based lube can desensitize a dick. I've never had anyone say that. Maybe he wanted to cum quick (thus, cheating me out of getting mine). Maybe he was just being a jerk that day. Instead of pointing out to him that the brand of lube i use isn't meant for desensitization (and pointing out that he is full of bs) I put it away and made a mental note to ask around about this matter.  

so, my question is this....(and i know its a YMMV type thing)
does anyone know if silicone based lube can cause loss of sensitivity? has it happened to anyone? I know the warming/cooling lubes/lotions can cause this....but not a regular silicone based lube.  

might have to find a new FB.....if he doesn't like it "slip and slide" style then he and i cant be friends. smh and oh well.  

thanks all and have a great week!

Panthera12 1286 reads
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2 / 45

The one time I allowed it, she was taking a shortcut in an effort to make me cum faster and for her to use more hand then mouth. The lazy way out. I think I gave her a 4 in performance.

As far as desensitizing, for me it is just the opposite but it could be that he prefers more friction.

Khym_D_NYC See my TER Reviews 1134 reads
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3 / 45

kinda defeats the purpose of a bj.  

but that could be just me. thanks for the reply as it reminded me of something else. lol.  

thanks

1192967 45 Reviews 1182 reads
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4 / 45

...he just meant it didn't feel the same as without & he preferred without. As the previous poster suggested maybe he likes more friction.  

I've never had anyone use lube for BJ & don't see a reason for it. I know there are ladies that do enjoy giving a BJ but it seems to me the BJ is for him. Within your boundaries I'd say do it the way he likes it. I'd expect him to DATY the way you like it.

...and no I've never heard of regular lube causing desensitization.

Khym_D_NYC See my TER Reviews 1168 reads
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5 / 45

that i edited this one too.  

:)

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escalade1964 65 Reviews 1228 reads
posted
6 / 45

Except for a nuru massage..."F" that

Bostonguy57 48 Reviews 1134 reads
posted
7 / 45

It really has nothing to do with WHICH brand or type lube you are using.  Any lube will cause the problem.

lungman 10 Reviews 1312 reads
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8 / 45

Posted By: Khym_D_NYC
You know, I've never had any complaints but this kinda makes me wonder...just a random Sunday evening thought.  
   
 a good FB of mine the other day were messing around and i whip out my trusty bottle of silicone lube to make the BJ messier/sloppier. (what can i say, i like it sloppy super soaker style. if nothing is running down my chin, its not messy enough) When I whipped it out, the most amazing thing happened (amazing because i can't believe he said this)  
 "i don't like lube during BJ's....it desensitizes my dick." o.O  
   
 ookkayyy......maybe i'm slow on the uptake but i can't find anywhere that states silicone based lube can desensitize a dick. I've never had anyone say that. Maybe he wanted to cum quick (thus, cheating me out of getting mine). Maybe he was just being a jerk that day. Instead of pointing out to him that the brand of lube i use isn't meant for desensitization (and pointing out that he is full of bs) I put it away and made a mental note to ask around about this matter.  
   
 so, my question is this....(and i know its a YMMV type thing)  
 does anyone know if silicone based lube can cause loss of sensitivity? has it happened to anyone? I know the warming/cooling lubes/lotions can cause this....but not a regular silicone based lube.  
   
 might have to find a new FB.....if he doesn't like it "slip and slide" style then he and i cant be friends. smh and oh well.  
   
 thanks all and have a great week!

LunaNYC See my TER Reviews 1352 reads
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9 / 45

Saliva has always been more than enough for me, lol.

Khym_D_NYC See my TER Reviews 1306 reads
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10 / 45

although, i suppose the damage is already done.  

silly newbie mistakes. sigh.

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Khym_D_NYC See my TER Reviews 1098 reads
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AlexandraMilw See my TER Reviews 1140 reads
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12 / 45

Oh Rod, I don't know about you lol :D

GaGambler 1033 reads
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13 / 45

The last thing I want during a BJ is lube of any kind besides saliva.

If you really have a hard time generating wetness in your mouth, I can imagine how arid you must be "down there". I don't mean to be harsh, but maybe this is one of those times where it would have been wise for you to have used an  alias.

Khym_D_NYC See my TER Reviews 1128 reads
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14 / 45

and you werent harsh in your reply, just being honest. which is always, always appreciated. I will think before I post anything in the future. Can't have anything hurting my image/business you know. Silly me. I really should have used an alias. Maybe I can have the post removed and act like this never happened? I hope so. Silly me for not thinking this thru.  

thank you again for taking the time and consideration for a newbie.  

*making notes to self regarding posting on TER boards*

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justanillusion 1252 reads
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15 / 45

Some men induce vulval/vaginal aridity and there are many products on the market that can resolve such an issue. I am in agreeance with using an alias. Don't want the guys to think you'll never get wet for them.

Khym_D_NYC See my TER Reviews 996 reads
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16 / 45

I've got to be more careful. really. hopefully, not too many people read my stupid post. i really was curious about people's take on lube, got carried away. had no idea people could jump to the conclusion that a random dry mouth could lead to a forever desert for a vagina. that would be horrible, wouldn't it? how will i ever get clients posting stupid stuff like this?? smh.  

won't make this mistake ever again.  
#lessonlearned

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Dr Who revived 973 reads
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17 / 45

Of course it is  LOL

BTW...most hookers use KY gel beads.  It makes these johnnie boys think that the hooker is just dripping wet from them  :D

Don't worry...your secrets are safe with me!
Posted By: justanillusion
Some men induce vulval/vaginal aridity and there are many products on the market that can resolve such an issue. I am in agreeance with using an alias. Don't want the guys to think you'll never get wet for them.

Dr Who revived 1077 reads
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18 / 45

Otherwise you would know about cotton mouth.

As well as those munchies  :D

HookerWithAHeartOfTinFoil 1164 reads
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19 / 45

Of course if your dick is only 4 or 5 inches and really thin, you might not know this! ;)

 
"Q:  "Do you use any lubricant on your swords?"

A:  Many of us sword swallowers prefer our swords "au natural". We don't use anything on our swords or on our throats. Unless our throats are extremely dry, the saliva in the throat is usually lubricant enough to help the sword slide down.

Most sword swallowers, however, prefer to lick their swords with a little saliva to libricate them so they are not quite so dry before they swallow them.

Other sword swallowers use cooking oil, olive oil, or Japanese Kurobara Camellia oil to help the sword slide down. Some of us also use oils on our blades after the performance to help keep our blades lubricated and to protect them from pitting and rusting.

Panthera12 1023 reads
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20 / 45

Or did you forget about all of those other posts?  

You may have noticed that since your return, the GD board is a kinder and gentler board then it was back in 2010. No longer do we have train wrecks and obnoxious posters here. We are one big happy family now

Dr Who revived 1288 reads
posted
21 / 45

With all the toppings?

What's for dessert?  Clam chowder soup...seriously?  Do I have to eat it?
Posted By: HookerWithAHeartOfTinFoil
Of course if your dick is only 4 or 5 inches and really thin, you might not know this! ;)  
   
   
 "Q:  "Do you use any lubricant on your swords?"  
   
 A:  Many of us sword swallowers prefer our swords "au natural". We don't use anything on our swords or on our throats. Unless our throats are extremely dry, the saliva in the throat is usually lubricant enough to help the sword slide down.  
   
 Most sword swallowers, however, prefer to lick their swords with a little saliva to libricate them so they are not quite so dry before they swallow them.  
   
 Other sword swallowers use cooking oil, olive oil, or Japanese Kurobara Camellia oil to help the sword slide down. Some of us also use oils on our blades after the performance to help keep our blades lubricated and to protect them from pitting and rusting."  
   
 

Khym_D_NYC See my TER Reviews 1287 reads
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22 / 45

is that I should think before I post. typical newbie mistake to post something before thinking of all the ramifications. Can't post every random thing that pops in my head.  

I should use ObamaCare to keep my vagina and mouth as naturally wet as possible...good use of tax dollars.  

Explaining what cotton mouth is about is a great way to lose business/clients. damn, i really messed up with that one. how will i ever bounce back from that??

I guess it would be kinda pointless to post a "justification" or "explanation" or "defense" right? sigh.

stupid stupid noob mistake. this is my first time really posting anything on the GD board so i had no clue.  

thanks to all who replied and a special thanks to those who gave me such helpful posting tips!! I will use an alias next time.  

have a great week everyone.

Dr Who revived 1102 reads
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23 / 45

And just assumed it was a done deal.

But I guess she was a bit too quick on the draw.

We can check again in a few days and see if those old posts are still there  :D

Roger that?
Posted By: Panthera12
Or did you forget about all of those other posts?  
   
 You may have noticed that since your return, the GD board is a kinder and gentler board then it was back in 2010. No longer do we have train wrecks and obnoxious posters here. We are one big happy family now.    
   
 

Dr Who revived 961 reads
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24 / 45

Try not to out yourself too quickly...I know it's hard  LOL

Did you find any of those lemmings that I sent you?  I'm sure a few didn't follow the rest.
Posted By: Khym_D_NYC
is that I should think before I post. typical newbie mistake to post something before thinking of all the ramifications. Can't post every random thing that pops in my head.  
   
 I should use ObamaCare to keep my vagina and mouth as naturally wet as possible...good use of tax dollars.  
   
 Explaining what cotton mouth is about is a great way to lose business/clients. damn, i really messed up with that one. how will i ever bounce back from that??  
   
 I guess it would be kinda pointless to post a "justification" or "explanation" or "defense" right? sigh.  
   
 stupid stupid noob mistake. this is my first time really posting anything on the GD board so i had no clue.  
   
 thanks to all who replied and a special thanks to those who gave me such helpful posting tips!! I will use an alias next time.  
   
 have a great week everyone.

Khym_D_NYC See my TER Reviews 923 reads
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25 / 45

sigh. if one were to take the time to go back and read all those posts....i was known for my extreme sarcasm. (hint...that hasn't changed)

but i do like the big happy family thing. it is very awesome..and helpful. I was serious when i posted the original post.  

kinda shocked you took the time to look up those stats. darn it. i was going to have fun with the whole "newbie" thing.  

*going back to my corner to continue lurking*

Khym_D_NYC See my TER Reviews 1227 reads
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26 / 45

which sucks donkey. i come out my lurking corner and find one big happy family.  

its like....someone warned the lemmings there was a damn cliff ahead...and they veered to the right.  

but the original post was posted in seriousness. it was truly a random question i had in mind

no_email 3 Reviews 1157 reads
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27 / 45

Posted By: Khym_D_NYC
You know, I've never had any complaints but this kinda makes me wonder...just a random Sunday evening thought.  
   
 a good FB of mine the other day were messing around and i whip out my trusty bottle of silicone lube to make the BJ messier/sloppier. (what can i say, i like it sloppy super soaker style. if nothing is running down my chin, its not messy enough) When I whipped it out, the most amazing thing happened (amazing because i can't believe he said this)  
 "i don't like lube during BJ's....it desensitizes my dick." o.O  
   
 ookkayyy......maybe i'm slow on the uptake but i can't find anywhere that states silicone based lube can desensitize a dick. I've never had anyone say that. Maybe he wanted to cum quick (thus, cheating me out of getting mine). Maybe he was just being a jerk that day. Instead of pointing out to him that the brand of lube i use isn't meant for desensitization (and pointing out that he is full of bs) I put it away and made a mental note to ask around about this matter.  
   
 so, my question is this....(and i know its a YMMV type thing)  
 does anyone know if silicone based lube can cause loss of sensitivity? has it happened to anyone? I know the warming/cooling lubes/lotions can cause this....but not a regular silicone based lube.  
   
 might have to find a new FB.....if he doesn't like it "slip and slide" style then he and i cant be friends. smh and oh well.  
   
 thanks all and have a great week!

Dr Who revived 1039 reads
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28 / 45

Even though P outed you...most "lemmings" don't read that.

Trust me on that.  They just post away as if that big "WARNING...DANGER WILL ROBINSON" sign was not even there.

I can't tell you how often some of my pals put that warning up on my troll threads...and yet..the lemmings still fall into the abyss.

But yep...this is a much friendlier place to play now  :D
Posted By: Khym_D_NYC
which sucks donkey. i come out my lurking corner and find one big happy family.  
   
 its like....someone warned the lemmings there was a damn cliff ahead...and they veered to the right.  
   
 but the original post was posted in seriousness. it was truly a random question i had in mind.  
   
 

no_email 3 Reviews 1202 reads
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29 / 45

and yes I shave my cock, some hair grows on it.

I lose some sensitivity...So I could see this guy having an issue.

Khym_D_NYC See my TER Reviews 1351 reads
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30 / 45

will have a K in it.  

and NYC. or NY.  

you know i have to tell everyone what my alias will be. how else will they know its me?

Khym_D_NYC See my TER Reviews 1026 reads
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31 / 45

you take an actual razor to it or use hair removal cremes? or wax?  

i know guys with piercings lose sensitivity fairly quick but haven't heard of anyone shaving their cock.  

*adding that to my bucket list of stuff i must see

Dr Who revived 979 reads
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32 / 45

NOTKhym_D_NYC

Remember...the johns are dumb fucks and the hookers haven't graduated high school.
Posted By: Khym_D_NYC
will have a K in it.  
   
 and NYC. or NY.  
   
 you know i have to tell everyone what my alias will be. how else will they know its me?

Panthera12 1120 reads
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33 / 45

It took about 15 seconds, lol. I also have this thing called a memory.  

You didn't buy into that big happy family bit, did you?

Khym_D_NYC See my TER Reviews 1188 reads
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34 / 45

i feel all warm and wet now....i feel so special. someone actually took the time to look up how many posts i had (which....it should be way more than some damn 600 as i started posting back in June of 2009. I guess TER did delete some of them)

its not sarcasm if i have to explain that it's sarcasm, is it? sigh

Khym_D_NYC See my TER Reviews 1165 reads
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35 / 45

damn it you got me on that one...been lurking for a while and i really didnt see any train wrecks.  

not like the posts that used to take up the GD board. man.....

*stopping self from fucking down memory lane*

Khym_D_NYC See my TER Reviews 1021 reads
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36 / 45

lol. i was on here back in the days where i got worse than this on a damn post. are ya kidding?? this was pretty darn tame compared to back in the days.  

for some reason, it kinda disappoints me. sigh.

Khym_D_NYC See my TER Reviews 1006 reads
posted
37 / 45

wait...what hooker made it to high school??????????

i barely left the 4th grade. explains my horrible math skills. can't seem to divide anything except my legs.

Dr Who revived 1028 reads
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38 / 45

That seems to be a fun topic to play with  LOL

Oh...and be sure to start it with "And none of you assholes can comment on it".
Posted By: Khym_D_NYC
lol. i was on here back in the days where i got worse than this on a damn post. are ya kidding?? this was pretty darn tame compared to back in the days.  
   
 for some reason, it kinda disappoints me. sigh.

Dr Who revived 1084 reads
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39 / 45

You know...check out how reviews go.

If she is a 6...round to the nearest 10.

Same with educational accomplishments.
Posted By: Khym_D_NYC
wait...what hooker made it to high school??????????  
   
 i barely left the 4th grade. explains my horrible math skills. can't seem to divide anything except my legs.

Khym_D_NYC See my TER Reviews 1169 reads
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40 / 45

jump off that cliff. lol. i'm tempted....my favorite posts were always a client/provider rant about a provider/client. those would have like, 2000 reads and 500 replies in one hour.  

but this is enough for now.  

for now

Panthera12 955 reads
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Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 997 reads
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43 / 45

And it sounds to me you're working with what's available to make a man feel his best. Its a good question... I figured there may be a dry mouth issue? No bueno. :(

 As far as responses on the GD board, no matter what a pro or hob posts, he/she has to be ready to get s*** on this board BC people love to give it.  

It's a fun board if used with caution, but feelings can be damaged too. :(

Keep your chin up. :)
Posted By: Khym_D_NYC
is that I should think before I post. typical newbie mistake to post something before thinking of all the ramifications. Can't post every random thing that pops in my head.  
   
 I should use ObamaCare to keep my vagina and mouth as naturally wet as possible...good use of tax dollars.  
   
 Explaining what cotton mouth is about is a great way to lose business/clients. damn, i really messed up with that one. how will i ever bounce back from that??  
   
 I guess it would be kinda pointless to post a "justification" or "explanation" or "defense" right? sigh.  
   
 stupid stupid noob mistake. this is my first time really posting anything on the GD board so i had no clue.  
   
 thanks to all who replied and a special thanks to those who gave me such helpful posting tips!! I will use an alias next time.  
   
 have a great week everyone.

harborview 10 Reviews 1108 reads
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44 / 45

Never lube for a BJ...  at least not a BBBJ.  I've had intercourse with too much (high tech) lube and there was no friction & almost impossible to cum without friction.

no_email 3 Reviews 1278 reads
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45 / 45

will eradicate what ever hair that grows up the shaft?

 
I only shave my balls, to keep the cheese from sticking to them.

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